I don't remember this happening in the hobby, but in the Sugarbowl there are these silly girls who like to pretend they're SBs. They become Midnight Texters. These girls typically fall into one of two categories:
(1) I've never met them, but we've exchanged photos.
(2) I've met them once for an introductory lunch/dinner date.
And you don't need follow-up "every girl has a right to stop". Idiots are everywhere, both males and females. Xo
I'm sure alcohol is somehow involved.
Here's a little mood music to lighten the situation:
drunk with their girlfriends and yukin it up.
(1) I've never met them, but we've exchanged photos.
(2) I've met them once for an introductory lunch/dinner date.
These girls are unable to take the next step. Either they're afraid of a face-to-face meeting (Category 1) or we've met but they're afraid to fuck (Category 2). This is fine--a young woman has every right to stop at any point when she doesn't feel comfortable.
Here's what's not fine: at sometime in the Witching Hours, between 11 pm to 3 am, these girls become Midnight Texters. While I'm asleep in bed with my SO, these girls are texting me with all kinds of nutty come-ons, like the one below.
SB: hey, let's do the arrangement! I thought about this, can we meet tomorrow afternoon.
Time stamp on the text above-- 1:14 AM.
I wake up the next morning, read her text & wonder why any sane person would be texting at that time. I wait till normal business hours to reply.
Z: Hey I got your text. I can book a place this afternoon that's convenient for you. Just let me know when you'll be free.
No reply. This happens a lot. And she will text again. Two weeks later.
SB: Sorry things have been really crazy. Are you still available--I'd like to do the arrangement.
Time stamp on the text above-- 2:43 AM
I don't reply this time. It only encourages them. I can only guess at what's going on here. These are "good girls" who like to play "bad girls" during the wee hours. When they can't sleep. When they'd like to fuck a dangerous stranger & get paid for it. Like Julia Roberts or Riley Keough. --z
not to give your phone number to a girl until you have had sex with her a few times. Use a disposable email account until you have been intimate a couple of times and are convinced she is not a crazy or a stalker. Its great to have these kinds of anecdotes to help guide newbies.
-- Modified on 4/15/2016 1:03:39 PM
it's funny at the time and that's all that matters when you're drunk
That's quite possible. Back in the day, I'd get drunk with friends, stay up late & do stupid stuff. But since 'the mark' is asleep & not replying till 8 hours later...I don't see the payoff. I think she'd be sober by then. --z
BSC can take months to show itself. Why can't I just block her number?