I have only seen a few escorts (3 to be exact) and never had an experience that was worth more than the hour spent. However, that changed this weekend. Rather than go with the usual 300-500 providers I went with the higher end of the price scale and was not dissapointed (I guess you get what you pay for sometimes). I spent 2 hours with a provider that quite honestly was amazing. With that said, I am a single man of means and as such don't mind spending for quality. I was thinking about a weekend somewhere tropical with the escort in question and am seeking advice from all of those on the board who have done the weekend thing before. Looking for the good and bad of it and whether it was worth it (money and time) or if the whole "fantasy" thing was blown after a full day or two together.
I can't stress the importance of choosing the right companion for the trip. Incompatibilty could make an hour seem like a day and a day seem like eternity. Obviously, most of the waking hours will not be in the bedroom, so the level of conversation has to match with your interests, etc. Otherwise, it could be a lot of fun. It's like leasing a girlfriend without the lease restrictions... lol. A word of caution... it is addicting.
They charge the same hourly rate for bed play as they do for eating a $300.00 dinner. You would think there would be a substantial break for a daily rate but not with the kind of ladies you like.
They say escorting is cheaper than dating. When you buy an hour or two a week or month, true.
But taking a quality woman on a quality vacation for half a week will be at least 50% of the cost. If your hotel and air come to 12K, your girl will as well.
I'm a "man of means" too, but that's just sick. 12K is not chump change for me, and I keep myself company just fine. I'll hire a local by the hour.
If you're in a frame of mind to spend that kind of moolah on companionship, sounds like you might be setting yourself up for a fall.
Yes the 1hr was great, but before you take a multi day date with the lady you should take several multi hr dates with her to be sure you will have more to talk about after the 1 hr for such trips are much more than that and compatibility over a length of time is emperative in my oppinion
There seems to be a number of vacation spots you could go to in Mexico and Carribean That offer some very reasonable packages that include and escort& a villa and seem pretty well reviewed by people that have used them if this vacation is more for just companionship. 4days is usually in 5k area and some are cheaper.
I think the one in Dominican Republic is named Viking. It was also written up in either Playboy or Penthouse, check it out
My whole point in this was that I found someone with whom I clicked (notice I use "I" not we) and as such would like to spend more time with her. To travel and find a local defeats the purpose as in my limited opinion there are few quality providers out there regarless of cost.
I do appreciate all the replys.
I've done this twice for 4 day weekends. I would not recomend any longer the first time. I did not pay anything like $2000.00 a day. It was more like $700.00. I knew the providors a little bit, told them they were going to a really nice place and were going to be wined and dined., and as such I was not going to pay more than that. They were both very willing. The first time I did not lay down any parrameters and was very disapointed. She acted like a wife.
The second time with a different providor, I explained my expectations. They were, sex on demand, which ammounted to about 4 times a day for an hour or so. She was very accomodating even when woken in the middle of the night. ( I had to pace myself) Secopndly, I wanted the weekend to be GFE, lots of affection, kissing and touching. I asked that she wear extremely small bikinis while we were around the pool. I bought 2 of the string variety when we got there for her. They were 2 sizes too small! I also expected her to wear the rest of the time, outfits where her breast were almost completely exposed. Also no underwear of any kind. The great thing was I never had to make my request except the one time before we left. I probably made a fool of myself, but so what
good on ya mate!!!at least once a month?
For $700/day, what did you expect?! Christ, that's less than many ladies' two-hour donations. Unless they were SWs or adultfriendfinder types, I find it hard to believe that a high-class provider would agree to this sort of deal. For the amount of money you pay, you seem to make an awful lot of unreasonable demands. High-class providers do not want to come off as whores, and that's certainly the way you asked them to appear in public.
I have been on quite a few vacations with clients and/or with married couples. A few things that stand out in my mind that made the trips more of a pleasant & fun experience was having a few moments of downtime alone.. Also as Stilltryin25 pointed out is to plan the hangouts, lunches, bars, beachtime.
I went on a week vacation with a married couple to Cabo San Lucas! Fun in the sun, sex, drinks, dinners, shopping. What an awesome time and get paid for it! I had my own hotel room which gave everyone some downtime. I had 3(4 hr) appts. with this couple prior to the vacation.
I say, with the right Provider ~ Go For It!
Not just one two-hour appointment, but a couple of four-hour dinner dates or even a local overnighter.
Then, once you know that you are also compatible outside the bedroom, you must discuss expectations. If you don't do these things, your chances of a horrible weekend are greatly increased.
I had an experience with a former ATF that turned sour when I tried the weekend thing. Found out that an hour or two were great, but a weekend was pure torture. Actually had more sex in a two hour appointment than I did during that whole weekend.
You're with the right lady. It can add up to a great deal of money. Think of how many ladies you could see and have fun with for the same amount.
An overnight or longer with the right woman is incredible. But as several above have said, it’s more about the interludes than the bed time.
I am not quite well enough off to do those long sessions “often” so I try to make sure they are with someone I have every expectation will work out well. Fortunately most have.
I would suggest you first have at least one couple hour session with her again. Then pose the question if (1) she would consider such a trip, and (2) discuss rates if you want to. For various reasons some ladies won’t do overnights or weekends away. Those that do may or may not have reduced long term rates, and that decision could be a function of many things. That’s her choice, but she should be willing to politely answer the question. There is one woman I have seen overnight. She clearly states on her web site what an overnight costs, but could never afford her overnight rate. Fortunately we both enjoy our time together (I’m mostly talking about her out of the bedroom time) and she asked me if I was interested in an overnight. I said “Yes, but I can’t afford it”, and she asked what I could afford. I know it may not be the norm.
Then, if her answers are things you can live with, I’d suggest one more date: at least 3 hours of dinner, a show, etc. If you can’t enjoy her company for three hours like that, the weekend will be a disaster.
Just one point of view that has worked very well for me.
You will have plenty of time for sex. Plan hangouts an beachside shops and bars, lunches and so forth. The leisure activities will provide sauce for sex when it happens over and over.