Called a newly(3) reviewed provider. She came to my house. A little wine, a call from her boyfriend about meeting her at home, and move to the bedroom.
Some bbj, 5-10 minutes. Put on the cover, but the old boy really isn't ready yet. I take off the cover and try to manually help my situation, and she gets Pissed. She tells me she don't live giving head after a rubber has been on, and that I have insulted her. Gets dressed, I ask for a partial refund, obviously she says no, and she leaves.
Q1: Provider and hobbyists takes on the situation
Q2: how do you grade performance. What little performance there was would be considered a 7, but that's for the full session. She didn't just lay there for her 15 minutes of action either, so the 3 and 4 ratings are out. Does the 15 minutes of sex(?) disqualify a 1 rating?
Too me, that rates as a rip off.
I'm not sure what to do about the review - but a suggestion for the next time, offer to wash up and continue. I don't particularly like the taste of spermicides in most condoms, but a quick sensual washup with a warm rag takes care of that problem! (And sometimes helps stimulate blood flow as well!)
~Varenka
She got pissed???
: P
I love to watch how a man strokes himself...
It just makes me want to rub myself...
Sounded like an excuse to hit the road to see boyfriend. You didn't hear his end of the conversation which probably was "how soon can you get here?"
Exact situation happened to me. Except the young woman got a wet washcloth to help remove any "condom taste" from privates and we continued as if nothing happened.
She wanted a quick pop and she was gone. You stopped the flow of the action, meaning it was going to take longer than she wanted. Insulted because you didn't stay up, or because she had to start over again? Perhaps she should endure the insult of a ripoff review. At the very least a 2 or 3 seems appropriate. Instead of "I should have stayed home", it should be "She should have stayed home". A no show is better than this.
This is little better than "cash and dash." I wouldn't give her a "1," since she started the session, but a "2" with full details would be in order.
--b.
Agree with bifur. A 2 at best with a full description of her walking out. TER is here to help us all avoid this sh*t.
Plain and simple. She was looking for a reason to pull out on you. I have no problem with the preferences of providers when it comes to rain coats. Some don't mind cleaning up afterwards including disposal and a warm wash cloth. Others really would rather not handle it but don't say anything. There action, or lack of it, pretty much will let you know. Once I had the same problem and after the raincoat came off she expressed a concern for "poor taste." I hopped in the shower and cleaned thoroughly and came back with no latex aftertaste. The word is provider... not partial provider.
At every chance you get. The rank amatuers are ruining the hobby.
When you write the review just tell exactly what happened the way it happened. Do not resort to any name calling or extra nasty remarks. The weight of what you are saying will carry the review and it will be all the more damning because it will have the ring of truth to it.
....unless there is more info that we don't know about? But if you have given us all the relevant details and she was a good provider she could have just politely said she doesn't like it and you could have just gone and had a quick wash. No need to get angry and walk out?!?!
...but no reason that you should let her get away with it-- alert the rest of the TER community to her unsatisfactory ways! thats what its here for so people can see what they get before they get it... its not your fault she walked out, and so if you posted a review that may hurt her career online that is her own problem and the end result of screwing you over (by not screwing you!)...
Rules are rules; boyfriends, if had, cannot get in the way of business-- they should know your profession and know that just as in any other career, when its time to work its time to work. Unless that was her pimp then she probably should have hopped to it (joking)... if it was an emergency then she should have explained it to you, and given you a partial refund and saved her the trouble of a possible career damaging review! But alas she didnt care so why should you-- reward her greed with the right thing....
And we all know my standpoint on business, if we recall my response to the guy who caught the agency girl stealing-- this is a business... it should be treated like a business... services were not delive...but no reason that you should let her get away with it-- alert the rest of the TER community to her unsatisfactory ways! thats what its here for so people can see what they get before they get it... its not your fault she walked out, and so if you posted a review that may hurt her career online that is her own problem and the end result of screwing you over (by not screwing you!)...
Rules are rules; boyfriends, if had, cannot get in the way of business-- they should know your profession and know that just as in any other career, when its time to work its time to work. Unless that was her pimp then she probably should have hopped to it (joking)... if it was an emergency then she should have explained it to you, and given you a partial refund and saved her the trouble of a possible career damaging review! But alas she didnt care so why should you-- reward her greed with the right thing....
And we all know my standpoint on business, if we recall my response to the guy who caught the agency girl stealing-- this is a business... it should be treated like a business... services were not delivered as promised and so partial payment is all that should be required.... and by the way, yes, I do see this as the same exact situation as the girl who stole... but those that dont-- I dont wanna argue with you, lets just agree to disagree...
I say post an honest review with the same details as above, and let everyone see what she has done so they may be forewarned as to the possibility that she may do this again.... and hope that she doesn't and has learned her lesson...
Dani-Bananired as promised and so partial payment is all that should be required.... and by the way, yes, I do see this as the same exact situation as the girl who stole... but those that dont-- I dont wanna ague with you, lets just agree to disagree...
I say post an honest review with the same details as above, and let everyone see what she has done so they may be forewarned as to the possibility that she may do this again.... and hope that she doesn't and has learned her lesson...
Dani-Banani
Oh dear.. I'm sorry.. but do you mind cleaning up a little in the restroom and then we can continue ? That taste is just horrible, yucky,, or my favorite.. Icky bicky to me !!..
Or if she couldnt go any further... By all means and refund whatever is asked for..
I dont get it. Bring your own sweet-tasting condoms. And, if your own sweet tasting juice gets in the mix, what's not to like?