I had one gal ask me if I like degrading talk.  She said she was really good at it, so I figure, what the hell, let's give it a shot.

So she asks, Are you Jewish?  and I say yeah.

Next thing she's a gestapo officer telling me to ram my damn Jew dick up her or she'll gas me.

I'm a bit ashamed to say that it did turn me on.  She was, in fact, damn good at it.

Not too many gals are into doing that however.

I personally don't like being called "Daddy" and I don't like degrading talk. Not my thing. I know others like it, but I don't.

Is it in?

a certain recently retired hooker from Bayou country, right? LOL

I remember sticking my 5.99" schlong in her like it was yesterday.  

She had no questions like yours posed to me.

life and was raised by 2 very right wing, south boston, strict , strict, parents, ... I was raised with alot of strict rules from the old school and both my parents were very successful and ran with a crowd of successful people, Every one owned ginormous houses, ginormous boats, hard workers.  

    I can play around and say and take bad language, i know who i am in real life it dont bother me to role play. I can handle it.  

  I think if i had a hang up and really felt badly about myself i wouldnt want to play around with disrespectful terms, They dont bother me if its in an appt and in good fun, As long aS THE PERSON IS RESPECTING ME  IN REAL LIFE AND WE ARE LAYING ITS OK, I ACTUALLY KINDA LIKE THE ABUSIVE ROLE PLAY TERMS AND ROLE PLAYING, I AM THE SLUTTY PIC WHORE YOUR THE DIRTY OLD MAN JOHN.

 
   i guess i have issues cuz i can get into the abusive terms myself, I like to joke around. I am also like overly confident in my class and manners and upbringing so there are no like deep seated bad memories of being called white trash or ghetto, I waS RAISED IN A MANSION.  In a rich neighborhood with highly successful, non drinking non drug user, white bread american family, i have no like deep seated issues surrounding knpwing i was raised with class and manners and actually neither them got anything handed to them, My mother got the huge company she worked for to pay her way through school she showed to be such a hard worker,. then became executive .  
    then father he got kicked out young then mastered and i mean mastered a trade and made serious cake! They were both like neurotic over achievers and talented ones, I can know when playing is playing and we can joke in appt,.. I in real time came from a very classy and good upbringing so the role play where the gal is called a pig and the stuff, i can take it.

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I saw a guy a couple of times and during the first couple of visits everything went fairly normally. I could tell that the client did drugs (he could barely walk because he was so high) but I was young then and a party girl myself so it didn't bother me all that much at the time. While chatting with him I learned of divorce he was going through and mentioned in addition to the divorce that his wife was fighting to keep him away from his two small (toddler to 6 years old) daughters. I thought nothing of it until he came to visit me a third time. We were getting warmed up and so – feeling like he knew me well enough he asked me to act like and talk to him as a little girl and to call him daddy. Knowing about his 2 girls I was instantly sick and horrified!!! My energy and body seemed to freeze. I don't remember what I said or did exactly after that but I know he left the room a few minutes after whispering that awful request in my ear and that I never spoke to him or saw him again.

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I've been seeing a latina milf lately and I love it when she says "oh papi"  when we're going at it.  

I'll never forget this girl in Canada, she showed up at my hotel and she was so quiet and demure I was beginning to think I'd made a mistake but when we really got going she had a lot to say about her pussy, my dick and the interaction thereof! It was so hot coming out of this GND that had looked like a math club nerd 20 minutes earlier (albeit a hot one). Aside from that preference I'm pretty much whatever, though I don't use disparaging terms even in fun and I'm not a big fan of daddy or papi either...especially not in a little girl's voice, that post above from Laney was disturbing as fuck!

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"Ai, Papi, duro!  DURO!

Some have said they like being called slut or whore. I just can't bring myself to say those things, though. To me it's degrading, just like COF.  Now fuck, suck, eat me, pussy, cock and a whole slew of other words are fine.

find myself using "cock" a lot. I like a little gang bang chatter too

Her talk is almost what I'd expect to written in a diary: very personal, very hot, very uninhibited.

We like to call it "having sex" I guess it softens the blow of the out right fuck word, and its more acceptable than "making love" right? Just my opinion!!

