I would like to ask a question to all the providers here.  If you happen to meet a client who has all the attributes you have ever wanted in a man, would you marry him if he asks? ... Or is your policy is "never" marry a john?

If a client ever asks me to marry him, I'll be making a beeline to the nearest door. No me gusta.  

I would never marry a client. I wouldn't be able to tell any of my friends and family where and how I met him. Almost married a client last year...but he was only interested in my body and not the person that I am on the inside. He was very fixated on taking trips to Greece...despite me telling him that it wasn't my thing. He was an asshat with a capital A. He brought in another woman into our relationship...and expected me to have sex with her. I had told this man repeatedly that I am not interested in bumping donuts with a female...ever. He also wanted me to stay pregnant for 3 years! WTF? It was hard enough getting pregnant with my now 13 year old son! He's been hitting me up on Facebook ever since we broke up, trying to get me to sleep with him. I told him to get lost! The next guy I marry will not be involved in the hobby...

I don't give sex a way for free now after getting paid.  

But this client is not any client, but a client with everything you're looking for plus plenty of wealth. Would you then reconsider?

Who is "we" ?

How about if he was rich?

How about if he promises not to cheat?  And a lie detector proves he is telling the truth that he won't cheat?  Plus how about if he was a rich doctor or lawyer?
 

I wouldn't want to date and be a provider at the same time though. So, he'd need to be a sugar daddy up till the wedding. lol

Money isn't everything. If I'm not love with a man, money won't matter. You can't buy true love. A guy tried to do that 5 months after I started providing and got real stalkerish after realizing I wasn't going to quit providing and marry him. I was young and newly single and didn't want to be tied down to any man. I have a boyfriend now, so no amount of money a client offers is going to make me leave my man.

-- Modified on 6/29/2014 2:21:58 AM

which means they're even less admissible in a marriage.

The client is single of course...and not fictional.
 

But the question is, would you marry him?

What if the guy were single?

I fell in love with you a long time ago. Now I have to figure out how to meet you.

-- Modified on 6/29/2014 5:29:21 AM

to some like the OP, why?

is so once upon a time.

You know, their first love. it turns them on when it cheats.  

That easy list is going to make 50% of the guys here try to marry you. You even give the option of threesomes.

will tell you they would not date or marry a client, but the reality is, if it's the right guy, that rule will go out the window.  I know a number of ladies who have married guys they met doing this, and many more who have and / or are dating guys they have met doing this.  

OMG really? I'm just laughing my ass off at this question!!! You come into hobbying to find TRUE LOVE & MARRIAGE? If u do then it's a DELUSIONAL VISION.  Can you really respect, trust or feel comfort w/someone you use to "Pay For Pleasure" or vise versa?  I can see friendship, yes because I have some with my ATFs. But marriage absolutely a NO!!! Just my opinion...... But what do I know I'm not even married nor do I want to anytime soon.... I love being single & fabulous!! 😛😛😛😛😛

Re: My answer, ILoveToFuck...

That was a long ass list; by the way, why can you not have children?

Posted By: RobbinYoung

Posted By: ILoveToFuck

The client is single of course...and not fictional.  
     

Posted By: RobbinYoung

Posted By: ILoveToFuck

I would like to ask a question to all the providers here.  If you happen to meet a client who has all the attributes you have ever wanted in a man, would you marry him if he asks? ... Or is your policy is "never" marry a john?

   
       
  Before I reply.  Is this fictional "client" of mine, married or single?

   
 Yes, I would marry a man (a client) that I'd met while escorting, IF...  
   
