Talk.
 Sure, at the end of the session most of us head for the shower.
  But "right after" bustin' a nut I get to find out about the lady I just had the hots for. Learn more about why I was attracted to her, thereby learn more about myself.
 I know that's not the Lykis-approved attitude, but...

I agree completely!  Sometimes that's my favorite time, depending on the guy... Backrubs are great, too... I have this thing where I drag my long, silky hair all the way from his toes, across his legs, his back, all the way up to his shoulders... this seems to feel very good for some reason...

I enjoy that too. I've skipped it a few times when running short of time, and have always missed it.

BTW, where was this survey?

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Gents, you're doing my heart good.  In spite of so many who say that there is no place in this hobby for sentiment, glad to see that some cleave to it.

Oh, and nice pic, NoVA.

I believe there's room for some sentiment, as long as you don't get infatuated with a provider.

Maybe a "mini-romnance" for a couple of hours?

Most of the time I'm not happy with "just" a physical connection--see my reviews. Maybe I'm just being sappy, but what can I say?

Can't have much "right after sex" cuddling in if you schedule only one hour, though. That's why I tend to prefer at least two hours.

**Get ready , you only have 60 minutes to get ready for next friend to come over**

to give us talk time before and after sex. The more we get to know each other, the more relaxed we are.  We are becoming real friends and the sex just gets better and better.

...one hour is never long enough, although on rare occasions I've scheduled a singleton. I usually go for 1.5 or 2, depending on certain other constraints.

I haven't booked more than 2 so far (been hobbying for about 9-10 months), but have had a few providers who let me stay well beyond my allotted time.

On a related note, I don't think I could be in this hobby if I thought my providers weren't enjoying my company, in at least some small way. Maybe that sounds conceited or self-centered, but that's how I feel--and generally speaking, I believe the providers I've seen (particularly my favorites) do enjoy their time, to a greater or lesser degree.

what about round 2?

"...I don't think I could be in this hobby if I thought my providers weren't enjoying my company, in at least some small way."

Nothing warms my heart like the special, sentimental, touching way a lady says, "OK, Baldy, time's up. Get out!"

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...but some kinds are stranger than others!

Maybe it has something to do with that "bald" thing you've got going on there, Lex!

and so is it if the erect nipplies are used in the same manner. But the times when I've had that done to me was usually as part of foreplay rather than afterward.

in the warm afterglow of sex or DATY is the time to cuddle and talk. If it was particularly intense, I like to just hold the lady for awhile, then after a bit we begin to talk. You feel closer to each other then and like you said, you begin to really get to know someone. It might seem strange to say you get to know someone when you just got done with the most intimate acts on the planet, but talking is another great window into the soul.

You said it..

I think it's *because* you've just been so intimate that you are open to listening to and learning about the other person.