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Bait 'n' switch? Exploiting?angry_smile
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I don't find this funny as the reporters and the fire-fighters do.  I realize it's only $5, but there's a really low-down condensation here that pisses me off, not to mention manipulativeness.  

What are guys supposed to do if they're unhappy at the joke?  Demand their money back?  Making them not only selfish spoil-sports but perverts as well?

It really crosses the line, IMO.  



-- Modified on 8/21/2007 11:32:05 PM

It's just too funny.

And it's a little lesson to always do your research first!

It reminded me of an exhibit to see "baby rattlers" in a cage in Georgia. After paying your dollar to see the "snakes", there were plastic baby rattles  in the cage.

Personally, I found it hillarious!

It is just amazing to me that a grown man would get so upset over this ... life is way to short to let the small stuff get to you.

My suggestion ... deep breaths and masterbation ... works for me every time!

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24 hours later I'm amazed-- at myself. Something posted on this board hit this same hidden button with me.  

I'm pretty touchy about how I love breasts. :))


The sign simply said "topless carwash". It did not say, "Hot blonde female with 40DD natural breasts will be completely topless as she hoses down your car"

Having said that, the fire department (or agency) provided those people who wanted their car washed (clients) with exactly what they advertised. They got a topless car wash by members of the fire department. The fire department never said anything regarding gender.  As a man, you ASSUMED your car was going to be washed by a topless woman. Your fault, not theirs. Now if you had questioned the ladies holding the sign as to who would be administering the car wash, and they lied to you, then you have some validity in your argument. This was not the case.  

Now, if it had in fact been a topless woman, would you have bemoaned a female driver who  argued she was the victim of a bait and switch because she thought she was going to get a car wash by a topless man? Prob. so.

Though I'll admit, in most neighborhoods, this would have been an oddity-- something the city would close down in a second if it were women.  (Another thing showing that it's different if the men do it than if women do it.  The effect is different.)  It might have been worth looking into just for that.

I have to say, it's somewhat incredible to me that guys would take this, and then defend it. It's a subtle point, I'll admit-- but it shows me that guys are trained to be exploited, too.  

-- Modified on 8/22/2007 11:10:26 AM

Damn dude, get a sense of humor. If you need to see titties that bad, you can drive your shiney, clean car to the tittie bar.

Striptease is something else now. :) Nobody else is getting it, here.      

I'm one of the few men of my generation who never saw an episode of "Charlie's Angels." It convinced everybody, including my family that I was gay. Not that I was a prude, or didn't want to see beautiful women, but I didn't want an awful plot and a commercial pitch when all I wanted to see was beautiful women. (Which they didn't show nude.) No, I'd rather look at Playboy and Penthouse, or hardcore.  

Not that I could articulate it at the time. I still haven't watched an episode.  

-- Modified on 8/22/2007 11:06:04 AM

Honestly, I knew it was a scam the second the reporter started his report. Anyone who fell for it should be a little embarrassed at his naivety. BTW, If it "angers" a guy that much he needs to re-examine his priorities in life....


Now, check to see if you're sleepwalking.


"Anyone who fell for it should be a little embarrassed at his naivety." Deserving it? Exactly what the fire-fighters depend on.  

Time gives me a some perspective, though. I would have been one of those spoil-sports who demanded his money back on the spot. It's not funny to me.

I don't want to berate or beat you up here...but I thought it was incredibly funny!  

It was a real lesson in sociologically instilled gender expectations.  Using the word 'topless' and a woman to hold the sign made you expect to see topless women.  After all, men never wash a car topless...only women go topless...men just go without their shirts. ;)



. . . but very different when it happens to you and pay for it, and you're in the demeaning position of wanting to ask for your money back-- but you're not able to. For some reason, being teased in this way really pisses me off.    

Gender expectations: women aren't going to pay guys to go "topless." In general they won't. To me, there's a good biological reason why two different words are used.  One is "going shirtless," and the other is "showing your tits."  The genders see and respond to nudity quite differently, as providers know when they are sent cock-shots.  

Forrest G. Hump363 reads

yes it is a joke, yes it is amusing, & yes it is only $5..

That being said, you DO have a valid point... it is a scam regardless & you have a right to be ticked off if you get had.

I don't think women would be too amused if they were expecting a deal on a Coach or Gucci handbag or Manolo Blahnik shoes only to find that semantics were used to get one over them




-- Modified on 8/22/2007 11:02:58 AM

"Tragedy is me stubbing my toe.  Comedy is you falling through an open manhole cover and dying."

And, if the set-up that deprived the ladies of their expected $5 Coach/Gucci/Blahnik products showed them to be as avaricious for such gee-gaws as fellas are anxious to see topless ladies, then, no, the unfortunate ladies would would not be amused, but everyone else absolutely would be.  

My meter is registering about 93% amusement and 7% [faint] indignation.

and maybe he has a vlid point. If so, I'll leave it up to him to complain. I have too much other stuff to do.

Dude, what's wrong with you.  That's friggin hilarious and benefits a worthy cause to boot.  I just can't see anybody being offended or upset about it.  Just IMHO.  Lighten up!!

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-- Modified on 8/22/2007 5:07:51 PM


But it was pretty lateral begin with.

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