appreciate when a guy gets all dressed up for me as, I take the time to get all dolled up for each and every gentlemen. I'm okay with jeans and a t shirt if we're going out for some casual fun.  

If anyone is wondering just wear a suit and you've made my day.

Especially at your price point, the word "dash" in a hooker name brings up the wrong kind of mental images for me.

As for a suit, I quit wearing suits twenty years ago, most of us don't expect a lady to be dressed to the nines for an incall date, and most guys really don't want their dates to be too dolled up for an outcall. Freshly showered and lingerie is just fine with me for an incall. As for me, I am just as likely to show up in shorts if it's the summertime, but I will be freshly showered.

am in New York City; obviously a very business oriented environment.. And I can tell you the people that wear suits (or at least a jacket/tie) on a daily basis has diminished drastically over the past decade. I see very few "suits" on a daily basis (in my office, building, the surrounding area, on trains, subways, etc.). Unless one is meeting a client, most business men today wear corporate casual (dress slacks/button down long sleeved shirt). The work culture has completely changed with respect to attire.  

knock on my door, and into his arms I fell.

is to wear what makes you most comfortable and defines the man you are, however, whatever that is. I've had the pleasure of meeting gentlemen in three piece suits (tie and all), cowboy boots, jeans, tee shirts, sweaters, flip flops, shorts, polos, blazer and dress slacks, leather pants, I mean the whole gamut. All of them were sexy, because they wore it well and were sexy in their own skin. Nothing else really matters to me. The key to whatever anyone wears is to wear it with the utmost in confidence..........that's the sharpest suit out there in my opinion.

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Suit is great but considering the weather and high humidity other wardrobe choices are equally nice and elegant (a nice pair of slacks with a freshly pressed shirt and loafers are great). We highly appreciate a gentleman who has placed a little more emphasis on looking good for us, conversely we also try to look good at all times...

however they come to me! And I do swoon for suits. In FL they don't happen too often as Paloma said, but my goodness I get lady wood when they do happen. Usually we get jackets at the most, which are also moisture-inducing for me. I do love it when a man makes an effort to be ready for me- even if he comes in shorts, if he's clean-shaven/nicely groomed and smells delicious in all the right places, I'm very pleased.

I'm from the D.C. area and it still is a suit environment, and I also like wearing them.  My body shape requires slim suits and they are very comfortable on me, almost becomes like a second skin.
I travel frequently and my clientele still requires me to dress appropriately.  

i thought the same thing about dash...

Decades ago men wore suits for everything. It wasn't just the movies.  

…applying for a job that required dressy attire. (Not surprised in your comment about that one encounter).

n my youth, if I attended a Broadway show, most men (if not all) would be in a suit/ or jacket and tie. No other attire was considered. Today, men wear football jerseys to the theater. Same goes for religious worship. I would never wear anything else but a suit. Now men show up looking like total slobs. Sometimes the clothes are appalling. Now I'll admit that I have "downgraded" my current attire when attending the theater or Church/Temple. But I still would wear at the very least business casual. Never shorts, t-shirts, flip flops. etc.  

I don't know about anyone else. When I see a suit I start thinking detective inspector.

Whenever I'm going someplace where I feel that how I'm dressed will be taken into account, there are three options.

And most of the time if I did I'd look pretty out of place given the office culture. I do like the way I look in one though and don't mind the excuse to wear a suit when I can.

If I show up in a suit with Tobi, you'll be dripping wet?

Many young women have exchanged money for sex - before they have ever sat down for an interview.

That the name Dash was synonymous with affluence with in the hip-hop community.

Plans on playing catcher?

Nobody in Hawaii wears suits, except for attorneys, and that's only when they are in court.

Like most "mainlanders" a coat and tie was the uniform of the day, even in the oil business. I flew out and brought about three different suits to wear for my various meetings. After my first meeting, where I was the only guy in the room wearing a suit, I "went native" immediately lol

Now suits are reserved for weddings and funerals, I still own a tux, but I haven't worn it for at least ten years. Wearing a suit to a P4P session is laughable IMO

I don't even know how too tie a tie.(I keep several loosely pre-tied in my closet in case)  

unless you're the "guest of honor!"

In today's world, the "wanna be's" wear the suits and the guys who have made it wear casual.

A business suit is a uniform, and once you've reached a certain status it's the "other guy" who needs to wear a uniform.

It's funny, I actually like wearing a suit, but in my business wearing a suit is like driving a hummer, people look at you like you're a putz when you do so.

Being a very touristy town where shorts are the norm I'll usually were a some nice loafers, shorts and a clean casual shirt. I want to blend in as much as possible.

In my family are from a culture sort of obsessed with appearance and attires,  I often hear a lot of bullshit from relatives and friends when I show up at an event in my jeans lol  If I am going to a formal event with a girl dressed in formal dress,  well yeah I need to dress my ass up too.  

Oh gosh I'm giggling. Lol

Detective inspector eh? Coming to inspect me and finding out what makes me tick?

