I'm actually contacting several ladies for next days (travelling) and I'm really surprised about how much time is needed for an answer. Obviously a lady can be off for a day or more, but when 2 days become usual to get an answer I'm a bit worried.
I mean, in my business I would never ever let a customer waiting for many hours, let alone days, so I'm wondering how so many ladies need 2 days to answer (in the cell phone years when reading e-mails is a breeze...).
I had an answer after 5 days (obviously I already changed plans), needed a week for a couple of mail exchange and appointment confirmation in another case, still waiting for a final confirmation after a first reply 2 days ago for another...

Others aren't.

You are becoming one of those people.  

...I've gotten responses about a minute after hitting "send"  and also gotten some responses weeks later. And everything in between. Sometimes you never hear anything at all. Some providers have no idea how customer service is supposed to work. All you can do is move on, prepare for the worst and hope for the best.

Respond same day.or if its late at night,I will respond the next morning.Lol I had one guy email me for an appointment,and 30min later he said "since you can't reply in a timely fashion,i will spend my money elsewhere."
I just literally got done using the bathroom when I read his email. Some people think we are drive thru's hahaha

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Some posts and posters are funny, some are not. WB's new schtick is very UNFUNNY, and it's not something that is going to get any better with repetition.

if a lady (who is a business) is busy for 5 days (on an extended date, on extended time w/family/other job, etc) it takes little time to set an auto reply email stating as such.

Bullet dodged.

I have missed a few emails because they were threaded in with other requests.  I always try and reply with an apology.  Perhaps a follow up on your original email?  The internet isn't perfect!

Taking the high road is commendable and will probably serve you well.  But, let's face it, how long does it take to answer an email message?  Will someone please give me a break!

and things won't seem so urgent.  Next time plan ahead.  Its not that complicated.

I have initial contact within 24 hours easily (even when not UTR). Once the date is set, I tell them I will send a confirmation message the day before and then one more the morning of before leaving. I give them a general time to expect the messages, too. Now, sometimes people book way ahead and then want to message daily and I will respond but let some days go in between with those messages.  

someone posting from an alias wants to equate business practices in this world with that of some other world -- presumable the legal world but that is not entire clear.

Ladies are carful not to call back often if time has gone by after a guys called like 3 hours or 6 hours depends on time of call. Men often have wives and boss's, co workers, patients and the like. So often we think we are being thoughtful and not causing problems in a guys life.  
  Sometimes men get the urge and they're not responsible because they're so passionate about thirds we have to be the responsible party as a provider and wait for them to call back take it for me because I have made the mistake of what I just said and omg it was not good.  
So keep calling my friend. don't take it personal .
Take it as kindness

Even when I've been super busy I've never let what I felt to be a legit inquiry go more than 2 days without a reply.
And vast majority of the time I actually respond in ehhh 4hrs or less even when i'm having a busy day.

I'm with you on this I don't think I should take more than a day tops I think and a half to get a response that would make me move onto the next one.  Unless of course the girls on vacation or is her day off even if it's a quick reply to get the ball rolling if you're not answering at least within a day or two I'm moving onto the next one

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every lady is different.I always answer my emails in a timely fashion same day or if late evening early the next morning.
Perhaps the provider who took 5 days to get back to you was on vacation or not available for work.
Some providers have day/evening civy jobs and cannot check emails too often.
Perhaps the providers you are contacting is not very good with responding in a timely fashion.
Not very hard to send a very short email saying "Hey I saw your email thank you for your interest please allow x amount of hours or days for a response."That way at least you would know the email was received.

You're obviously LOW PRIORITY on her list. So is your patronage.

I messaged her back that XXX is now deceased and no longer with us.
Her response was "OMG,I'm so sorry"........yeah, I betcha are....lol

If you don't hear back, they don't want or need the work. It's not complicated.

Maybe the time is attributed to what they would need to verify you as a safe hobbyist.  What is usually the turnover that it would take for them to here back from your references? That is why being a member of a verification service in a lot of cases makes that part of the process expedient. Nine times out of ten if you have that then getting that answer should be quick. Now a lot of women just give their email address.  If you have to write them since they wouldn't give a phone number till after verification with your references email address, then it will take more time. If you can give the references phone number, then they should be get back in touch with you much more expediently.   Those are critical questions that one should ask when the response is slow.

I put a vaca responder on but I can't say what other ladies habits are

Guys to please and service. A lot of us make money in other ways which means our phones aren't always on and we aren't checking our hooker boxes every 1 second.  

Especially if someone is inquiring about a date weeks or even months in advance.  

Well maybe not "wasting" it any more than I "waste" my time here all day, but the clip was so funny I had to watch the whole thing.

I was about to end my life after 3 minutes.

The Chinese stuff was funny, which lasted about the first 4+ minutes, the rest of the act kind of bored me and I tuned out at about the 6 minute mark.

I only do this as my own personal playtime. Which I need and crave, but I have my own life too.