they will NOT, per their TER Profile, use them?  
Curious more than anything. They'll give you a BBBJ,
offer Anal, encourage fetishes ... but not offer FCs.

Thanking you in advance for your reply.

Some just never tried them. Some don't like the feel. Some don't like inserting them, and some just don't like the look. Former frequent poster LR used to say she would not use them because she didn't like having a trash bag hanging out of her Vaguna.

a FC instead of a trash bag. Did she say if
she used the scented ones? But thank you
for the reply ma'am.

it in the TER profile, but I would double check with the provider. While the FC2 is a bit more expensive than the male condom, that shouldn't be a deterrent if the provider offers them. I'll be honest, there have been times where my supply was depleted and I forgot to order some in time.  

What I've learned here in my short time is that there are a tone of profiles that say one thing but it's really relative. It is imperative for a client to just double check with the provider during the booking process.  

LJ, xox

But prefer male condoms. I agree feels and looks like a trash bag. But offer them if the client insists.

that it's a question that's been asked before?  

Do you think everyone here has seen every post
from day one? Or saw that particular post? When  
I see repetition, I read on or pass depending on the  
topic or tone of the responses. I rarely revel in the  
bullshit or triviality that may ensue.  

It seems there's a lot of redundancy here and further insight might be gained depending on who replies that may not have previously

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thank you. It makes me wanna head to the airport to head west to experience "but its a dry heat" ... except for the area of insertion... as for the trash bag effect, I had no problem pulling it down towards the taint to gain total access prior to replacing the glass dildo with something a little more, uhhh, alive ...lol

BTW, heard it was over 100° last week. That would make things double HOTTTT. I love hottt.

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Or just that they don't/haven't. I love them and so do my clients, it's the closet feeling to bare as you're ever gonna get with me. less drying out, easier to change positions and clean up is simpler.

When I'm inserting it into my va-jayjay.... It's a headache to put in but total fun fun when the action starts!!!  

So, when is the right time to ask the provider? And what is the best way to phrase the question?

Personally, I don't do those other things you mentioned anyway except the BBBJ…..maybe the right fetish with a well-known regular…but back to the question -  

I don't use FC's because I don't personally own any toys and am allergic to most lubricants. From what I've read, you need to lube them up before insertion and use a toy (dildo probably) to get them situated right, not to mention it takes practice and doesn't look too appealing when you're done. I just never wanted to buy a toy for the sole purpose of inserting a FC.
I don't really enjoy using toys - I have a super vivid imagination and generally find them to be distracting and/or too aggressive. Just my 2 cents.

Not sure how I feel about them yet...Why have I waited until now?  They aren't exactly the types of condoms you can buy at your local pharmacy and there seems to be a learning curve to using them.  I finally bought some online.

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hahahah  

that's the easy lazy way to put it on

That's the best thing ever but not everybody likes them so I have both male and female ones and yes they are expensive and I have to order them online cuz I never seen them in stores

Not ... is it clear glass or colored. Ooops... wrong threAD.

BTW... I've been exposed to Vit E Oil and love the feel,  
the taste and smell. One provider asked me to help her I sett it in with her toy which I found hottt. My cherry experience was with a gal that asked if I liked them... I told her I never tried it before ... she whipped it out and inserted it with her fingers and then me in less time than it takes to roll a cover on me. I enjoyed it but never press anyone on it unless I get an inkling they're game. At least until we get a chance to meet and get comfortable sharing what I consider "Not pre-firstdate" questions.  

After some intimacy and a few orgasms, its a little easier for me to ask almost anything . .. respectfully.  

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It was $3.50 at the SexToy shop. At $3-400 a pop for a date, I can't imagine how either person would consider that expensive if they enjoy them.

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Coconut oil is one of the ones I'm allergic to.  
Not sure about vitamin e.  
But the thing is that I don't have people asking me about fcs all the time or often really so not using them costs me nothing whereas going through the trial and error of finding the right set up and practice costs me something...
So for me, there's no point in it now..hope that clears it up for those curious.

I do offer FC with clients who are older because I'm aware of the struggle that condoms present.

that's what I call them.  
I can keep my spare change in there, and do my kegel exercises at the same time,
with this semen trap.

It's kind of hard looking sexy, stuffing a plastic bag up into the honey hole though,
  yet can be accomplished by masturbating myself at the same time of insertion.

      This way it's a win / win .

have limited experience with them, because most of the providers I see think they're too much trouble to use.  

You do seem to have a knack for turning a pig's ear into a silk purse my dear LOL. I can't possibly imagine any woman worth her salt not being able to turn sticking something in her pussy into a sexy event, even if it is the trash bag ... kisses ... bye bye

Hey!

I answered your questions below!  

1. So, when is the right time to ask the provider?  
Totally AFTER screening. If you ask before, that's a red flag.  

 
2. And what is the best way to phrase the question?
I hope you do not mind me asking, but your TER profile states that you use the FC2, is that accurate? If so, do you mind if we use those?  

