Just contacted a very hot provider through P411 who is going to be visiting my area in a couple of weeks for 3 days.
She had several other cities scheduled on her itinerary, usually only staying one to three days at a time. Very typical for the travelling provider, in other words. She responded by telling me I should book as early as possible because she booked up fast and didn't have that many openings left. I actually went for a deal like this not long ago and it was a pretty good experience even though I caught her setting the clock ahead so she could get rid of me faster. But I think I will try to find happiness in my own backyard from now on. Am I the only one that finds this kind of travelling provider trying to fuck as many clients as possible on a whirlwind tour a bit unappealingI do not care how many clients she saw before I walked through her door, and I don't care how many are following me...all I care about is that when I'm with her it's about me and no one else...
The clock manipulation thing would concern me a great deal more..
She had several other cities scheduled on her itinerary, usually only staying one to three days at a time. Very typical for the travelling provider, in other words.
She responded by telling me I should book as early as possible because she booked up fast and didn't have that many openings left.
I actually went for a deal like this not long ago and it was a pretty good experience even though I caught her setting the clock ahead so she could get rid of me faster.
But I think I will try to find happiness in my own backyard from now on.
Am I the only one that finds this kind of travelling provider trying to fuck as many clients as possible on a whirlwind tour a bit unappealing?
A touring provider like her may or may not be able to still provide great service despite all the traveling and multiple bookings, but why take the chance? Especially with a woman who you most likely will never get the opportunity to repeat with who also most likely charges a higher rate than the hundreds of local ladies available to me.
I understand that a traveling escort has to make up for travel expenses, but that doesn't mean the next local girl you see won't be trying to make up for that unexpectedly slow week or dead transmission that set her back 3k. You don't really know who is lower volume.
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Yes, some ladies do take as many clients as possible when touring, but most ladies DO have limits. Whether it's 2 or 6, my point is that most touring ladies do NOT "fuck as many clients as possible" lol.
Ladies with limits will frequently book up. On my last tour, I told someone something like what you were told. Why? Because he wrote that he'd be in touch when I got to town.... so I thought he might want to know that I likely would NOT have any availability left by that time.Not because I'd lined up 8 or 10 per day, but because I already had a few multi-hour dates booked for my 2-day visit and only wanted to schedule one more.
That is my current comfort level, but I do not fault or look down on ladies who can and will see as many clients as they can coordinate. 
My experience is that traveling girls can be very "hit or miss". I can't knock traveling girls because one of the best fucks I ever had in my life was a traveling girl that visited my city one time and then completely disappeared from the hobby forever. However, traveling girls don't have as much incentive to give you a great session because they know you are not going to be a repeat customer. Local girls have the incentive to make you a repeated customer.
I've told guys that I likely won't be available if they wait until the last minute to book, and I've also told guys that I have no further availability until some future date (say July 21).
If I'm vague, like, 'Oh, sure, I'll be around! Just let me know when you want to see me!' Then I will get an email like, 30 minutes before he wants to meet, when I've already committed myself to other things. Or, maybe I'm not really busy that day... but, it's hardly likely that I'll feel like getting all dolled up and driving to NYC at the drop of a hat, for what is likely my cheapest date. If I tell someone I'm not available until, say, July 21... it does not mean that I am booked solid for two weeks straight. t means that I have as many dates as I feel like I can handle during that time period, and need the remaining days to take care of other business. Or maybe I'm going on vacation. Whatever.you have no idea if she's seeing anyone else. Touring girl or local, they all want to say book me now just to get a commitment on the calendar. As many of the ladies have said, she may only have one "opening" that day due to RL plans, etc... or maybe she she has guys lined up down the hallway and out the door.
Check her reviews and look for any indication as to whether she's a clock watcher or not.that's in the room with her during the block of time you booked, why do you care who else is seeing her when you're not. Seems a little childish to me.
It depends but don't base your feelings around just that one touring provider.
