I see that more often now than ever.  I take that to mean she is a 2 hour min hooker.

Just like the ads that say "This is not an offer for prostitution" are true as well, aren't they?

I don't usually see anyone for more than an hour.

I guess having my highly paid assistants doing the reading of those sites might have something to do with this.  I just tell them that I'd like someone like "this" show up...and voila...there she is.

... and then chase every ISO up and down the coast.  Go figure.

When I got into this, I started by emphasizing a connection. Why? It was what was missing in my life. I had everything else, including the money.

I am not judging, just stating the obvious.

I only want to pay for one, but we can still laugh, play, and get to know one another.

I might think that they're prostitutes otherwise.  And would just see anyone.

I asked my crack financial team and they tell me it's $ 300.

I bet you there are a LOT of hookers who are low volume simply because they can't attract business.  As for "I'm very particular" HEY, I explained the first half of your question. I'll let you answer the second half. lol

What are we going to do with you.....lol

And they do so intentionally. There is a tad bit of strategy for some.

To some low volume might be once a year...others it's only one guy a day.

.......as well as statements like "only upscale gentlemen" the type of value and importance that they really merit - NONE.

No matter what it is or isn't all about, this is a pay for play industry.
When the chemistry is right, its right. No harm no foul in wanting that.  

she advertised "only upscale ladies"?

If prices take a dive we will know why.

If you can get it, get it!

Could survive longer than an hour with you.

Like I said, I've failed with the hollow "I'm particular" statement. I've identified what caused me to fail (I'm sure its identical to other ladies *cough* *cough* same day requests and getting used to meeting with minimal pre-date talks), now all I can do is work on the pre-date part. No matter how much I'm used to how I have done things, acting on being selective is more rewarding to both parties than it being a hollow statement. Actions. Hit or miss chemistry isn't enough for me at this point.

Yes, exactly. When I started in the biz, I could have easily seen 8 guys a week at the rate I was charging...now, more like 8 a month if that. Location matters as well... a NYC gal charging 500 an hour may still be able to see 10-12 guys a week at that rate, where a gal from North Carolina  charging the same thing might not even get half that.

She's hoping that with the incredible talents that Bob.Sugar has I'll be able to help her career along

Lol then I REALLY wouldn't believe it!

Funny, I have a lesbian friend who throws around money worse than any of my guy friends. She won't anyone pick up a check while she is around, and has even gone so far when I have prepaid a tab KNOWING that it's the only way to "get their first" I have had the waitress come back with my credit card uncharged when we were ready to leave, explaining that my friend INSISTED on paying and that she was more scared of her, than me. Well scared in a good way I suppose. lol

and out of how many?

I don't suggest dinner dates in public either.

....what you know about women in general and lesbians in particular would fit up a gnat's ass.

Where the cheapest hotels, fights, and other amenities are.  

meanwhile the pro has 125+ reviews on TER and tours the States like she's about to face deportation and the American girls average 20 clients a week. AVERAGE

Yes lesbians share plenty of the same qualities that straight women do. But paying for sex with hot ladies usually isn't one of them.
And I for one don't go cheap on playdates. If I did I wouldn't be here on TER but instead on BP or CL. If you are going to dabble in a hobby like this you might as well get the most out of it, and that comes at a price that I am more than willing to spend. No sales or coupons allowed.

I knew if I stayed on TER long enough, I would find ONE.

I am particular

She's had a couple of janes hit her up...and those janes didn't haggle.

It's entry level...but plenty of upward mobility for a go-getter like yourself.

Posted By: AlyssaHille

I am particular  
   
 I don’t mind 1hr clients, I actually think these are great! Keeps the suspense going in the arrangement.  It’s the one-timers, collectors and out of towners I’m not so fond of…but then that’s because I prefer arrangements.  
   
 Many of my clients are repeats and I often say no to new screenings based on job title, race/socio-economic background, location and or referrals.  
 I have a physical type that I like and prefer to be around a man with a few common interests to my own…  
 Weight has not come up, but I’m not surprised. Americans (esp Californians) are ‘look-ist,’ and I don’t see a lot of companies or middle management run by overweight people.  
   
 If anything, my clients tend to be eerily similar- healthy, wealthy, disciplined, clean, well mannered and middle-upper class. Handsome.  
 Strangely enough, the better looking they are, the nicer they tend to be, too.  
 It’s usually the runts that have the prickliest of personalities.  
   
 I have to discriminate.  
 I require work verification for all my clients, but I am especially weary of anyone under 34 and non white. Unfortunately, they are put under more scrutiny during screening and communication is key.  
 I don’t care about being politically correct when it comes to my physical safety and well being.  And unfortunately, stereotypes are often more true than not…  
 Luckily, most of the men who screen with me provide their work info. rather than referrals from their other Providers.  So, no biggie…  
   
 *Also, if I don’t like the way a client does something, or if he fails to do something important for me- he talks too much, is clingy, draining, bad in ^&*, etc… it’s too much of a drain of energy. It’s not a match.  
   
 At the end of the day, I don’t really make money of one timers. It’s my repeats that keep me interested and in business. I do my best to earn and keep their business.  
   
 I prefer getting a msg from someone I genuinely have chemistry with- knowing I am going to enjoy a wholly satisfying session with them- it’s wonderful…  
   
 So, yes- I am particular and thanks to my Peeps, I can afford to be.  
 

