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Asfaloth54 8 Reviews 1425 reads
posted
1 / 25

Curious as to the experiences of others.  ADD is strongly associated with hyper-sexuality, so it would seem reasonable to expect providers and clients both to have a higher incidence of ADD.

I know that in my relatively short time in the Hobby, most of the providers I have seen have significant ADD, just as I do.  This makes for great sexual intensity, and would seem to explain why providers might be more responsive than the population at large.  But it has it's done side, at least for me.  It has in fact been a bit frustrating to discover 30 minutes into a 1 hour ride that we have both been babbling the whole time about irrelevant shit.  lol!  I'm learning to place my mind in a hyper-focus mode so I get the most out of the erotica, while saving the convo for later - or calling for the convo to be exclusively erotic in nature.  Nothing worse than losing the wood because a fucking bird flew past the window..... ;)

What say you

GaGambler 484 reads
posted
2 / 25

I must have stopped paying attention after the first sentence or so.

HarryWotton 11 Reviews 465 reads
posted
3 / 25

I don't mind when the phone is whipped out during the session, it is a medical condition!

Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 445 reads
posted
4 / 25

Though the root cause might be the same, what I am referring to is this:

We're kissing, starting to match rhythms, tongues going deeper, really starting to get warmed up....

And he yanks his mouth away and his suddenly nibbling my ear!  Oh... ok... this is good... yes, a little tongue... now trailing his tongue with wet kisses down my neck... mmmmmm yes....

And he pulls away again!  Back to DFK... ok, now I grab his head and really start going for the deep tongue action, let's keep the pace going, yes very good, now nibbling a little... and BAM!    

He stops cold and steers me towards the bed.... alrighty, I'm all for that!!  ;-)

Clothes start getting tugged off and we're off to the races!!!   To take matters into my own hands and hopefully get the flow going in one steady direction, I head down south: some stroking, licking the boys, then head on up to take his cock fully in my mouth..... Boom!  
He grabs me under the armpits, pulling me up for more DFK.... (what the hell dude, is this your first time???)

 
And so on.... a whole buffet of confusing foreplay and sexual activities that just feels disjointed and makes it impossible for me to establish a good pace and rhythm.    

Anyhoo... I was hoping you were talking about THAT and maybe had an opinion/explanation.  :-)

:-P

xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 379 reads
posted
5 / 25

Is that like, a provider riding me like a Thorobred and she suddenly stops to check the condom?  Or my personal favorite, giving me a legendary bbbj and suddenly stopping to tell me that we only have 15 minutes left in the session? Been there done them and have the scars to prove it b

hey mikey 8 Reviews 369 reads
posted
7 / 25


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AHappyCamper 9 Reviews 563 reads
posted
8 / 25

Sheepish raises hand. Guilty. Sorry but I'm totally turned on by a lady who knows how to DFK and I'm more inclined to work my south once I'm fully lost in the moment.  I'm highly motivated at that point.  

No, it's definitely not my first time.

STPhomer 176 Reviews 476 reads
posted
10 / 25

Many studies have....
Hey, anyone wanna hook up tonight ?

Replicunt 521 reads
posted
11 / 25

And played pleasant but undiverting music when meeting clients.  I once played the cd at the incall, which was a Massive Attack album and was way distracted when the House MD theme song came on.  Lol

     That said, it can be useful if you like to really observe the other person's reactions closely.  There are so many types of responses to contact (breathing, sounds, movements, tension, etc) that it helps if the mind tends to dart around some.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 377 reads
posted
12 / 25

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jjweiskopf 1 Reviews 360 reads
posted
15 / 25

... earlier in this thread the lyrics "Blame it on my ADD" from the AWOLNATION song "Sail" started playing in my head and then I saw your reply mentioning House MD and I remember how "Sail" was featured in ads for House MD in a later season but you were talking about Massive Attack and they're cool too...  
...
...
...
 wait, where am I and what am I supposed to be focusing on right now

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 281 reads
posted
16 / 25

It's those damn, shiny, belly button rings ...oh pretty, pretty, shiny, shiny

AHappyCamper 9 Reviews 381 reads
posted
17 / 25

Wait. What? Rings on her belly button. Those arent the shiny ones I get easily distracted by :-)

Keep going south, the rings I'm talking about can get very shiny, almost sparkle.

TheHoundOfCullin 9 Reviews 405 reads
posted
18 / 25

ADD is a term that is used very loosely today..
The girl I dated two summers ago told me she had ADD.
She stabbed her ex husband. Was supposed to be taking Lithium.
She was a fucking maniac.. I adored her. She liked to paint naked.

This summer I met the Russian girl. Same exact personality as the Lithium girl.  
I couldn't resist her spunky ways. This one was trained in the Israeli army.
She beat the shit out of her still husband! Bad... She has skills.

See what I'm getting at? As much fun as those girls were. The sex, the adventure.
Just fucking amazing... I don't want to be the next guy who gets stabbed

HarryWotton 11 Reviews 372 reads
posted
19 / 25
HarryWotton 11 Reviews 308 reads
posted
20 / 25

It would go something like this:  "hon, since you are playing with your phone anyway, do you mind logging in to TER so that you can help me look for my next ATF?

2236707 3 Reviews 366 reads
posted
21 / 25

wait a minute, i'll get right back to you on this

lhooq 95 Reviews 419 reads
posted
22 / 25

How old was the guy?  

Could have been me when I was 18.... lol.
Posted By: DebbieNoonerGirl
Though the root cause might be the same, what I am referring to is this:  
   
 We're kissing, starting to match rhythms, tongues going deeper, really starting to get warmed up....  
   
 And he yanks his mouth away and his suddenly nibbling my ear!  Oh... ok... this is good... yes, a little tongue... now trailing his tongue with wet kisses down my neck... mmmmmm yes....  
   
 And he pulls away again!  Back to DFK... ok, now I grab his head and really start going for the deep tongue action, let's keep the pace going, yes very good, now nibbling a little... and BAM!    
   
 He stops cold and steers me towards the bed.... alrighty, I'm all for that!!  ;-)  
   
 Clothes start getting tugged off and we're off to the races!!!   To take matters into my own hands and hopefully get the flow going in one steady direction, I head down south: some stroking, licking the boys, then head on up to take his cock fully in my mouth..... Boom!  
 He grabs me under the armpits, pulling me up for more DFK.... (what the hell dude, is this your first time???)  
   
   
 And so on.... a whole buffet of confusing foreplay and sexual activities that just feels disjointed and makes it impossible for me to establish a good pace and rhythm.      
   
 Anyhoo... I was hoping you were talking about THAT and maybe had an opinion/explanation.  :-)  
   
 :-P  
   
 xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 375 reads
posted
23 / 25

Guys, Please don't put your dick in crazy.
 

Posted By: TheHoundOfCullin
ADD is a term that is used very loosely today..  
 The girl I dated two summers ago told me she had ADD.  
 She stabbed her ex husband. Was supposed to be taking Lithium.  
 She was a fucking maniac.. I adored her. She liked to paint naked.  
   
 This summer I met the Russian girl. Same exact personality as the Lithium girl.  
 I couldn't resist her spunky ways. This one was trained in the Israeli army.  
 She beat the shit out of her still husband! Bad... She has skills.  
   
 See what I'm getting at? As much fun as those girls were. The sex, the adventure.  
 Just fucking amazing... I don't want to be the next guy who gets stabbed.  
   
 

hey mikey 8 Reviews 287 reads
posted
24 / 25

You should see what I can do with sock puppets.

Lady_Rose See my TER Reviews 398 reads
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25 / 25
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