I had a client, that requested me to wear very heavy make and a short skirt for our visit. He ask me to wear heavy & dark eyeshadow, blush and lipstick. I normally, don't wear a lot of make up and don't need it. I have to say, that I was VERY embarrassed walking into the hotel, as I looked like a street walker! After, the appointment was over, it made me wonder, if many guys like that look. I would think that most would not a heavily made up woman, but not sure. So, my question to you guys....do you prefer heavy or light makeup? Or does it make a difference? Curious to know. Thanks, for your input.
Some guys like the corpse look and the lesson is even when you have to pay the bills, sleep well at night by being what you are, not what people would have you be. The biz can be the way many people use you to be demeaning and down-right rude. As a young consultant, I often turned down jobs that I found to unethical or somewhat to the left of where I wanted to build my reputation. Though I turned down thousands, I was able to sleep at night knowing I didn't have to take every job and nor should you. If a guy seems creepy or ask you to do anything that you find the least bit of discomfort, then walk away.
My Ex-wife dressed and did her make-up like the school teacher in Little House on the Prairie. Hence when I would hire a provider I always wanted them to rev up the "slut factor".
It all ultimately breaks down to a matter of personal taste or what your client is NOT getting in his personal life. I have a buddy who likes his providers to wear little or no make-up. I however still like my ladies make-up ranging from moderate to trashy.
If the attire requested by your client makes you feel uncomfortable in public ask if he minds if you change into his choice of clothes AFTER arriving to his room or home.
FR.
she dressed in the hottest little goth outfits (2) that were really amazing!!
up with a sexy smile asking me to guess who she came as. I took a wild guess and said, uhh, Vampira? She said, "riiight" just as she put me in a lip-lock and practically knocked me over on the bed! I wouldn't really know if she looked like Vampira, or if Vampira is even Goth, but my answer sure seemed to please her.
he's paying the tab so it's his choice.
. . . but I personally HATE heavy make-up.
Light
"Cowards can never be moral."
M.K. Gandhi
First, it is your business. You only "have" to do what you want to do, as long as you are willing to bypass the business.
Second, some guys have a specific look or fantasy they want a provider to cater to. I would think this would be in the minority of appointments, but there will always be some that want that.
Third, I have known a couple of providers who would look great with the "goth" look or something like that, so conceptually, even though I have never requested a "look", even I could enjoy it.
Last, if you decide to do something like this and you have to go out in public and go to a hotel, and you are uncomfortable with the look, you might want to make up in the hotel ladies room, just to avoid as much public as possible.
I could suggest that the next time maybe you should get the room and have the "incall" there, giving yourself time to put on the make-up?
/Zin
I think women look so much more beautiful with only light makeup. I'm guessing guys who like this extreme stereotypical prostitute look seek it for the purposes of compartmentalization. If he perceives you to be a crack whore (or quack whore LOL), he can treat you like one. If you look like a normal woman, anonymous sex may seem awkward. Just a thought.
-b
For a married guy such as myself less is much better. Less chance of make up on the clothing. Because, nothing ruins a business trip like coming home with someone's blush on your shirt.
It depends....
sometimes I'm in the mood for the Tina Louise type and then other times, Maryanne suits me just fine...
I guess I sometimes associate true femininity with make up...lips,eye-liner,mascara,etc.
I never had any desires to boink Lovey though...
Cheers!