"Oh yeah, fuck me Bob!  Just like that Bob!  Damn I love your dick Bob!"

Having my name attached to the talk adds to the whole GFE and can really heighten the moment.

On the other hand, in the hobby world I feel kind of silly using the lady's made-up name, so I often abstain from that.

I'm not very original during sex, so it's just a lot of "Oh yeah, fuck me baby!  Damn you are so sexy!  That's it, just like that don't stop! Fuck that feels good.  Grind that cock baby.  Damn you are gorgeous!  Oh my god your breasts are perfect.  Damn I'm a lucky man."

But not all at once of course - as nobody likes a blabbermouth who won't shut up.
(which reminds me actually, some ladies do overdo the oohs and aahs a bit, to the point where it is so obviously fake that it is a distraction).

But regarding sex talk, nothing degrading.  Not my thing

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Then he starts laughing.

Then I apologize for making him laugh with his dick in me.

He then decides not to ask again lol

...what kind of Senator do you think I am?

I always ask a lady on our first date if it's OK and that she understands that it's fantasy and I absolutely in no way mean anything by it. I've never once had a lady even hesitate, they get it. This sport is all about fantasy, they provide the world that we don't get to experience IRL, such as role play. As long as proper respect is given and maintained, its of benefit to both parties. We all have our limits, if we talk about those and don't tread on each other then all is good.

I saw a hot provider who was black, and she started saying things like "fuck this black pussy" and the like. I totally lost my erection before we even got started. She asked me not to review, even though we got started again later. If she had said the same thing, without the "black" I'm confident I'd have been raring to go. I had one session where we had established the dirty talk, and she called me "a sick fuck" and it excited me, partially because Jennifer Connelly's character in Reqiuem for a Dream says that to another character, and I think Jennifer Connelly is the sexiest woman on earth.

At least for me, dirty talk is exciting for me as long as its detached. Just raunchy, nasty fun.

I enjoy calling a woman a slut, bitch, whore in a session during the action and I definitely enjoy COF, its not degrading to me though. Its fantasy, I would never call a woman those words IRL, so doing so in a session is an escape of real life for me, and directly after the action is over I'm back to myself and I'm affectionately touching her and talking to her. As far as COF, I just like the way a beautiful woman looks with cum on her face, I'm a very visual guy.  

My stating my stance is not saying that you are wrong and I am right. You and I seem to agree on some things and disagree on others, and isn't that awesome? If we all thought, felt or participated the same way, life would be very boring.

I tip my Bourbon glass to you sir.

Jealousy is the ugliest of all emotions.

If I'm at a beach and a young buff guy walks past and girls are checking him out, my thoughts are "good for you dude, you deserve the adulation, you worked hard for that, much harder than I ever have, you deserve it

But this bitch, I can read her mind. Its fucking ugly.

is sitting there trying to act nonchalant as he checks out the hottie - with a big smile, and even bigger boner that he is half-heartedly trying to hide with a newspaper in his lap!

(okay, likely not his wife, but I'll stand by the rest, lol)

I'm not big on using degrading terms (no judgment, just not my thing) but CIM and COF? Oh my yes, I'm a visual creature as well!

But it just doesn't seem to work for me.

"WHO'S YOUR GRANDADDY BITCH" ...

has never seemed to enhance the mood

CIM? That's a requisite for me to see someone.

As for Russ tipping his glass of bourbon to me, I no longer drink.

let us celebrate our differences.

I can not ever envision myself not drinking. I enjoy it. I don't and won't drink junk (lousy Bourbon like Jim Beam, or beer like Bud Light). I drink for 2 reasons, because I like the taste and I like the effect. But I never drink and drive and I don't allow my drinking to keep me from going to work. I've been labeled a "functioning alcoholic", my response to that is "bullshit! I don't go to those fucking meetings, I'm a functioning drunk".

Russ tips his glass, doh! it needs a refilling. Pardon me.

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Sooner or later it had to stop or I'd be dead before my ex. Can't have that. ;

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your integrity is different than mine, And that's perfectly fine. I will never impose my integrity on you, and I respect you won't impose your integrity on me.... Its all good

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I really like to hear

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Everyone knows.  But it's still nice of you to say it.

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