Seen a provider who you thought was beautiful (and told her so) but then you felt that she didn't like you/was not attracted to you??? If so, what do you do?
Went and saw another provider. It's a numbers game and a matter of doing your research. Not to be taken personally -- this is just a business.
If your a clean cut guy and nice and a gentlemen and the provider has great reviews and is a knock-out but for some reason, you get the feeling she just isn't digging you....Any ladies have any encounters like this??
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You cannot possibly expect providers to be attracted to each and every client they entertain. Making an assumption like that would be comparable to making the assumption a provider is attracted to each and every man she passes on the street. It just isn't so. I'm not physically attracted to 95% of my clients, however it's part of my job responsibility to make each client think they are the best thing since sweet tea. Furthermore, physical attraction isn't necessary for me to have a fantastic time with a client and vice versa. If he is sweet smelling, kind, compassionate, funny and respectful of my mind, body and time, him and I *both* can have an out of this world experience.
Looks are not important to me, you should have seen my ex-husband! For me as long as a man is groomed clean, has no body odor and is a gentlemen that is good enough for me and I always make them feel like a king. Sure sometimes I have a man that for what ever reason really turns me on. Usually it's just if he is my type phsysically as well as sexually and sure the sex might be a bit more "monekyish" (for lack of a better term...or rather lack of thinking of one lol), but I don't give one any more than the other snd both are treated equally. Sure I've had repulsive clients whom I couldn't wait to get rid of but it was always because of their behavior and not looks. Admitedy I'm a bit more "seasoned" than most are or willing to admit it anyway.
Love 'em, f__k 'em and leave 'em...and for that moment in time enjoy it. Hopefully you will leave with some pleaseant memories and a big smile...I usually do.
Billy
First of all, these ladies really don't come in to an appointment looking to be attracted to the guy they are seeing. Mutual attraction is the exception and not the rule! However, if the lady you see gives you a bad vibe, than she me not be very good at her chosen profession. The most highly reviewed ladies seem to make every man they meet feel like a king. That being said, we all have bad days. If it were me, I might try one more time if I found her really attractive but move on if the lady seemed distant on the second visit.
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You talking about the GFE session or perhaps looking to start a relationship with this person.
Maybe she was having a bad day cause I think most people have problems, some more than others and that could have put a damper on your session.
On your other response it seems that your putting the blame on yourself. Maybe it is you, only you and her can figure this out so maybe if you intend on continuing on being her client than you should bring it up to her. Of course I'm talking about the provider and client relationship and not the romance relationship.
If it doesn't work out, plenty of reviewed ladies come up everday except sundays. Good luck and hope you find what you seek.
Just my opinion and I hope I'm making sense.
But the most important thing is that you like yourself.
We guys have a great advantage in this hobby.
We can look at web sites, listings such as Eros to pick and choose a "date" we are interested in.
The ladies of this community have no such ability.
They have to take us as they find us, "good or bad", "studs or duds".
Imagine opening a door to someone you have never seen, and having them expect you to "put on the show" even if you were not what might be considered attractive.
I know, it's part of the "job", but that doesn't make it easy for them.
These ladies have it tough.
I am by no stretch a "stud" or a "dud", and I am not really concerned that the ladies find me "attractive".
If you treat them like the ladies they are, be nice, be considerate, they will "like you" and find you "attractive".
The ladies I have been with have enjoyed my company, as I have theirs, have seen me multiple times, and just enjoy being with me. They "like" me.
Do they find me attractive? You would have to ask them, but, it's not something I worry about.
Just my opinion...
B
My sentiments exactly. Very well stated. 
Peace...
This is a business (like any other). There are times when I'm extremely attracted to my friends and other times maybe not, but I always find something attractive and caring about all of them. I have been lucky since I've become an independent. So far, all of the men have been clean, some well-shaven and courteous.
The main thing I find attractive at my age is a clean-shaven, nice-smelling and well-mannered man. Everything else I can work with.
Hugs,
Ciara
Of course they're not attracted to you, that's why you're paying them! Duh.