Many people have stated here that they are married.  How many of you have a SO that knows about what you do, and doesn't have a problem with it (or even better encourages you)?

The hobby is the worst possible thing you could do to your SO. And if she respects herself and finds out,she will leave. If she doesnt respect herself enough then the two of you are perfect for each other.

And thank goodness you are.  Cause you never considered that someone could be married, open and honest in their relationship...or that their SO could be the one that picks out the treat of the evening...perhaps to join in, or perhaps just to hear about it later.
-- DeepHeat

...she said, "If I ever catch you, I'll kill you."

...so I guess as long as she doens't catch me, she's OK with it.

Not only does my wife not know about the hobby, neither does my mistress, who might be called an SO in different circumstances.   I would have my balls cut off by either of them if she knew!!!

...or vice-versa?
 -- DH

My wife, who is also my SO and my ATF, knows about what I do in the hobby, and often joins in.  We both get a great charge out of it.  There are a number of great ladies on this board who can verify (and who have had a taste of both of us)!

Paul

Are these questions designed to invite out of the woodwork the miracle man who has the best of all three worlds, so he can make us all feel that is normal?

she would have thought I was an idiot to spend that kind of money.  I wasn't really hobbying when we were together, but that's how she felt about the extras I got at strip clubs.

Oh, by the way, she has great self-esteem!