For me, making a date with a lady might be just a once a month occasion. For you it's just a part of your everyday routine. So I'm have to admit that it probably seems like a bigger deal for me each time. And the people in my world don't equate wearing a suit with driving a hummer. A suit and tie are just items of clothing like socks or jeans.

but mostly in the capital city of San Jose which is at a bit of altitude, it rarely gets much of 80 there, if you go down to the beach it is almost always "Florida in the summertime" type hot, and you won't see a lot of suit wearers there, unless it's a bathing suit that you are talking about.

I'm more concerned with hygiene and behavior. Some of my favorite dates have been more on the casual side, but what gal doesn't like a man in a suit -- or likes to get dolled up herself from time to time?

I have no preference.

I like to be the pretty one!
No really, anywhere in Chicago a pair of jeans and jacket are all you need.
But whatever makes you most comfortable is best.
I can't wear jeans...too much ass and thighs
I just never feel comfortable in them and love dresses but a guy in jeans and jacket looks sexy!

And you look just as lovely.

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I like to be the pretty one!  
 No really, anywhere in Chicago a pair of jeans and jacket are all you need.  
 But whatever makes you most comfortable is best.  
 I can't wear jeans...too much ass and thighs  
 I just never feel comfortable in them and love dresses but a guy in jeans and jacket looks sexy!

when visiting providers is far more important......

Suits do look sharp, but excluding some lawyers and politicians, only the men who wear polos and khakis (or jeans) can afford to see me regularly... Lol.  

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Seems many are quite casual with their attire...and few make any serious money  LOL

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Suits do look sharp, but excluding some lawyers and politicians, only the men who wear polos and khakis (or jeans) can afford to see me regularly... Lol.  
   
 Sometimes for dinner dates a guy will ask what he should wear.  I always tell him no worries, I can carry the team.  If he's super casual, everyone will just assume he's rich or hung like a horse.  Lol.  Hilarious but 100% true.

But we could put it to the test.

I am forever hers.

with your suspenders, Dr WhoR!  
Also, you're missing an e at the end  lol

I had a slightly different agenda in mind.

Some still are asking..

Posted By: TiffanyDelight

with your suspenders, Dr WhoR!    
 Also, you're missing an e at the end  lol

Me and the ceo set a culture where we don't give a shit about dressing up too much most days of the week. Neither do the employees lol they all dress in biz casual or jeans and the only time we suit up is when there are big name guys visiting who is most likely wearing a suit so it's a courtesy that I we also dress somewhat appropriately.  

the one thing they don't want to do is appear as a stand out.

Steph

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And to the extent that I have to do business or deal with people, I feel it is a sign of respect to dress well when meeting them. And I'm quite serious about clothes fending off random people. It's like carrying a clipboard when going to certain parts of town. I have no real need of a clipboard, but it looks like even though I'm a stranger, I must be there on some kind of business, so people generally leave me alone.

homicide detectives. Not sure why?... as they shouldn't be much of an issue to anyone.

To answer you question simply: Dressy attire that is applied to what the position required and employees did not wear flip flops. It is not a sex worker’s job.  

Generational gap in work place fashion?  

And damn you're right... Traders, et al.  I practically know the distance to the CBT in yards, can't believe I didn't think of that.

but I wouldn't touch a hooker from Chicago with a ten foot pool.  

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And damn you're right... Traders, et al.  I practically know the distance to the CBT in yards, can't believe I didn't think of that.  
   
 Only one because I'm a 33 year-old 9.  Not sure I can pull off making a guy look rich AND hung, I'll leave that to the 26 year-old 10's. Lol.

I agree. I don't even own a suit anymore, but I HAD to wear one (and a tie) daily until I retired. Comfort is where it's at for me these days. I'm only going to drop everything I have on right to the floor anyway.

There is a history of change in fashion but it is not worth the time and effort to get into details here. The point is moot if not trite in this exchange as it is off the wall! I realize no two people see eye to eye; especially if they choose and like to do so on purpose. No problem though, I’m always up for a good laugh, as sir you are unique in your own way; so live your fantasy and have some fun. Many do like fantasy, anyhow. Though, the trick is to see if others take to your thinking (and visa-versa, too) to get a, fun, entertaining and interesting conversation…I’m done here.

but you are not good at it.

The collective sigh of relief from every provider in Chicago could be heard for miles!

Well,I don't expect any of them to give a shit.  

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Sorry I didn't I actually came up with my name from my nickname and the actress Stacey Dash. Dash comes from her and Diamond is the nickname my Godmother gave me.

I also wear suits for work all the time and is what I feel most comfortable in, so I always wear suits and tie to a date. I have a ton of ties and some ties for work, some for play.  Also various pocket squares to jazz things up.  

Posted By: sc400

I'm from the D.C. area and it still is a suit environment, and I also like wearing them.  My body shape requires slim suits and they are very comfortable on me, almost becomes like a second skin.  
 I travel frequently and my clientele still requires me to dress appropriately.    
   
 To those ladies in SoFL, I travel there for business quite often and the when I show up in a suit, the ladies do seem to really enjoy the periodic change from summer casual.  I receive quite a bit of compliments, men you should try it.  
   
 While I agree that clothes don't make a man, but a well fit and tailored suit sure doesn't hurt