TER General Board
by why some pick me. I have heard some very interesting reasons, and have enjoyed hearing all of them. I love my job! 
Thank you, wonderful men.
are manginas, then I love them too.
Men are visual creatures by nature, and one would assume that most of the decision making process was based on general physical attributes. However, also a bit of a thrill to be with a client who likes your general personality, appreciates your unique look, and finds your company thrilling in the moment; the pleasure then flows both ways much more naturally, and it becomes a more fulfilling experience in many dimesions.
. And yes, it's highly enticing when you know a man feels that instant need once he lays eyes on you...call me old fashioned, but it's easier to really enjoy being a woman with a man who is overwhelmed by his natural urges, and can express them appropriately. -
updating my answer with a more well-thought out post.
The reason a gent picks me is less important than the fact that he did pick me. I am grateful to have been chosen, and I have been blessed with kind and sweet gentlemen.
But obviously I am going to have a better rapport with someone who chooses me because he enjoys my online personality than with someone whose sole reason for picking me is because I have large breasts and do some alphabet soup combo he's into that week. But seriously, I haven't had anyone pick me because of physical attributes or alphabet soup alone, that I know of. Those things may have helped to cinch the deal, but they've chosen me for other reasons. And the reasons range from being recommended by a friend, to a post [or posts] I made, to how I present myself on my website.
I am always surprised and pleased when someone has read about or communicated with me and knows some of my passions before we even meet. I recently had a new friend bring me two very obscure books I had on my wishlist, and that fueled a fabulous conversation to start out that led to an incredibly passionate time together. I also recently saw for the first time a wonderful friend with whom I had been communicating for months, who arranged his trip south in my direction especially to spend time with me. The communication we shared before meeting made our engagement sizzle from the start- both mentally and physically.
My physical attributes and "codified" sexual prowess don't necessarily set me apart from the crowd, but my personality and my interests in combination with those things certainly do for the man who is interested in that. Which is exactly the sort of man I am most interested in meeting.
eom. And yes, it's highly enticing when you know a man feels that instant need once he lays eyes on you...call me old fashioned, but it's easier to really enjoy being a woman with a man who is overwhelmed by his natural urges, and can express them appropriately.
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