Again, every provider is different but I think there are many of us that would be open to the conversation so long as screening has been completed.  

LJ, xox

...several providers who have done that.  The inner ring fits in a 'notch' in front of the cervix to hold it in place.  But if the guy is girthy enough, the inner ring isn't necessary.  Some providers have also said they don't like the feel of the inner ring either.

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I have not tried them yet, as I have heard that there is quite a learning curve to using them. I have heard from some of my clients that they like them, and some that they feel like having sex in a plastic bag. Noone has pressed me about my not using them, but I think I would like to try them just the same. I have seen them in the adult stores here, Cindie's, Adam and Eve, and such. They don't seem to be that expensive. I did have to search out the latex free ones, though. How do they work for men that are on the well endowed side? I would love to see a client that would be willing to engage in playing and helping me figure them out in the process

a picture would be perfect,  thanks !!

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Yes the lube goes in the FC but then a dick follows it and moves around quite a bit coating said dick. And then said dick has contact with other parts of the lady with said lady with an allergy to lube. That isn't even talking about the oral finish some guys desire or round 2. Here is the thing about allergens, they travel. Ask any who suffer from food allergies about how easy cross contamination can secure. Please when it comes to the health of ladies, please think with your big head.

when I pull it out to make change.

Probably the same as your's when I pull out my .... to be continued ... lol  
It's not like this is a fuck board or something

to only see providers that will use Female Condoms.
I don't know why but at my age (57) the sensitivity in my cock has changed and I just can not feel anything with a regular male condom. Therefore for my money, I will only see ladies that are female condom friendly and in fact prefer ladies that like them are experienced with them.

...until after screening to ask.

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...inside said FC?  If the party of the first part and the party of the second part are careful, there will be no contact with other parts of said lady.  Remember,  part of said FC protrudes from the woman's body, offering additional protection.

In order for them to be appreciated by both they need to be inserted hours before the sex happens. Timing is everything with FC.

preference for both provider (first) and client (second). I assume preference can stem from many sources, and those won't be consistent or perhaps even similar from lady to lady (or guy to guy). I personally like the fit and function for intercourse, but don't like the "trash bag" appearance.

Only reason I can see not offering them is that they are harder to acquire and a little more expensive...and until you are used to using them, they can be clumsy.  If a gent feels fine with the regular ones, I don't necessarily push the FC.  

I don't need Condoms. My new ATF likes to go (her choice) BBFSCIP. And that suits (no pun intended) me just fine.

wrong guy how they work on well-endowed guys.  I'm slightly above average, but not a magnum, but they work fine on me.  Don't know if the FC's come in magnum size or not.  The ones I've tried with some ladies I saw were fine.  Excellent "feel" similar to BBFS, but everybody is safe.  

I didn't see LA, OC or SD on your tour schedule, so I won't be able to be your playmate for the FC.  

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Put the female condom on a dildo then insert it that way,.. It's simpler... Lol.  My clients who are hung like horses uses them as regular condoms on themselves!!! Lol lol

...before the main event. Doesn't take hours for it to "warm up" inside.

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Never used a female condom, and do not have a overwhelming desire to do so, if I want that much sensation I will find a way to have sex with a woman that will have sex with out a condom.

First time I ever experienced a FC was when they first came out and provider was inexperienced as I was so it did feel like a plastic bag, mostly because she didn't apply any lube (the right amount is important).  That is the only time however and have since found their use to be quite pleasurable and enhanced the experience.  I also think that if a provider is catering to an older demographic then it might be good for their business to use a FC as many of us maturing gentlemen have increasing issues with keeping an erection with regular condoms.

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Agreed 100 percent.

Not only are they a royal pain to get in, they also hurt. Also, They move around way too much and I can't help but feel like it's too easy to slip between the sidings on it or have it slide around. When I did use it, I had to hold the outer ring of it to keep it from going inside. It wasn't fun at all and that was all I could think about which made it an awful experience-I hate not being able to enjoy myself too!!

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When a guy is just TOO girthy, it helps me feel less like i'm being destroyed haha

I also like putting it in before giving head, that way, when he's nice and ready, I can just HOP ON! and not worry about wrapping him up and losing his wood.

I am so visually sensitive when it comes to sexual stimulation that a lot of the time, the sight of a plastic bag hanging out of the beautiful vulva will sometimes give me an instant soft on. Not always, but I have had that happen enough times that I really don't like to break the mood and waste a fairly expensive item .

Wish it wasn't so.

fake rubber pussies at the sex shop to cum in while you masturbate alone in your mom's basement, they DO come in colors other than white.  