If a lady is touring at a 2 hour minimum or even 90 mins with a higher rate I don't think she's lining people up all day. Sometime the rate structure is to keep the lady low volume. I've seen ladies tour at 1400k minimum 3 hours going from city to city. I just consider her someone who likes to travel. I honestly wouldn't even think she's seeing as many people as she can so it depends truthfully on the lady but I could be wrong. Really a lady at any rate will have limits if you ask me so I think you're assuming but I understand how you could be looking at it. In the end I don't think you should concern yourself with it. Go with your gut on how you feel but if you want to stick with home based providers that's fine just keep in mind touring ladies do not equal high volume just because they tour. Even a home based provider can see a lot of guys so really don't over think it. Hobby and just have fun with it.-- Modified on 7/6/2016 10:27:46 PM
The last visiting provider I saw explained to me exactly what she was doing. She wanted to keep a low profile in the city where she lived because she was going to school and was making plans for a career outside of escorting. So she went on tours to nearby cities, obviously trying to make as much money as she could. I thought she was a very smart woman and I appreciated her honesty except for turning back the clock. And she was quite good in delivering on the advertised skills so I have no complaint there.
It just doesn't seen the same with local ladies. Maybe they do fuck a dozen guys a day, in and out the door, but I have never detected that to be true so they must hide it well. Actually, whenever I have met an escort in a hotel I've always had the impression that I was the only person she was seeing there.I'm traveling to Vegas for a week at the end of the month, and my openings will be few and far between because I'm also attending a conference/trade show. I'd like to make enough to cover my expenses, but I have so much on my plate that I'll only be able to take 2 or 3 appointments.
I'm known to be a bit of a slut. But a slut who will pay for what he wants. That's worth something, isn't it?
again if the vibe is right.
Yes, there have been times when I spent time with a traveling lady. Usually, she has gotten my attention on one of the TER discussion boards as well as exchanging some PM's.
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providers have civvie lives, too.
that's why I usually book sessions that are minimum two hours. Try it. It really does support the feeling that she is only there for you. I have found that providers respond better to longer appointments as well, and are motivated to see fewer customers when they are seeing those that book extended sessions. If I'm wrong on this, they are welcome to correct me. I won't argue the point. This is just my own feeling from my own experience.
Adrienne and GaG, as I do live in a hooker wasteland. It is true that hot commodity providers book up fast while touring, so she may be just shooting it to you straight. The idea IMO is to maximize profits, otherwise why tour? Could be family visiting, could be scheduling around trying to make it to a concert, could be trying to fit as many clients into her daily volume limit as possible. Manipulating the clock to short the client on time on the other hand is an act that I abhor. However, I will say that there is nothing wrong with a provider setting the timer to keep herself on track as she may get lost in all the lustful events, it's much better than the occasional glance at the clock every ten mins. Something that should always be done on the part of the client is to keep track of time himself. Also have to keep in mind, the hotter she is, the more guys are going to want to see her, as well as you aren't the only one she's planning to bang.
She had several other cities scheduled on her itinerary, usually only staying one to three days at a time. Very typical for the travelling provider, in other words.
She responded by telling me I should book as early as possible because she booked up fast and didn't have that many openings left.
I actually went for a deal like this not long ago and it was a pretty good experience even though I caught her setting the clock ahead so she could get rid of me faster.
But I think I will try to find happiness in my own backyard from now on.
Am I the only one that finds this kind of travelling provider trying to fuck as many clients as possible on a whirlwind tour a bit unappealing?
You should book as early as possible because she booked up fast and didn't have that many openings left.
OK…and…SO…? How do you get from THAT response, to the assumption that she is: “this kind of travelling provider trying to fuck as many clients as possible on a whirlwind tour”. Honestly dude. Those dots are not auto-magically connected. Yes, she’s traveling and, ideally, the business she attracts while traveling will be net profitable, after traveling expenses. It's a reasonable expectation. But you have no idea how many openings she has in any given time frame, or how many clients she needs to make the numbers work. Hell….one big whale a day might be all she’s looking for; could be more, or less… Yes, she might be trying to slam-in as many guys as possible, per day. OTOH, her (marketing) response could also be her way of communicating scarcity of her time---which, again, may, or may not, be anything close to what you’re imagining. You’re making a huge assumption based on facts not in evidence. Just saying'...I know "regular touring girl" sounds like any oxymoron, but as long as they come back for a few weeks every few months, the "reunion" sessions are awesome.
