Just had a session that didn't go that well due to the fact that the woman had porn on the TV during the 'date'. Now, I don't really need that to get excited and have never experienced it before. The problem here is that this was rough sex porn: two guys pretty much raping a woman, slapping her around, etc. I asked her if this turned her on and she replied, 'Not really, but most of my clients do'. I told her I didn't and could we turn it off? She complied but somehow the mood had taken a turn for the worst and while I came, it was lackluster.
What do you think about porn during a session?
I hate most porn. But I really hate it while I'm having sex, lol!
If the guy wants it I'll say ok. But I prefer music, or even regular tv, to porn.
Sorry for the bad appointment. But hey, you have a semi-funny story to tell.
I like music better in a session than porn and rough sex porn? Turn it off...
the ass slapping that has become so popular. Don't like to do it, don't want to watch it. Sex (to me) has nothing to do with violence.
That said, the only time there was porn on the tv during a session was at her incall. It was pretty vanilla stuff and the volume was down so I didn't say anyting. In your situation I would have asked to turn it off as well.
I don't care what's on. Unless it's one of those cable/satellite music stations, I don't want the TV on at all. It makes me feel like I'm with a bottom of the barrel crack ___.
If it's something that I enjoy watching, and it's not going to freak her out (or with a little luck, it might even turn her on), then I enjoy it. I've had a wonderful date with a lady where we watched some selected scenes from "House of Ass 3", for example, to provide extra spice and inspiration.
That said, I generally wouldn't expect to incorporate it without discussing the subject beforehand, and coming to agreement. You also have to be cautious about not pushing so hard for it that the lady just goes along with it to satisfy you, even if it doesn't do anything for her. Like many additional flourishes for a date, it's sometimes hard to work in a balance between each person's preferences.
I don't like having the TV on during the appointment; for the most part, it's a distraction at best, and anti-arousing at worst. However, Girls Gone Wild or something similar would be kind of fun to have running in the background.
TV is a major and most times unwelcome distraction for me... half of me is always wondering what the moving picture box is doing, no matter how little I really care about it.
Music is much better, and keeps the pace going... I prefer jazz.
I would much rather focus my attention on the beautiful woman that I'm with rather than watching porn during a session.
Is this Mr. Ed in SD? Big Ed or the "Horse" as he is affectionately known..Is that you?
Tyler
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She and I were curious about female ejaculation... and we watched several films where Cyntherea was quite active in that area... but in general I find any movie (porn or otherwise) to be distracting... and ladies - please - either invest in a decent sound system or just turn off the hotel radio. Cannot stand the sound of a cheap audio system. One lady I know has a very good sound system... and almost the perfect choice of music... it is soooo very soothing... (she is too!)
I love porn!
But if you don't, well have it turned off - from the get go!