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This ^^^^
Don't know that I am visually sensitive but I like to look. Looking down and seeing the bag hanging out gets an internal, "yuk" every time. More power to you if you like the things. Some say it's the closest thing to bareback. Maybe I don't remember what bareback feels like as it's been 15 years, but I don't think this comes anywhere near it. To me it feels like a wadded up cinch sak full of lube! yuk

Contact is easy at that point. Again ask any with a major food allergens about how extremely easily trace amount of allergens spread.  

And even if your dick never, ever touches her, there is splash backs from the motion on both you and her, possible drips from application, and possible extraction issues. Yes it can be done but over hundreds of sessions a year with multiple clients some of which are clueless or careless fucks contamination of some part of her skin with the lube will happen.  

Why on God's green earth should a woman will an allergy to lube risk it? Plus do you really wish to end all contact by her with your dick after your first round as that would come with it?  

It would be better for all if a allergen and FC safe lube for a lady with lube allergens can't be found to skip FC as lube is required for safety, comfort, and pleasure when they are used.

...one who is FC-friendly every time.

I've paid less than $4.00 for the one I've seen in uT vids.

Ladies ... can you chime in since some guys MIGHT not want to spend another nickel more than the fee ... LOL

Maybe I can sell them to y'all and can afford to bpok more companionship .... and FCs.

A supposed man, with over a hundred reviews of what should be beautiful women. And now you follow me around on TER, because I said you are a BS. Then you prove me right by following my posts, inane posts at that.

You look like a joke written by a woman, not even funny.

Is that like a werewolf?  So what are you?  An ignoramus monger?  Or just an ignoramus?

I'm not CDL, but I wanted to say, you're barely literate. I'm surprised you can even read this forum.

 
Also, the whole women jokes thing, that's pretty sexist. Women can be just as funny as men, it's the 21st century man, come on.

You're a young loser without enough game to seduce a woman into bed without paying her.  The problem is, you don't have the money to pay, so you're still a virgin, actually, a virgin loser.  You seem to WANT to be an adult, so you sneak on here and pretend to be one when your mom leaves the trailer to go to the Laundromat.  That makes you the saddest WANNABE ever to appear on here.  

Where were you wolf?  

Did Kramer teach you how to show up late in a thread?

stupid is forever.

... on various condom sites I can get them for the equivalent of $2 each OR sometimes I can even get them from my PCP for the price of F-R-E-E lol. They are pretty affordable at just about any PP too.

The hookers and mongers are right again. 😎

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I might question your motives if you  
used more than one during a session ....  

$3-4 ... I might have to pull the plug....
Btw ... if cleaned properly, are they  
reusable? I know what they cost but only  
dipped into them twice😃

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don't they just feel better.  

I'm not sure why FCs aren't standard and everybody's go-to.

They feel better, they perform better, they're just better all around.

 ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Out of curiosity, I looked at a bunch of different drugstores here and at Wal-Mart and didn't see any anywhere. I've never had anyone express interest in me using one either. If someone I saw mentioned that they prefer that I use them, I'd give them a try-would have to order them online though because I can't find them in any stores around here.

Well, not really.

Most brick & mortar drug stores don't stock FCs.

Wow, it took forever to get an honest answer. There are many girls who really only want to get guys off with a BJ because (even with a condom) it's too "intimate" if a guy comes inside of them.

It's the same reason some girls spit instead of swallow.

Thank you for sharing!

majority of my clients do not like them.  That simple.

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I am a Chicago area provider and I use them. Not sure why you think most don't use them. The trend is that they are being offered by more providers now as an option (especially in Chicago, many providers offer them as an option). They don't work as well for the cowgirl position (they come out easier) and many men love the jiggling boobs above them so the gentlemen that want me to use them in session have to understand that they don't always work in every intercourse position..

...but will at the end of the month, when I have a 3-way scheduled with two lovely ladies who have told me all the good experiences they've had using them.

I believe their hands-on experience with their use will be of great benefit and especially in a 3-way where I won't have to change male condom in between going from one woman to the other. Seems a great way to facilitate ease of transition.

I've had very positive results and feedback when using them

Someone mentioned why per their TER profile, women don't use them. The TER profiles, many are wrong. Like for instance, I am trimmed, not shaved down there but TER won't correct it (yes, I am a provider and I have sent corrections to TER Admin)..Many of the categories on the TER profiles are not up to date and TER listens to the male VIPs more than they listen to providers. So you will have to ask the provider on a case by case basis if they use Female Condoms. I get them in bulk from Amazon and because of my Amazon Prime membership, they are delivered in only a day or two.

Cons: I'm kind of wary about using a FC because when I was using it with my partner, it ended up inside me during sex. Though it was our very first time using it. With each thrust, the guy has to be sure he's going inside the condom and I feel like I have to hold it sometimes lol. It's too easy for the guy to accidently miss. Lastly, it can be awkward to insert and can sometimes get dislodged.

Pros: I like that there's less friction than with a male condom so I have less irritation afterwards. And it feels really good. I guess it just takes practice.