What's the longest time you've seen a particular client or provider?

Not a single session, but over what amount of time...

6 months? A year? 3 years? Ten years? I've been seeing one for almost 8 years now.

And he is married and doesn't get ANYTHING at home.  It's a damn shame.

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Is that the only provider you see then? Just curious since its a long term basis

Just over 15 years. She retired 2 years ago to go back home.  

If a client sees a provider that long and that often, I would hope he's getting a break on rate.

where I'd see her about once a week for a rub and tug.  After a few years she started seeing me off campus about every other month for extended dinner dates.  We had about a one hear hiatus while she tried to make a go of a relationship with the father or her newborn child, but after that fizzled, I was back in the saddle.

 We celebrated our 20th with an overnight at a 5 star hotel with dinner and the works.

And every session is as delightful or better than the last, if you can believe that.

We get together about once every 3-4 months now.

And yes, I'm wondering why I didn't marry her.

(I'm sure it would have spoiled everything.)

She's not the only one either:  I am approaching 19 years with another gal, and 12 with a third.  When I find a keeper, they are a keeper!

but I have been seeing her for 8 years now. At least at her present "old age" of 26 no one thinks she is my daughter any more. Actually, even with our 30 year age difference, people almost immediately peg us as a couple.

I did tell her about 5 years ago that once she turned 21 I would have to kick her to the curb for being "too old" for me. I guess that ship has sailed though.

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Well alright MrFisher, that's cool.

Since fall '09, so for over 5 years. I've been in the business for about 6 years. My earliest clients were agency clients - he's the only one I still see.  

I have a few others I've seen since I was newly independent, which was in spring 2010.  

These are people I deeply like and trust. They have become more than clients.

It's kind of a funny story about my oldest client. I didn't always appreciate him, to say the least. The first time he saw me, the agency got the time of our appointment wrong. They told me 7PM, so I was at the incall at 7. I waited a half hour, then 45 minutes, then told the booker I was going home. 10 minutes later, she called me, asking me to go back. I was like, 'That a**hole is almost an hour late!!' I couldn't believe she was asking me to go back and see him. But, she begged, and so I did. It turned out, that she had gotten the time wrong. He had scheduled for 8PM, and was actually right on time. But she didn't tell me that, and so I began our relationship with an unjustified grudge. A few dates later, we got it all sorted out, and 5+ years later, we're still seeing each other

away.  There is one provider I have seen in 3 separate cities in multiple states and several providers I have seen in two cities, sometimes in the same state and sometimes in two different states.

I have visited with my current ATF for going on 4 years now.  Each encounter is different and it seems each time is better than the last.

4 years this May.

He was my very first "client". I wasn't really a provider at that time, but I was 18 years old and in a bit of a financial pickle. I advertised my massage services on Quest, a phone chat line, he replied and the rest is history.  

We see on another once a month or so, and he pays the same rate as he did the the first day we met.

Every other week
Hugs and kisses
TL

If I go to a nice restaurant twice a week they don't hit me with a price reduction.

So it would be impossible for me to have a relationship for 26 years.

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Or at least too old for me.

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Two since 07. Another since 08. I'm a creature of comfort.

Just what exactly do you think the 18 and 26 year olds are saying about your OLD ass haha   Ummm, aren't you 'close' to my age LOL.  

So let me get this straight. If you call women in their 40's old, then when you're at the "Cocal" with your "miserable" buddy do you call him Pops?

He's like double my age hahahahaha LOL

Btw, I'm sorry to burst 'your' mid-life crisis bubble at 50 lol.

I never grew out of my first childhood. I am just like Peter Pan, only straight and with slanted eyes. lol

funny and made me giggle. Hey, tell Pops I said hello. Do they mistake you for father and son when you're at the COCAL hahahaha

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Truly amazing to see all of these years.

I have seen my ATF weekly for almost 8 years, and every time is different and as good as it has ever been. That spark is still there...the connection, friendship, trust.

Keep it going!!

You ruined it for me, because I was just going to say you never grew out of the first childhood... as soon as I saw your subject line before clicking. Foiled again.

So TMZ wants to know if you have ever taken her to Never Never Land? Is there a Tinker Bell involved in there? I know how old fashion you are, but a three some with Tinker could be fun. Just think of all the hard to reach places she could go!

Besides I am sure his sons are much more mature than me.

It's tough to come up with original lines after over ten years and ten of thousands of posts, but I'll keep trying. lol

Just one with a really big "schwantz."  And, yes, my boys are more mature than you.  Their emotional age is 15, while yours is 12 at best.  I don't know about Minnie, but with all her baby talk I'd say her mental age is about half her chronological age, meaning it's about 30.

These relationships can last longer than most marriages.  And are a lot less expensive.  And a lot more fun.  Go figure.

a couple of 5 years too...

First saw her in 2009, then about a dozen times before she left to start a family.  She just came back recently, and I plan to pick up where we left off.

Let me get this straight. You are a immature middle aged "chink" of a coke dealer who brings hookers home on family holidays?

2009 to now.

From a gal that gives a great massage and happy, happy ending.

and he is just "counting ahead" lol

How do you not develop feelings for your atf..

 
Usually after 4-5 visits i struggle with that...so i usually move on....

How have you guys dealt  with it?

Just curious?maybe i am wired different..

I wouldn't know how to deal with it either.  I'm relatively new to seeing providers and recently got over the shock that, "Wow, they really do kiss!" and then one provider came over to also cook and clean.

Yep, I may have to move on