Do a multi hour date first. That way you know you won't be board out of your mind.

Treat her like your GF? It all depends on how you treat your GF. Maybe that's why you don't have a GF to take along

Let her get her sleep. A middle of the night quicke, and a morning romp in the hay is fine. Just don't poke at her all night long.

Give her the opportunity for some private time (she is on stage 24/7 during the date). Take her out for some fun things to do.

Probably better to treat her as a "date", which is a step up from a GF. On a "date" you are on stage too. With a GF, you take certain things for granted.

with my ATF and it wasn't all I expected.  I took her on a week long vacation.

Besides spending a lot of money, you will inherit all her personal problems for those few days as well.  Especially if she has family issues going on at that time.  There's only so much sex you can do during that time and unless you share some mutual interest, you will likely be miserable and resentful of her during this time.

You can treat her as a girlfriend if she is a GFE provider and is willing to act as one. But this is an expensive way to just hang out with a girl.  Over a few days she may not be as friendly as a normal encounter because there's only so much of you she can take if she's not that into you.

Set your expectations beforehand as to activities, location, amount of sex expected, $$$ spent, terms, conditions, etc.  

My conclusion was that in the future if I wanted a multi day encounter I would just meet with her during my prefered hours on successive days and then have the rest of the time to myself without dealing with her issues or her dealing with mine.

Good luck.

ive been on 2 vacations with my atf,,,,we both get along great so the time spent is heaven
my advice is make sure u have a good conection with the lady u plan to spend "multi days" with

Been on many.......good and bad-make it great......

One 4 day trip was disastrous...even took me to dinner w/his parents! NEVER left my side for one minute. Even my 'last shower' before the airport, he came in to join me. I thought the fact I was to shave my legs and announce need for room was a big clue-he stayed in w/me!! I hoped to knick myself, but he might have just gotten first aid.
Then there's the 3 times I went w/someone...Las Vegas, Sun Valley, and Chicago. Let's just say, he let me "wander the hotel grounds and get fresh air in the morning as I like" in Vegas. Sun Valley was his condo, but I still did the same. Chicago was a BLAST...together, and as I wandered the city while he was in his work seminar. Then again, I did the same for him. He's a VP, and I'd never compromise his integrity.
Yes, treat her like a girlfriend, and give her a little space.
BIGGEE:if you stay at a hotel, if you trust her, PUT HER NAME ON THE ROOM. My guy did that, and I could grab a snack at the hotel restaraunt, and not face not being able to charge to room. Be careful though...he knew i wouldn't go to get manicures, pedicures, etc. on my own.

We had the times of our lives...it's over now, and I'll never forget those special times, or him!!

That is how I EXPECT to be treated. I have been on multi-day encounters and since GFE is what I provide then it is also what I expect in return. This means holding hands when in public, kissing, etc. things a girlfriend would do for/with or expect from you. I restrict these encounters to clients that I am already comfortable with as it can be a LONG 1st encounter if you don't already click. Good luck

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