  1. We shared mutual chemistry and passion for life, love, and intimacy.  
  2. He never judges, chastises, or belittles me for having a career as an escort, and understands...once I'm in love and engaged to marry, my career as an escort and in the adult industry, ceases.  
  3. He'd never ask me to be intimate with other men, or engage in the 'lifestyle' (swinging).  
  4. When together, we can be intimate with 'select' and STD/STI free women...but, not with men.    
  5. He isn't in the adult industry.  
  6. His heart (inner beauty) is equal to or more attractive, than his physical appearance.  
  7. He isn't an alcoholic and doesn't use illegal drugs.  
  8. He doesn't smoke cigarettes.  
  9. No matter his faith or religious belief...he understood I am a devote Christian with a strong belief in God, and he doesn't attempt to stifle my faith.  
 10. He isn't mentally or physically abusive to me, or anyone.  
 11. He is a true gentlemen, who opens doors for me, etc...and treats me with respect.  
 12. I'm unable to bear children, so if he wants a child...we could adopt, or utilize a surrogate mother.  
 13. If he's a vegetarian, fine...but I'm a carnivore, and would be permitted to eat what I choose.  
 14. He does not attempt to micro-manage or control me.    
 15. He loves me, Robbin Young (my legal name) for my inner beauty, and not for my superficial looks.  
   
 ILoveToFuck: FYI; I Love To Fuck, too...and, I Adore Making Love!

Are their rules, not something engraved on their foreheads by a higher power.  The lady made those rules, she can break whichever ones she wants whenever she wants.

Absolutely.  I break my own rules regularly.  Rules are generally more like guidelines anyway...

You sound like the ideal woman I want to marry.

-- Modified on 6/30/2014 7:31:52 AM

I kiss you on the boards!! Where have you've been!!  Hope all is wonderful!!! Xoxo

To hear that you've had to endure that, OMG..... glad things are back to normal... I missed you..... Just keep your spirits high & your a beautiful woman who can do anything you want to achieve!!!!   Good luck!!! I want to come to vegas, a friend offered me 2nights free Hotel stay (civie friend not hobby) I need a vacation before my academics resumes in sept!!!  Lol  

I am not marrying a liar and a cheat out of the gate nor would I marry fat and unattractive. Would you marry that combination in a woman?

He can rent me by the hour. That way I don't have to sleep with him, deal with him 24/7/365. Or at the very most a sugar daddy situation where I get my space and not have to live with him. I like my alone time and do not want some dude poking and prodding me when I trying to sleep or bothering me when I want to be left alone.

Re: My answer, ILoveToFuck...

hey Robbin,

Posted By: RobbinYoung

Posted By: ILoveToFuck

The client is single of course...and not fictional.  
     

Posted By: RobbinYoung

Posted By: ILoveToFuck

I would like to ask a question to all the providers here.  If you happen to meet a client who has all the attributes you have ever wanted in a man, would you marry him if he asks? ... Or is your policy is "never" marry a john?

   
       
  Before I reply.  Is this fictional "client" of mine, married or single?

   
 Yes, I would marry a man (a client) that I'd met while escorting, IF...  
   
  1. We shared mutual chemistry and passion for life, love, and intimacy.  
  2. He never judges, chastises, or belittles me for having a career as an escort, and understands...once I'm in love and engaged to marry, my career as an escort and in the adult industry, ceases.  
  3. He'd never ask me to be intimate with other men, or engage in the 'lifestyle' (swinging).  
  4. When together, we can be intimate with 'select' and STD/STI free women...but, not with men.    
  5. He isn't in the adult industry.  
  6. His heart (inner beauty) is equal to or more attractive, than his physical appearance.  
  7. He isn't an alcoholic and doesn't use illegal drugs.  
  8. He doesn't smoke cigarettes.  
  9. No matter his faith or religious belief...he understood I am a devote Christian with a strong belief in God, and he doesn't attempt to stifle my faith.  
 10. He isn't mentally or physically abusive to me, or anyone.  
 11. He is a true gentlemen, who opens doors for me, etc...and treats me with respect.  
 12. I'm unable to bear children, so if he wants a child...we could adopt, or utilize a surrogate mother.  
 13. If he's a vegetarian, fine...but I'm a carnivore, and would be permitted to eat what I choose.  
 14. He does not attempt to micro-manage or control me.    
 15. He loves me, Robbin Young (my legal name) for my inner beauty, and not for my superficial looks.  
   
 ILoveToFuck: FYI; I Love To Fuck, too...and, I Adore Making Love!

Yup, I'm not giving up sleeping in the middle of the bed anytime soon.