I ask because even though I'm in sunny southern california the ads have really jumped as well as ladies contacting me via PM's offering deals. Is it because the ladies need the $$$$$ or the guys don't hobby this time of year?

My time is full with holidays and family, besides I'm spending money on gifts. Oddly enough I only hobbied this time last year because an agency had a special going and could schedule me in the same day.

It's been slow all year long for the Provider I'm seeing. New Clients make appointments and always never show up. Her Regular Clients don't see her as often as they used to. I see her about once a week. I've been pretty much her only steady Client that sees her.

That BBFSCIP must leave a bad taste in their mouth.

With Deer Hunting season in NY starting this weekend upstate, Duck season starting next week , Thanksgiving with the extended family, work, kids off school next Friday, Christmas shopping, Christmas decorations to put up, etc.  my time and money are less likely to be used on the ladies.  Just a cold hard fact.  Come January the pressure eases a bit and the time and cash are easier to obtain.

opportunity and funds available for play are more limited around the Holidays. That, plus a few issues at work that are taking more time and making me stressed as all hell.... yes, I'm slowing down.  

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no one else is able to see them

So now it's stuck in my head...

the real world but not so much in the P4P arena.  Usually providers start complaining about the time of year from now until early January as being very slow.