If she has been charming, witty, and attentive ...
If she has been classy yet flirtatious ... And most of all if she has been grateful for my time and attentiveness ... She's obviously earned her way in to my pants. What kind of asshole would I have to be to deny her that opportunity?When I pay for "time and companionship" I always have sex.
As a hobbyist, and I meet somebody at a bar or even ask them out on a date;
I would never!
Do you / Would you?
Your thoughts if any?
I always expected sex on the first date. Sometimes it didn't go that way, though.
Not the "I have sex with another man" kind of gay, but the "I am lame beyond words" kind of gay.
That's the gayest, lamest fucking thing I have ever heard here.
Of course I would and have on countless occasions had sex on the first date? just how fucking old are you anyhow?
and it was always her idea too
As a hobbyist, and I meet somebody at a bar or even ask them out on a date;
I would never!
Do you / Would you?
Your thoughts if any?
If I want a future with you I won't sleep with you on the first date no matter how great the date is. Most times I won't sleep with her on the second date either. That's if I am looking for someone to grow a relationship with. By the third date she is usually jumping me. I usually wait for her to make the first move as I don't want to rush anything and I want to surprise her when I fuck her brains out. I get laid enough where I'm not sweating if I have to put in some time before getting some action.
Women I am picking up at the club/social event with friends. I'm the only single guy left in my group all my friends look at me with hatred in there eyes as they see some of the amazing women I have met and brought home. I will sleep with these types of girls on a first date and fully expect to never hear from them again as they don't want a relationship just a quick fling. This takes time and patience. More nights than not I go home alone. "If your afraid of rejection don't try and score" (Love and Basketball quote)
When you pay for sex of course you are getting laid on the first date. These are the girls I relate to the most. If I had more money I would hobby much more than I do.
Zak
As a hobbyist, and I meet somebody at a bar or even ask them out on a date;
I would never!
Do you / Would you?
Your thoughts if any?
. Yes, I've taken home someone from the bars but also have not slept with guys I've gone out on "real" dates with... Just recently went out on a date with this guy I'm crushing on & we didn't have sex but made out all night... I hope to fuck his brains out soon!!!! 😍😍😍😍
unless you're too broke to hobby, and if you're that broke, ain't no civvie gonna be interested in you anyway!
but srsly, after 35 years of marriage falling apart, i am in no frakkin' rush to find a "real" relationship.
having way more fun screwing 20 year olds...and 30 year olds... and 40 year olds...
and strangely enough they all tell me how great i am in bed and how romantic i am and what a great guy i am! amazing!
these hobby girls all have great taste!!
Yes. Back when I dated I did. Why not? We are both adults and we are going to fuck eventually. It's just silly to wait three dates to "tap that ass". Now, I just do P4P. Less drama and I think the sex is better IMO.
As a hobbyist, and I meet somebody at a bar or even ask them out on a date;
I would never!
Do you / Would you?
Your thoughts if any?
What if she just wants a salad? Is that a Blowjob?
... I didn't even KISS on the first date. (I can see many people ROFLTAO right now) I told my date I didn't kiss on the first date because I hoped she'd see me again (for the girls I wanted to see again--some were one and done). Those second dates were almost always lots of fun. 
Now keep in mind this was a long time ago. I think Coolidge was president.
under the right circumstances.
That doesn't mean they always will, every time.
If she has been charming, witty, and attentive ...
If she has been classy yet flirtatious ...
And most of all if she has been grateful for my time and attentiveness ...
She's obviously earned her way in to my pants. What kind of asshole would I have to be to deny her that opportunity?
Because of course these guys are gonna have sex when and if they can. Your not talking to a bunch of conservative republicans here pal!
However, if you were, like Zak said, if you really like the person, you don't wanna lose respect for this girl by banging her the first night. Justsayin
If I don't get a full kiss at the end of a first date, she's history. If I don't get sex by the third date, I quit wasting my time and money.
I'm going to have to start calling you "Asscalade" like GaG does. You would never?! Turn in your man card.