I've had providers talk dirty to me but I seldomly return the favor because I'm afraid to cross a certain line so I'm wondering what kind of dirty talk is appropriate or is everything open?

If you call a girl a "slut" in the heat of passion, is this viewed as wrong??

First off,I'm sure providers will all say they been called worse than slut...lol

What you say and when you say it...

Its like anything else that you may say or anyone else says to you that is completely "out of wack" or not in sync with your conversation,naturalflow, and body language.

It reminds VonRyan of a time many years ago in the Village at anoutdoor cafe. It was a great night with a SO...the conversation and body language was heading in the right direction...the food was great...the wine even better...

A couple was seated next to us..very unimpressionable...until the lady asked the waiter for " M and M's " instead of drinks...
The waiter politely told her that its not on the menu when she proceeded to engage in an argument that got everyone's attention.
They were asked to leave and it was strange cause the argument seemed to stop pretty quickly. It wasn't until after they left that my SOrealized her pocketbook was missing.

It was a nightmare as car keys,ID, and money were all lost but a lesson was learned the hard way.

Sure, my example was a bit extreme...cause talking dirty
sometimes needs no introduction and other times it does.


first...you both feel the body heat and chemistrybuilding up inside....maybe its her first caress of your balls or that first flick of her tongue on your cock...seize the moment and tell her how you luv it...she'll see where your cuming from(in more ways than one...lol) and give it right back to you ....lusty, sinful,slutful, nasty talk....

than ask for the M and M's,,,

Cheers!

In the context of the fantasy that is being provided for you, calling a girl a "slut" in the heat of passion is not wrong or inappropriate.

On the other hand, you never know how someone is going to react. One thing I did recently was to discuss dirty talk in my pre-date correspondence with a provider I was seeing for the first time. That allowed both of us to say what we wanted to say, without worrying how the other might react.

Infact, I encourage it, when I am with a client! I get totally into the act, and I will ask him how he likes it, while riding on top! I love being naughty, kinky, and the dirty talks helps me along the way. I wish that more men would return the favor.

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This reminds me of the movie "Don't Be a Menace to South Central While Drinking Your Juice in the Hood" when Marlon Wayans was having sex with the local "skeez" and she was getting into it and told him to "talk dirty to me."  He then says, "I'm cumming!" and cums.

She then tells him she's pregnant with his baby and demands child support and cars, etc.  All of this happened within a 2 minute time period, if that long.  

What I do if I'm in the mood to really talk dirty is to make the lady I'm with aware that she should disregard what comes out of my mouth later in the session.  I consider this to be "fair warning" and then I let the "crap" spew as I feel the need depending on what we're doing at any given time.  I've said some fairly "interesting" things during the heat of passion which I would be embarrased to say out in public.  

Peace...

like to be treated like ladies.  I find most like champagne, like to go out to dinner.  I rather treat her like a Lady.

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Its not wrong if they like it.  Read the reviews or ask them.  I like girls who talk dirty and who like to hear me talk dirty.  I usually ask them what they like to be called: dirty fucking cumslut, filthy little cunt, etc.

Here's to all you wonderfully naughty ladies out there!!!

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It does depend on the experience... and I would say as first... I would feel uncomfortable having a  nice cultured evening out and have the guy calling me a slut the whole time... but then again I love being called a little Bitch... while someone properly pulls my hair, spanks me lightly, gets a little deeper and rougher than normal... hmmm toy time... is it getting hot in here?

I don't think words like slut are going to ruffle any feathers in a client/provider setting. As long as your not totally degregating the lady, she can surely chalk it up to "it's just business".

In personal relationships i'd think twice about going down the slut path unless you are 100% sure she'll dig it. Sometimes girls will call them selves words like this in the heat of passion "do me like the slut I am", "im such a dirty girl'etc.. so if they offer it up you know your in the clear.

If you have any doubts, don't do it. Your life could be hell for a long time if it back fires