I recently had a great experience with a provider and was hoping to see her sooner than when she came back to my area and thought about a road trip. As a provider do you ever have "Real" connections with hobbyists that make an encounter better than usual?

So as a provider do you like when I client is into you and goes out of his way or even out of state to come and visit again?  

For a Hobbyist how far would you go to see an ATF if you knew they would not be coming back for some time?

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and I have done it on a few occasions, but it's usually been for a weekend long date. Of course I can jump on a plane with about as much thought as most people will jump in a cab.

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i am a wanderlust, i say - go for it!

i travel far and wide to see concerts and beaches!

i have been to australia twice because of their concerts & beaches. i tend to make a whole experience out of it. why not. find a quirky hotel. yelp a local cuisine. rent a bike. get laid! sounds like a wonderful weekend to me!

I may just do that thank you Alyssa Marie!

Absolutely!!   There is no rhyme or reason to it.... it could be somebody I find physically attractive or not.  
We could chat, establish rapport and it just took off from there; or he walked into the room and we were just instantly all over each other like horny teenagers, getting it on hot-pig-sex style until we totally wore ourselves out.  

Physical/personal chemistry is a funny thing and I, for one, cannot magically create it.   If it's someone I like, then yes.  If it's someone who is just "ok" then I may want to be careful to keep a certain "professional distance" as I'm NOT interested in socializing with this person outside of our dates.

Right now, I've got a few people I really like.   One of them is from out-of-state.   I absolutely love that he tries to work his schedule and travels so that we can get together.  This is someone with whom I do chat and communicate OTC and with whom I might even spend some social non-P4P time if our schedules so coincided.    

 
On a personal note: I've noticed that the aforementioned situations of instant explosive physical chemistry rarely become regular client/friends.   But I do remember them.   And fantasize about them from time to time.  

 

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I just finished loading the car for a 420 mile trip to see my CF...

Debbie you are the type of provider we all seek thank you for the great response...

I don't have ATF's and quite frankly I don't care much for the term. I do however constantly have CF's and I think that is the more accurate term to use in such context.

I flew from Boston to Melbourne Australia for sole purpose to see a provider.  She never traveled.  Met her while there on business... had to revisit.  True story of many years ago.

To see a couple of women ranked in the top 40 in the world.  One was running an incredible special--and gave me extra time on top of that.  The other was someone whom I had to cancel on for a minor injury and decided to go see her for an evening and morning.  In both cases, I flew for my first date with them.

I've seen both multiple times and am "friends" with both.

from the couch into the bedroom. Any further, and she would have to lower her rate.

Again. LOL

to see certain gals who only visit NYC and not Boston.

There was another gal I took a few day time round trips flights to see.  She was worth every penny and moment on the plane too

It's not much of a flight or drive, plus I saw a few clients while I was there so it all worked out. I'm happy, my clients are happy, my "friend" was happy, or I hope and my tax man is happy.
So as Alfred E. Newman once said,"What me worry"

I've had men come from other countries to see me specifically.  First I think they have way too much money.  Then I get extremely intimidated.  Then its very, very flattering.  They were all European.

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Good point! I think I need a business trip very soon

Nice to hear that the providers get excited over things like that. I realize there is a fine line between seeking out and stalking LOL.. I think when you find a provider that you have an exceptional time with it would benefit both of you if the feeling is mutual to see one another on a more regular basis. I am sure the encounters become more intense and spirited!

Has nothing to do with Money. If you find something you like you need to go for it since we have no idea how long we will be here. Living with regret is no way to live. You must be a prize for sure to have such admirers.

Naw.  I'm just very specialized, and there seems to be a lot of Italians and Germans that are down.

... it will be a cross-country trip 99 percent lopaw-induced

Here in the DMV though I've been known to go to certain areas for my friends.  When they do it for me I'm always very appreciative

And it was worth every dime and every ounce of effort, all 8 times.

I plan to travel to San Fran to see a gem, and I'll be traveling to Phoenix again as well. I try to incorporate my hobby in my business travel, but it doesn't always work out.

I always have to drive at least half hour to an hour. No provider comes to my small town and I have to drive to the "big city."

I have a lady that will travel 2.5 hours to see for a two hour date does that count for this thread. I would not travel more then 5 hours to see a provider.

A provider I was seeing for quite a while moved out of my home state. She's retired from the business now living on a monthly state income in the state she's living in now. I drive once a year to see her. I stay with her for about a week. Even though she's older she's still just as fun as when she was working as a provider in my home state. Oh total distance driving, about 1800 miles back and forth.

However I coordinate with a business trip. I usually schedule the date first and then do some business meetings.

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Very luck LA is amazing for provider choices!

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That's quite a hoop-a-loop, GaG! : )

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It is a 4 hour drive for me to get to the closest provider period. Unless, by chance, I am able to arrange an appointment with a traveling provider going between KC and Denver. I used to travel and make a trip once a year to visit other cities to try the menu there. I have traveled from Kansas to Las Vegas, New York, Dallas (not going back there, lol) etc.  So I would say if she is an ATF make a multi hour appointment and head out.

And I almost always have to go out of state, or at least drive a few hours. Nobody comes to this part of the country.

I may go to Europe and see a couple of providers there, but I'm not going just to see a particular provider.

I live in the middle of nowhere, I have a 3 to 4 hour drive to a city where I can see a provider.

and are you going to pick me up, or LWAM, or both of you? lol

It's not often that I will hop a plane just to see one woman, and even rarer to do so on a P4P date, but it does happen occasionally.

A man that won't jump thru the hoops of filling out a screening form and just moves on, but will jump thru hoops and travel to another country to see a woman. Gag, your starting to remind me of Joe Biden. I read your posts waiting for you say something hilariously stupid. While agree with you on most things sometimes a turd falls out of your mouth.

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It's worth it!

and me hopping on a plane of my own free will.  

I hardly think of traveling to another country to see a woman as jumping through "her" hoops.

and obviously I am not taking a several hour flight to meet a complete stranger, most of the women I have traveled to see had either reached, or were close to GF status, not what's commonly referred to here as ATF status.  

Sorry, but no turds on this thread. Please be patient though, once I start PUI I am sure I will say something hilariously stupid for your amusement.

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For the right provider , I'd take a day trip.

Lol.  I didn't even think about that.  Maybe!