Ladies, do you fake it if someone is licking/pounding you for all he's worth and you're feeling nothing? This provider that I've seen twice now just lays there, no noise, spasming of the hips, or anything. I ask how it feels for her, and she just says, I can't orgasm this way. Only with a vibrator. Am I wrong expect a little something, at least heavy breathing, for my efforts? Even if it's fake?
Second, is it inappropriate to ask a provider to CIM for a little extra $$$, when she normally will not do it? In an interview on another site, she says she's willing to do extra for extra $. I don't want to overstep the boundaries, but that is something I would love for her to do.
You are really having a rough time with this hobby ?
Maybe train collecting next time?
As with all businesses, all providers run their business differently.
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But then he would have to toot his own horn.
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Yes, you're wrong to "expect" anything. Would it be nice if all providers gave encouraging feedback - maybe, but maybe not. Perhaps she is trying to clue you in on something she thinks you might be doing wrong. Personally, if someone is doing something I don't find pleasant, I try to give discouraging body language - although, if they are doing something distinctly UNpleasant I will just stop them.
If you want a better actress you should find a different provider. That seems obvious from the experience you are relating.
If a provider advertises something (CIM or anything else) it is not inappropriate to request it, or to inquire about the menu and the costs involved if the exact extras are not detailed. If you are new to a provider I would not suggest doing this during a first appointment.
Rump roast is a lot cheaper and puts out the same...
although they say the third time is the charm.
Booooiiiiinnng!
Cheers!
Is there not some satisfaction in EATING it.
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TOOT TOOT
Boooiiiing!
Cheers!
I think I will not go near that line.
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If the provider is not really nice enough to try faking enjoyment, I would get another provider. You're certainly within your rights to ask about CIM. I expect it, and would not be with a women that didn't. In my book refusal to do so, is disrespectful and insulting, but the provider is within her rights to say no. I do think it is up to her, when excepting an appointment, that she states she does not provide a very common sexual practice.
It's really that simple.
Ask her what activity she enjoys.
Many times, as I get comfortable with my date, she will inquire "...so, what do you like to do?". In addition to my reply of what I like; I encourage her to direct me towards anything I can do to please her. Although, some will just give you a line about "whatever pleases you pleases me".