Do most guys want to visit a provider "on impulse and right now" or do you call and give 24+ hour notice?

Women, what do you see?

I definitely fall into the other camp, I very rarely book a session more than a few hours in advance and many of my appointments are booked for "right now"  

I will say it cuts down on cancellations and no shows, on both sides of the equation.

Needless to say, I cannot accomodate right now or even same day because I am not sitting in a hotel all dressed and ready to go 24/7. I will say, women who can do such calls make hella money, but at what cost? How can you screen a guy who wants 'right now' unless of course they are using employment, but you can't exactly confirm that after close of day. Most right now types are late night, drunken callers.  

I'm definitely more of a planner. Anytime my plan falls through and I'm ready for fun I habe NEVER had a successful time scrambling around to fill the void

Why don't you sit in a hotel room 24/7 all dressed and ready for a week to go and see how you do? LOL

You can be our test case.  

Of course the 6" cock thing will be an issue but we'll factor that in when we tabulate the results.

I might just do that in Chicago tomorrow bwahahaha.

and the last time we spoke, just which one of us was drunk???

Ok, let me rephrase that, which one of us was "drunker" lol

P411 is great for "right now" bookings. I have lots of recent okays, it only takes most women I book with through P411 a few minutes to get a comfort level with me. I have very few problems booking short notice, of course there are a few women that I would like to see who I most likely will never get to as I can't give them enough notice. and that's okay because there are hundreds more that have no problems with the way I do things.

Yes! What is it with this assumption that we're all just sitting around in our thigh high stockings waiting by the phone all day? I swear some men really don't think we're much more than warm blow up dolls lol.

Yah, but we were shooting the shit, not trying to set up an appt. lol. And, I was not dressed, not in full makeup and my legs were not even shaved bwhahahaha.

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. . . although it isn't something I do a whole lot.  Your own experience may vary, but I did an early morning ISO seeking a lunch date.  Both responses were from women I now see regularly.  I was surprised, and I asked one of them why she responded.  She told me is was a combination of the request for a three hour block, and the wording, that led her to believe it was a serious inquiry and not a waste of her time.  So I found out the last minute thing can work under the right circumstances.

I like to plan, but my plan also has time set aside to take advantage of spontaneous opportunities that seem to always present themselves.

Know you are joking.........but if you checked her TER profile...........we all can see she would be able to command whatever she wishes and "rake in the big bucks" using ANY business model she chooses

nd sometimes months ahead for traveling gals, depending on when they tell me they will be in my area or when I see their ad come up.

But when I was married, I had to be opportunistic, and hope for a last minute date when I had an opportunity arise

Are you trying to say you have a life..........outside of our hobby?  How dare you!!!!!!

Hopefully you can sense my extremely sarcastic tone.

and several both guys and girls starting going on about how it "never works out" on appointments booked same day, and trying to tell the guys who didn't know better not to even try as no quality woman would ever be available on short notice on a Sunday.

Well that very same Sunday morning I looked up a little Thai hottie on P411, made an appointment for about an hour later, and here it is over a year later and we speak almost every day. So YES, the last minute thing can work out quite well at times.

Who reach out anywhere from a few days to months in advance.
If my schedule allows I can do a same day appt but I still require at least a few hours that is why I like the P411 available now feature.Great to use if you have an unexpected free time or want to fill the time maybe due to a cancellation.
Every so often a guy will contact me and want an appt right now.Most of these appt requests do not provide any screening info at all.I don't respond to these kind of appt requests in my opinion it is a waste of time.
There are some guys who are planners and others who like the spur of the moment

But don't forget there are gals who use the "First to arrive" business model.  (Say  yes to every caller, accept the first to arrive at the call point, turn off her phone until she's free again and never call back anyone.  Most common when therent is due.)  I will not book anyone who won't give me a firm reservation (not to say I can't & haven't been stood up, but it won'ty happen twice.)  

For a variety of reasons, I need to use the same day or next day reservation plan.  I'd like to plan further out & I could in the past.

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If you a couple of regulars and couple agencies you use, it has never been a problem. My schedule doesn’t allow me to plan ahead a lot.

