I am a newbie to the hobby, and I met a provider a few months ago, and we really seem to click... she is very intelligent and attractive, and I think I develop feelings for her very quickly (don't know if they are real, or simply an illusion created by the fact that she was by far the best sex I have ever had in my life). After a few meetings, we had another date, and near the end of my time with her, we were cuddling, and she was laying on top of me... I was bareback at this time, and rubbing against each other... she continued this for a little bit, hesitated a little and begin to ride me bareback... and asked me to finish inside her, which I obliged... I had another date with her soon after, and she didn't even bring out a condom, and we just did everything bareback... she says she's never done this with anyone before...
I wanted to ask the female providers, particularly those who have done this... is there a reason why you would have bareback with someone? does this mean that she might genuinely like me? and is there a chance for two people to have an actual relationship if they met through the hobby???
P.S. - I know the risk involved, but I've been tested sufficiently after the encounter, and I trust her that she doesn't do this with her other clients...
Get a grip on reality...It's all about the money. Yes, she may like you but ask her for it for free and see where you get Did you check your brains at the door? Your playing Russian roulette with your health 'cause if she doing it with you she's doing it with others. No matter what she says. I've got an atf that I have feelings for but at the end of the day I know It's all about money. That's not being cynical just being honest. Oh yeah, if you are unloading inside with out a hat can you say 18 years of child support
this topic has been discussed a hundred times over. Search this board and read some of the threads and replies.
It's a business, don't ever lose sight of that. No matter what she tells you, if she's done bb with you she's done it with other clients. No harm in proceed forward with things if you like the girl, but use your common sense. Once you let the little head do all the thinking for the big head, your just asking for trouble.
if she is doing it with you, I'm sure that you are not the only one!
I make it real easy, I don't do BBFS with anyone! I feel that is playing with fire and it's not worth the risk to me, or to my clients.
I know a lady who pulls this crap often and or lies and says she is using a fem condom (she is not, no one has see the labia ring) some do it to keep you coming back I know she has done this with at least 10-30 men. No thanks Hope you have a frequent HIV testing card
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You must totally be insane thinking that she likes you because she did you bareback. Did you think maybe she had done this with others? Man I can write pages about this being in this business for years and seeing many unstable providers. Get tested and don't ever ever do that again. It is possible for her to really like you and to have a relationship with a provider but no matter what you gotta protect yourself. Please stop being brainless.
has been discussed ad infinitum ad nauseam with the same predictable responses. Let's move on. It seems like there's a post like this every week. Also, the topic of STDs is old, boring, comes up weekly, again, with the same boring predictable responses. In the future, when someone posts these retread topics let's do everyone a favor and NOT RESPOND!!!!
has the absurd idea that I would consider BBFS, I think of his SO, and tell him that it's not a good idea and remind him that HE doesn't know where I've been. I don't know where he's been... This seems to work! End of conversation! Oh, by the way, I'm Alantra from MN...Hello out there.
What are you looking for--- some sort of pat on the back that it is all OK and that this happens all the time and because she likes you it is all gravy?
Dude, if she did that, then she is half baked or on some drug. If you let that happen, the same is up with you. For the sake of humanity, I hope you are not a breeder. Please exit the gene pool now, and do not let the door slap your ass on the way out.
There is a cure for AIDS. It is called a condom.
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This board is NOT annonymous for the ladies, so they can not be expected to answer honestly to hot button topics like this.
18 years of child support.
That's not all! You also have your choice of an assorted array of VD's. Yes, AIDS included.
Dude, what are you thinking? As much as I'd hate to recommend him to anyone, listenning to Tom Leykis could do you some good.
Can a client have a relationship with a provider? Sure... I met my SO when he was a client and it worked out great. Should you ever have sex with a provider bareback? Absolutely not. No matter what her motivation, you are leaving yourself wide open for grief, fatherhood, and disease.
Dude, you are SOOOOOOOOOOOO SPECIAL!!!
NOT!
My view of BBFS is different than that of my friend, nM, but we hobbyed in different eras, so to speak. If you are going to hobby in this day and age, unless you know your partner very well of have test results in hand, you need to use a condom for intercourse. There are many things I like about BBFS, the physical and emotional rush among other things, but again, in this day and age, it is simply not practical to do so unless you are sure you are having safe sex.
I guarantee you you aren't the only one getting it. I primarily do the MP thing. There are groups of guys who actively seek out BBFS providers. You think they think they're "special" too?
It is not a common thing to get BBFS and cum inside a provider. I have a friend who did this and got an STD with a provider. The provider did him bareback and told him he could cum inside her. Stay away from BBFS okay. It's not worth the risk and she probably does this for other men to. So stop thinking your are special and wake up and smell the coffee you aren't special. If the girl starts seeing you and having sex with you for no money, then possibly you might have something. You can test this psuedo relationship out by asking her on a non-paid date and see if you end up having sex and dates with no money involved on repeated occasions.