Finally, for those of us who feel incapable every time we see a 9" penis going adventures in porn movies, this is much needed news!

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To quote the great Lee Corso - "Not so fast my friend!"  I watch porn for the sexy women, gigantic tits, and shapely asses, not the big cocks.    

You said: "dick size doesn't matter MUCH to me" and then later state "size is PRETTY irrelevant." (Emphasis mine, in both all caps words.)

It's quite telling to me that you didn't say it wasn't relevant AT ALL.

Meaning? Of course you think there is something as "too" small, as all women do, and that is why "men attach so much value to something they have no control over."

In other words, it is important to men bc we know it is important to women. ;

Oooh i see now.I see how white men are turning us black females out hahaha...the girth!!...Please dont judge..but reading this article not only did it tickle me..but explains what ive been trying to tell my clientele!!...Most think im trying to be flattering..but for somone with a tight opening..i find the girth of most (caucasian..no offense)men to be so satisfying.Not to say their small (not sure who the hell said white men have small penis bc that fact needs to seriously be updated)...but let me tell you its NOT about the length..its all in the girth!! ..and most have that which makes sex sooooo pleasurable...I find huge dicks to be intimidating bc i know what usually follows is pain...but anyways interesting article

I would have to agree with you.Size tends to be more of a concern for men than women.Most men think bc their dicks are not a certain size that their performance suffers...based off my experience, its not about what you have,more than how you USE what you have to (work what ya mamma gave ya ,so to speak).Ive often had a more pleasurable experience with an avv guy than a huge guy..seems to me,guys with big dicks automatically think bc their dick is large that it makea for great sex and they thrust..whereas smaller guys put a little more into the act and work it alot better just bc they feel like they have mpre to prove for there lack of length..i dunno thats just my personal experience .

Male penis size doesn't vary much, though of course there are extremes.

Here is a girth chart by ethnicity.

As a straight male viewer of porn, I confess that if the man in the porn video has a smaller dick, the scene isn't as erotic.  Similarly a monster dick is off-putting, it is kind of mutant.  

The thing in porn is that we are escaping into that world and as men with egos we want the women to swoon at our manliness.   So we want our stand-in guy to be handsome and hung.  

I sure wouldn't want to watch me acting in a porn movie.  (Though I'll act in one, if anyone wants.  I just won't watch it.

Wherw did you find this chart?...im really finding this to be extremely hard to believe..esp the last part of the graph...no way in hell that can be accurate..im sorry

Girth is circumference, measured around the penis at the widest, not the length from base to tip.  The units are centimeters.  For the white  guys, that is about 4.8".  If you have a tape measure wrap it around something you have at home of similar size to a penis.  You'll find those numbers work out about right

I haven't been fucked by a guy with a real big cock so J cant speak frlm experience. And for the reco, let's make this clear, it's not going to happen.

But if a guy has a real big dick that is "compatible" with your pussy, I'm betting if HE knows what he's doing with it, you're not kicking HIM out if bed .. that might be the difference between a guy who's a big prick and a thoughtful lover with a big dick.  

We'll at least that's what a friend of mine tells me. Lol

You just might not be very lucky "that way" ... huggg

I love to be educated and informed.Thank you for clarifying for me

see above ... I think I'd wanna be compatible with you.

Extremely few, if any. And men know this, and I think you know this too as you used quantifiers in your first post, then left them out in your reply back to my OP when I called you out on it.  

Any guy who has girls as friends would tell you dick size matters to some degree. Give them a few drinks and out comes the truth about this topic. LOL

Now, women can certainly differ on what size is the right size for THEM, but I really don't believe that women could care less about it and it's ALL the guy stressing for no reason.  

And I am not saying every women wants a big cock, but she certainly doesn't want a small one either. Let's be honest about that

Your talking about when the guy's dick, I mean penis, is flaccid, right?  I don't know what's considered big, buy my current ATF left her Size 7 pumps at my place last week ... I guess I'm  a size 7, I tried one on, but it's a  little tight?

Here is something surprising (maybe.)  When men are asked to judge women's beauty, the women tend to fall on the familiar bell curve, with half the women above average and half below average.

Now how do you suppose women judge men's looks -- much harsher it turns out.  Women rate men 20% attractive and 80% unattractive!

But in a twist, those same men judging women would send most of their online date requests to the top 20% of women, whereas women, who judged looks more harshly, would spread their online dating requests more evenly and not only to the to 20% of handsome guys.

So when women say looks (or size)don't matter, it is both true and false.  It remains desirable, but it isn't the top priority.

I'm hung like a horse, an Eohippus. (A joke for my paleontologist friends.)

disregard the "length" bit

Can you imagine what it would be like if guys could get a "dick job" at the Dr's office? The 10 inch, coke-can girth would be rue de rigueur.LOL

It does seem too small.

Size is not the issue...it really is what a guy does with himself and how he moves with me.  Many men who have large penises really do not develop other love making skills...and it is a huge responsibility (parden the pun) to have one porn large in terms of knowing when to pull back and not go full throttle which can be painful.  For others, I find that the bigger it is, the less hardness it maintains...more normal to smaller sizes tend to be rock hard (if tht is not a general issue of course.)  Oral on a bigger one is not at all eay either- they can forget about the deep throt fantasy too.

So men, please do not worry about the things you literally have no control of and just have fun with what you have!

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A penis in and of itself does not give an Orgasm.  A Ladies challenge with any penis is the same as the thread on Cunnilingus.  She will have to learn how to connect her brain and clitoris and Relax.  Relax and Let Go enough to Receive pleasure.  She must let go of the thoughts that do not serve her like body image, bills, time pressure, family.  The education is getting out there to evolve the female population.  What good is a 9" penis when it may only last 5 minutes and she needs at least 20 minutes to get fully get warmed up? Knowing this, she will also learn that she must orgasm First.

You are making my point for me and not even realizing it!

"Pretty inconsequential" means it is NOT totally "inconsequential."

That's my point. Women like yourself can try and say penis size doesn't matter at all on a fk board bc you don't want to feel shallow or maybe some other odd reason and if it does apply to you, then good for you!

I can tell you it does matter to many, many other women and that seems to bother you but why, I have no idea.

It is what it is. Let's not hide the fact. Get over it!

One more thing. Look up the word "obsession" when you get a chance. I don't think you will find having a few back and forths on a inet chat board will qualify. LOL

Overreact much? LOL

your size does not matter, it is how we are built inside that does

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it's in CENTIMETERS .... !  lol .. RELAX