Sensed and appreciated

... for a few reasons. One is that my schedule has few holes in it, so I book at least a couple of weeks and often longer in advance to make sure I can see who I want, when I want. I recently booked a 3-hour session two months in advance, as it was a special occasion.  

Very occasionally I've booked a provider a day or so in advance, but I haven't done that for many months.

...due to business & family obligations. I haven't had any real difficulty planning an incall session out a month or more in advance, but I do realize that there are some providers that aren't as organized as others, so booking far in advance does have its risks. I don't think that I have ever tried to set up a date with only 24 hr or 48 hr notice.

Otherwise, it often is a same day impulse - which for ME more often than not means a better session.  Sometimes when planned, I might be tired, or stressed, or something else, but when doing on impulse I KNOW I am 100% ready and primed for fun.

,,,who is to say a lot of the same-day requests aren't to ladies that a guy has seen before?  This is VERY often the case for me.  Sometimes the amorous mood just takes over, so what's a guy to do? lol!

Hobbying included.

Hobbying included.

Even with one or two local regulars I will shoot them a " hi how are you" text about 48 hours before a visit.  We text back and forth a few times and then I'll tell her thst I'll be back in touch.  The day of its usually a call to say I'm on my way.

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Based on my situation, I usually have to plan my events, sometimes months in advance. However, not all my favs have that ability, trust, nor wish to do so. In those cases, the nod goes to the ladies who will long term plan with me. Most of the time, I can see something a week or two out there, and send out my invitations accordingly. Once again, I have one lady who cannot plan that far in advance. Very occasionally, a last minute chance becomes available, and I'll act more or less impulsively, giving a lady an hour to a few hours. It's extremely rare that a feeling comes over me, and I have to see someone right now. Although that has happened.  

Here's a case where planning turned to impulse. A couple of weeks ago I saw this perfect opportunity for a hobby double, two different ladies, Sunday, and yesterday. It had to be local, so I went through my list of local ladies, and decided on one for each day. The first lady replied almost immediately, and we were set for Sunday. The second lady, a friend, didn't reply. I waited a few days, and sent out a different invitation, figuring the second lady must be on vacation. No reply from the third lady. This time I sent out an invitation to a new lady, including my refs. No reply from the fourth lady. Now it's Saturday, and I still don't have a date for Monday. It's starting to become impulsive. I would have invited my first lady for the double, but she was unavailable. I sent out two more invitations after my Sunday session, without success. I'm a hobbyist who loves not only gfe, but fbsm as well. I was really hoping for a gfe double, but without a response into Sunday evening, I finally scheduled a fbsm for yesterday. All of a sudden, after the fbsm, I come home to several responses with a variety of reasons they didn't check their messages, and could we meet soon. All except for the new lady. She still hasn't responded. However, I did find out that she checked my references. Why would a lady check my refs without responding? At least to say hello, and I'm clear for next time? That one is puzzling.  

Whether it's on impulse, or planned, one can never be certain if the pieces of the puzzle are going to fit in this hobby. I was hoping for two home runs, but got a home run, and a single. At least I didn't strike out.

I know what works for me. I was just talking to a provider friend that has an in-call. She says it's easier for her to sit at the in-call location and hope for impulse requests because most of her clients were impulse callers (ie less than 2 hour from call to session). This is not what way I generally work, I am usually 24 hour or more for local ladies and longer for visiting providers I had wanted to see.

I was just curious which was more popular

My first preference is to book a provider way in advance.  Sometimes a few weeks out for the right person.  For example I have a weekend planned with a provider that is more than a month away.  

With hourly sessions, I like to book 24 to 48 hours in advance. Although I have a session scheduled tomorrow that I booked last thursday.

That all being said, I also will book 3 or 4 sessions a month "same day".  I have a few regulars that work a schedule. I can text them at 8am and be in their incall by 10am.

Or let's see, here is another one "paralysis by analysis"

You plan ahead all you want, during the two weeks you spend planning, I will have enjoyed the company of a dozen different ladies.

I do have a double scheduled for tonight, so I'm not exactly feeling sorry for myself.

You play it your way, and I play it my way.  End of the day, everyone's happy...providers included.

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