"collector?" LOL I'm kind of afraid to ask?

With the way  everyone throws around all the marketing slogans I think they all have become worthless.  

That could be a helluva book....especially if you include illustrations  

Yeah, I wouldn't rush to open EVERYONE'S door....

She emailed me back that she didn't know any of the ladies I used as references asked if I had any others. Sadly at the time the answer was no as I had just got an all is good after some major health issues that knocked me out of the hobby for the most part (I seen a few favorites who would understand some of the issues my health caused) the previous few years. A year latter we hooked up as I seen some more ladies and she knew them. It happens.

LOL
*Collectors, a term I use.
A guy who has a whole bunch of referrals on the boards- ie he sees a lot of different girls in a short period of time. ie 3 a month or more
Is relevant info to me, because it can mean a few things:
Best case scenario
1. hes having fun trying out different flowers in the garden  
      Medium
2. High maintenance esp in my case if they are lower rate  
or, worst case
3. He’s a reject; women won’t see him for 2nd date. There is something very very wrong with him…
all his dates are first dates.

+1

Well said

I agree with you that the guys should send these fraudsters home, but I don't think there is much thinking going on when the Hobbyist is hungry and the door swings open-
Wart Hog or not-...He's getting it...

The lesbian book I am working on with Bob will have no illustrations.  

My search continues...

And I trust you're OK with my discussing your bigotry in a review.

I'm not a bigot.  
I earn my business, not by trickery but hard work and by being humble.

Opportunity comes in many forms.

You fit in perfectly with all the gals here who swear they never negotitate on the boards, but do so bcd.

I am a woman of color, I understand very well the feeling of having people want to categorize me because of the color of my skin...
I can understand how my remarks might have hurt you or anyone reading them.

Yes there are a lot of men that think w the wrong head but I have also talked to quite a few men who have went through the thought process of what to do w a date that was not as advertised. Out of probably more then 20 only 2 have told her that was the issue. It's sad that guys are that worried...
Though your probably rite even if all the men who went through the thought process said something its only a small percentage compared to the guys who don't think or care till they are done.

How right you are.   Very well put and yes, there have been many times I have seen things noted on their website or P411, where once we meet it doesn't take long for me to go 'huh?'   I don't care if or where someone went to college, whether they're passport ready of never left their hometown, but what I do care about is a little less deception.  Lying I am good with as I accept it as part of the hobby; but deception is another story lol.

thanks for the enlightenment btw. I probably see more than 3 ladies a month and if you check my p411 you'll see possibly several ok's a month. But you'll have no idea when I first saw the gal. For example, my last ok was from a lady seen almost 3 years ago and I've probably seen here 15-18X in that span. How would you know? Would you automatically toss me in the category of "collector?" I'll probably lose sleep tonight if you're answer is "yes." JK.  

But I think with anything, if you have to repeat it over and over, it loses meaning.

Do you even know what kind of emails we get? lol! Being financially stable enough to ignore the ones who can't be bothered to type a whole sentence, set an appointment up within 20 emails, or who pop up on blacklists can move a lady into the "very particular" zone very quickly, depending on where she is and the type of market she's dealing with. Not everyone is lucky enough to be able to do that, but almost everyone has a line where they'll say "no... not even for the money", and you would be surprised how often that situation comes up before an appointment is even set.  
 
Beyond some of the emails that make you question the entire male gender, there's also just flat out screening. Again, depending on the market, you're going to have at least a few people who think that simply having cash is enough to see you, making that group fall out of the "Potential client" category before they send even the first time wasting email. And when you factor in all the different ways screening can be handled, it's pretty obvious that a woman can be more or less particular about who she meets. Some want you to call on the phone and promise you're not a cop, some want even more than employment verification. This alone makes your comment "I've yet to see any hooker screen out the dudes who have the dough" very confusing. You're either offering her that full time job from a few months ago up front, or playing in very different fields than you've been telling us  
 
And then of course there is the behavior in appointments. Some women won't even see you if they hear that you like face slapping, are high energy, enjoy role play, are extremely overweight, or over or under a certain age. Those are all examples of women being picky about who they meet with. Some are even particular enough that they will kick you out for bad behavior. Again, not everyone is lucky enough to be in this position, but showing up cash in hand isn't even a guarantee when you think about it. Some can and will ask you to behave like a gentleman or get out of their sight.  
 
The above is mostly educational, not necessarily directed at anyone in particular. This just seems to be a very common misconception - that if you have cash, you can kind of behave however you want. Sure, you may be able to get away with a little more than with your wife or civilian girlfriend, but if you think you're going to rest on that excuse for much, then you're going to be stuck in the dregs of back page almost as fast as a bait-and-switch girl.  
 
You, Sug, are light trolling, I know. But you're throwing some very particular shade lately for someone who never has trouble flashing the cash and getting the girl

Think I'd fit in more there. Thanks.

That's seems wildly illogical and hateful actually.

wouldn't worry about it. I'm sure you are fine.

Some people around here seem to have one, and you sure do spend enough time on here for it to rub off, so what's the deal?  

Sorry it is lost on you.  

There was no male bashing. Sorry the voices in your head are so distracting

Ok. Whew. Have a good week.

True That!