What is the best and most discrete way of sending either a cancellation fee or expense reimbursement to a provider?

You buy the card anonymously, and send her the code number on the card, and that's all there is to it.

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It is really the cost of the hotel. I had scheduled an in-call in Las Vegas and the provider, who normally does only outcalls, rented a non refundable room to accommodate me. I wanted the cancellation fee info if in another instance, I with less than 24 hours notice.

account , then she can use them for advertisements. If she would want that that is. I know i run featured ads and top ten placements there for 100 a month quite often. Then the cool animaTED GIF IS 25 BUCKS WHICH I ALSO UPGRADE TOO. then VERIFIED PHOTO BADGE IS 50.

           Then if you wanna keep that updated with each new photo upload its additional 20 each time.  

 
I dont think green dot is a good company, You know they banned me?

 
I got a letter in mail stating i was doing too many ilegal related things with the card online and thaT  they were now sending me a refund of the remaining balance on my green dot.  

          In order to initially activate the green dot you must first register online, enter your social ect.

 
the temporary card that comes in intial purchase is limited with what can be used for. You must await the real card which will be then sent in the mail.

 

 

I would say stick to gift cards, one time use ones that do not get traced. they have american express gift cards, visa gift cards.

 
you can potentially get banned from green dot if using it for all your ads and to launch web sites ect as i was.

 
I actually had my customer yesterday pay me with a pre paid gift card. iIwanted to go pay my cable bill.  He thought the green dot was better since its reloadable.

After months of setting up, cancelling, and rescheduling, he finally admitted he was too nervous and cancelled about an hour before our date.  He offered to pay a cancellation fee (I didn't have one but appreciated the gesture) so I asked him to email me an eGift card from Whole Foods.  Super easy.

Could dream of being nervous around YOU?

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not that I blame him of course. lol

GiftRocket is great. it's super discreet, and the lady can use it however she wishes.  Just another option.

If you read USG's review of her, it looks like he did a lot more sucking than just "sucking up."

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I'm glad you liked the eGift card too.

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A few months ago I had one cancel on me, last min.... then she has the nerve to keep calling insisting I pay a cancelation fee.

She has been around for awhile and knows exactly what the fee is for, not for her canceling on me. Should I be upset that she thinks I am stupid or should I be more upset that she is trying to rip me of?

It was a well known high reviewed hooker too. I might go bust her out on the local board.  

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presumably it involves swiping a credit card at the store.  Has anyone tried it?

Could this be done with a gift card thus assuring anonymity?

and charge her a cancellation fee.

You'll be even!

(She's a bit unclear on the concept, as they say.)

I have used moneypaks in the past and it has been really convenient. Unfortunately it seems like they made the change to do away with the anonymity part.

Besides using the moneypaks to send money to others, I also have a greendot account, so I actually received an email from them when the moneypaks were discontinued.

That was as good a 3 night stand as I've ever had in my life. I'll suck up to lovely Lila as often as possible.

FWIW According to BBB Gift Rocket is not approved. Google "review of Gift Rocket" and you will see it has problems.

That would not be nice and I reelly like her. I am sad becase I do want her to call me like she has been. She just does not understood that I want to meet and hang out, not just gave her the money for nothing.

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I don't think I saw this mentioned above, if this is a repeat....sorry!

PayPal cash.  You go to any store that sells those blue and white PayPal cash cards.   Load up with the amount.  You log into your PayPal account and enter the code on the PayPal cash card.  That transfers the funds to your PayPal account.  The other party gives you their email address, and PayPal account info.  You transfer electronically.

Violá!

Now go stand in the corner with quadsy.

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Discreet and Discrete
Commonly Confused Words
 

A spelling mnemonic for discreet and discrete, created by Bill Brohaugh (Everything You Know About English Is Wrong, 2008).  
The adjective discreet means prudently self-restrained or tactful. (The adjective discreet is related to the nouns discretion and discreetness.)

The adjective discrete means distinct or separate. (The adjective discrete is related to the noun discreteness.

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I didn't realize that you were the Grammar Police. Of course your correction was 100% accurate, but totally useless.

Two consecutive replies that say almost exactly the same thing.  Now that is the definition of useless.