If you do please share what arouses & stimulates you. I love to talk dirty!
"eat my pussy" or "I want to suck your dick" are very arousing, but other dirty words like "deposit" or "real-life ID" are a complete turn-off for me and most of the guys I know.
on her tits or ass.
I hate dirty talk.
I love sexy talk.
They are not the same in my world.
Sex is clean. It can be wet and messy, sure. But with all that, sex is attractive and pleasant. Naturally.
Dirty -- filthy -- is pretty much the opposite. Filth is aversive and disgusting. Naturally.
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So talk about sex brings to mind pleasure. Talk about dirt/filth brings to mind disgust.
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Please, do not mix them up when I'm around -- especially when I'm seeking pleasure with you.
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There's another shade in this range: "naughty". That probably depends on how you were brought up, but for me naughtiness is not something to be sought, it is just some minor social unpleasantness applied to sexy behavior. I would like to avoid being made to think about naughtiness; it is not a way to turn me on.
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Some examples to make this more concrete:
Some sexy words: fuck, cock, pussy, suck, cunt, tit, nipple, kiss, lick, stroke, wet, squeeze, slippery, slut, ...
Some dirty words: shit, piss, stink, pee, filthy, nasty, dirty, slimy, ...
Some horrible juxtapositions: "fuck the shit out of", "nasty slut", ...
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Just my own reactions and opinions ... carry on ... .
Looking at your past reviews darling I honestly do not think 🤔 you would be a good match for me, so don’t worry about being around me. lol Smile for me I am funny! To be honest my post was not in regards to the bedroom, but as you boys love to point out this is a fuck board. I have been doing virtual fun options with sexting, and yes talking dirty is BIG fun to me.
I read his post twice and I couldn't find a single reference to him wanting to see you, even for free, or was this just a clumsy attempt to get your advertisement at the end to pass moderation? You set up this thread question purely to get an opportunity to advertise your "virtual fun options."
Wow Valida! You made my cock shrink. Debbie downer. Lol.
from what I've read of Val's reviews, anyway. (I'll grant you the handle is a mite misleading.)
When I see "Valida" I always start off thinking it's a lady.
I am bringing her to orgasmic ecstasy. That can take many forms from verbalizing various ways, dirty or otherwise to just pure primal screams and grunts. Each gal seeks her own way.
Deep down I know that it's an act, but what the hell, isn't that why people go to the theater?
What's wrong with being an audience of one with audience participation?
And if it’s in the flow and not loud and abrasive. Rehearse talk is a turn off.
I’m more into a soft moan in my ear, that usually does it for me
so long as it flows naturally and is not forced, it is good.
A simple "please fuck me - now" can be a real turn-on and a good start to more dirty talk.
I used to be very shy about dirty talk - not so much anymore.
Yes, this.
"Please fuck me now" is not dirty talk, it's sex talk of the kind that I love.
I’ve seen providers who have a lively persona in bed— it’s not bad by any means! But I tend to repeat with providers who make me feel more like myself. I can walk out of a session with a provider who talks dirty feeling great in the moment, but for me it’s not as memorable. I think as I get older I may change, but for now I prefer a more realistic-feeling connection. Often times it’s a more gentle connection.
the filthier the better. any girl who acts like a cum slut and talks like one gets my money.
Not too many women I've met do much in the way of dirty talking, but if it comes out as being natural and not like acting then it can be a turn on.
In the last 30 years I have never done dirty talk at all.
When I've arrived for an appointment and given the donation, I make sure the lady knows my name before we get to it. Granted I could give a fake name but I don't. Why is it the ladies are sometimes robots that only stare at the ceiling and count the tiles while you're doing your best to ejaculate, and they call you honey, babe, and other pet names but not my actual name? I ask them to use my name but they rarely do. Is it too personal for them to call me by my name in the heat of passion... well at least my passion? Do they want to forget this ever happened as soon as possible? Are there so many guys that they see in a row that memory fails them? Just saying...
I had the most fun talking dirty as a phone sex girl. First year, I was on the phone 24/7. Got bored so I told erotic stories.
They loved it. Whispering, soft sexy words still gets me aroused with you. There is one word that turns me on. You have to ask me what it is. Men tell me what they need and I deliver. Everyone is different. I like variety and never get bored.
Miss Zoe Zane aka Fetish Diva Diamond
It all sounds like a stupid cheap porn vid. It isn’t erotic.. its a absolute total turnoff.
Especially when it comes naturally from the girl and I don't have to ask her to do it.
One of the sexiest things in the world is to have a girl greet you with a kiss and then whisper in your ear, "I can't wait for you to fuck me . . ."
Or one of the best that I have heard -- "I can't wait to get you in my ass!!!!"
I was shtupping a fave of mine many years ago in doggie. We'd seen each other perhaps 20 times and it was always a blast. This time she turned her head and said simply, breathily "Fuck me". I blasted off like a Saturn V headed for the moon. I've had similar experiences with a couple of ladies who knew that a few well-timed words made all the difference.
Contrast that with a lady I saw who kept up a constant stream of uninspired porn movie exclamations, to the point where she literally lost her place in the script and said something that sounded like "Yeah--Fuck your my bad myself". She paused, found her place, and continued reading her script. Not sexy.