Does she plan and post an itinerary of staying a few days at a time in cities in close proximity so she can tend to her civvie life?
Read my post above. It may come as a shock to your that providers do make rounds like this. I'm not condemning it if that's what they want to do. I just don't like it.I do the same. I really do like to talk, drink some wine, fuck, and then maybe cuddle and drink some more wine and talk some more in the afterglow unless I can get it up again at my advance age.
If you on't like it why do you continue to look for and book touring girls when you could just book a local provider. there are PLENTY of girls on the boards and I'm sure some live in your city... why not book with them or like someone said earlier, book a longer session so you won't feel rushed.
Read my post above. It may come as a shock to your that providers do make rounds like this. I'm not condemning it if that's what they want to do. I just don't like it.
Why do I continue to look for and book touring girls?
Because I'm a whoremonger who thinks with his lower member and so many of them are so very hot and know it. What other reason would be there be? The point of my post was that I have now seen the light and will never, ever, ever do this again.
OK…and…SO…? How do you get from THAT response, to the assumption that she is: “this kind of travelling provider trying to fuck as many clients as possible on a whirlwind tour”.
Because one touring escort recommended you book early. If a local girl did the same, I highly doubt you'd swear off local talent so dramatically.
It sounds like you don't have much experience with traveling providers , or any providers, so I'll give you a clue. Traveling providers that provide a great service will fill up their appointments quickly because guys know they great and they are in big demand. That doesn't mean that she is jamming a lot of appointments into one day, and it doesn't mean she is rushing guys out the door. She might be scheduling two appointments a day, you don't know. I guarantee you there are plenty of providers that don't travel at all and advertise being "low volume" but they schedule 4 or 5 appointments a day. You will learn that as you get more hobby experience.
in town for a short time and you better get it while you can.
Shocking. Is it important to you that she nurture the illusion that she's less busy when traveling? 'Cause, ya know, she may well be better booked when she's home. ?OK…and…SO…? How do you get from THAT response, to the assumption that she is: “this kind of travelling provider trying to fuck as many clients as possible on a whirlwind tour”.
Because if she was doing something more than selling herself as a hot commodity in town for a short time and you better get it while you can, I certainly couldn't see it.
Touring providers who book up weeks in advance really aren't for those of us who can't guarantee our schedules until a few days out. That's just life.
If her reviews are consistently high on performance, most likely you will enjoy your time with her.
Personally, I've seen many touring ladies over the years, and typically have had great experiences. Many ladies visit NYC often, and I see several whenever they are here.really, i agree. you gotta know you're not the only guy a woman is seeing in this endeavor. and whether it's 1 or 2 or 5 guys in a day, if she's able to focus on you during your time and you have a good encounter, what does it matter?
even if she only sees you that day, you know she saw 3 guys the day before and will see 5 guys tomorrow. her sex life without you is not your business. as to the clock, i always set my own timer on my phone. i have (way in the past) called a lady out for trying to give me a false ending time. needless to say i didn't see her again.my bad didn't mean to post this
your original complaint is far too self-involved for us to care about (providers have sex with men other than me on the day they have sex with me!). the fact that you have decided to not engage with people that trigger your complaint is called self-growth, congratulations.
doctor it hurts when i do that. don't do that!cdl is spot on. all you need to concern yourself with is her attitude during her time with you.
granted, if you feel she seems unfocused on you, and you believe it's because she's got 'em lined up like planes at kennedy waiting to land during a snow storm, then do what y ou've already said, and stop seeing girls whom you think are using this approach. (spoiler: they're all using this approach, ie, seeing someone else other than you. sorry)or maybe she wants to do something with her few hours in the town like visit girlfriends (there's a propensity that escorts have to visit each other when in a different town and have fun, eat dinner, compare notes, etc, b/c they don't see each other in their own home town), or just sight see, or, heaven forbid, REST FOR A WHILE!!!
i think the op has something else going on and this is just a trigger for a long-standing gripe.say, "Only you, honey," to any question I ask. Lol