to meet a lady, for the providers attire to be ?

Just a question.. because i've had complaints about heels, lingerie, garders  etc.  
& someone even requested sweats & a tank-top!!!

 
OR LADY'S, ANY ADVISE OR SUGGESTIONS ON HOW YOU CHOOSE YOUR OUTFIT??

Lacy

I hate the stripper attire. Anything other than the stripper attire, i am good  

 

But I also enjoy women dressed in "workout gear". Something about that look gets me turned on also.  

For real though, greet me in some nice thong panties and a matching bra, and I'll be pitching a tent on arrival

Sometimes I like lingerie and heels, but sometimes I want something more elegant or dramatic, like a gown or even jeans and boots. If I want something different, I will make the request when I set up the date, but even ghen it's a crap shoot because travel wardrobes are limited.

My ATF wears either jeans and a tank top. Or sweats and a tank top. Doesn't really matter to me. I love her dressed in her birthday suit.

Well for me it could be lingerie and open toe heels or a mini skirt or even a nice form fitting dress. Whatever my request and as beautiful as the lady would look in the particular outfit, I know that she will be even more gorgeous when the clothes come off.

No need to wear anything. Wear what makes you both feel sexy and something that is comfortable. Honesty come in formal attire or tank-top and sweats or however you wish, as long as I get to watch or better yet help you take it off it is all good.

If you wear something that makes you feel sexy, you'll project that immediately.

Confidence, is very very sexy.

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If a guy has a request that is not my style (meaning I will feel silly or extremely awkward) I will let him know beforehand so he can decided whether to see me or find someone who will dress that particular way. Not all hookers are comfortable wearing certain things.

Oh well even a broken clock is right twice a day.

Really not a big deal because whatever it is it wont be on long.

I've requested everything from fully dressed to the nines to completely naked (see thread below). Of course I love lingerie, but also plain old blue jeans. It gives a feeling of realness. I also love sweats. Last summer I set up two sessions with a friend, going and coming back from a trip three days later. On the way back she couldn't remember whether the session was supposed to start at ten or eleven. She assumed eleven, and I showed up at ten with her in her old baggy sweats. I totally loved it, and the session was hot. The one thing I don't really like is heels. I like the lingerie look, but I don't really like the stripper look. Not to mention a lady almost impaled me with her heels while riding me reverse cowgirl. She was using them like spurs. Instead of holding on to her gorgeous ass and hips during the ride, I had both hands on those heels, pulling them away from my sides.

He will take it as validation in his perverse little world.

provider to wear something that I have seen her in on her website.  One example comes to mind is a Dallas Cowboys cheerleader outfit (she has since retired).

That's the only thing that matters. If you feel sexy then how can it bea bad thing...

I am happy if a lady shows up in jeans or shorts and sneakers, sandals or flipflops, with a t shirt, tanktop or simple top. Other favorites are denim mini skirts, little black dresses, and sundresses (preferably with no underwear ) Not really into heels, stockings, and lingerie. I like easy off stuff, because my goal is to get her naked quickly. If it's incall, I am ok with her greeting me in a towel (as mentioned in the birthday suit thread below)

Having said that, I also never make wardrobe requests, on a first date, unless the girl asks me if I have a preference. I'm ok with whatever theyvare wearing because I believe they can wear whatever they are comfortable in or whatever makes them feel sexy. (as voiced by h+t and Rod elsewhere in this thread).

I have made wardrobe requests when repeating with providers, but very rarely for a first time visit. One of the more interesting meetings, was a lady I was seeing for the second time. The first time she had thigh high black stockings, heels and some lingerie. When I was scheduling the second session, I told her "Don't dress up for me. I'm simple and easy to please. Just wear casual clothes." When I showed up at her incall, she greeted me barefoot, in black yoga pants and topless. Her first words were, "Sorry I couldn't find a casual top!" LOL. I thought she looked awesome, and I said something like, "Well that's about as casual as you can get and I like it!"  

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I supposed if client would like to see me in any special drops a line about required dress code.
So easy.
K.G.

definitely not lingerie
normal casual attire-slacks or jeans and a top or a nice dress

the first time I saw the wonderful lady who has become my ATF and have been seeing for several years, she was dressed up in a very classy and elegant green dress. She pretty much had me at that point.

As others have already mentioned, dress in a manner than makes you feel good about yourself.  

If I have a request, I'll either ask or if I've seen you a few times I may buy something I think will look great on you.  

What really matters to me, is the vibe you give off when we meet.  Seeing a beautiful smile with a welcoming attitude sets the tone for the remainder

Is you set hard lines and communicate them at least under this non connected handle. If you are just as feisty in your provider demeanor, you seem fun. I like women who speak there mind. I prefer my paid dates to feel sexy yet comfortable. The way they dress is a huge part of that. I am glad you insist on dressing in what you feel comfortable in. A lady feeling silly isn't likely to be as fun as a lady that is comfortable in her close.

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It's typically sweat pants and 'T?'

I usually prefer dinner date, so the dress for me is very important, especially when I am out with a busty woman which is mostly the case. I prefer the sporty type of dress, for example jeans in a tight t-shirt makes me grazy. All the woman I met for dinner dressed in a good way, that means, sexy but not too much. Anyway with a busty gal there is some attention anyway and I don't care about it.  
And I tell the woman always that I don't like lingerie, I hate them. I do request sometime some outfit "for fun after the dinner" like bikini, miniskirt, dress with lots of cleavage.....
Was never disappointed.

Super porno clips on your site Katie

I like something like a diaphanous teddy or nightgown that let's me see her form when she is backlit. Very hot!!!

I am also a big fan of a beautiful woman with nothing on other than a man's dress shirt..... But that's just me......

Years ago I liked stockings and garters and shelf bras and panties. Now I prefer to be greeted by a provider in a sexy dress. Depending upon the dress, bra or panties underneath may be optional. Sometimes I like stockings, but they're not necessary.

I don't like to be greeted by someone naked, or close to it. I like to imagine what's underneath before I get to really see it.

She met me at the door in a nice dress that hugged her curves, dark stockings & heels...   she was absolutely breath taking...   I was probably mumbling as she closed the door & gave me a sweet kiss that took my breath away.  
We chatted briefly as we moved towards our selected fantasy room...   A chair positioned just so to recieve my clothes...   by then she had me half naked...  
I gently complained she had me at a disadvantage...  & she showed me the dress was a wrap around...  as she peeled off the silky fabric...  

Thanks Joi!

Yoga pants and lacy bra

And I am...what you see is what you get. And if I am not comfortable in dress, or anything, it will show and I will not waste anybodies time if I know out of the gate I can't or won't do something. I do play very fair.  I know myself very well and don't have a problem conveying that. Not much is wishy washy where I am concerned.

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Once a date has been finalized I always ask my date if they have any dress requests. As long as its possible I'm happy to meet them wearing whatever they have been craving to see me in. Most often I get asked to wear a Sari..after all I am a 100% Indian female. I have to remind them that it would be odd for me to greet them in a public place wearing a Sari but that I'm happy to put it on for them when we are in private. I also get requests to wear bangles and anklets which is quite fun for me. Only wish that a Sari did not take so darn long to wrap around me in the right way

Sitara Devi

...but lately have a thing for gals in a little black dress... How about it?

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ask each and every guy otherwise they're all going to find something negative to say

...and specifically request their abscence. But thats just me and I am aware that I am in the vast minority.

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...then I add the part about no heels

a great big happy smile....and that look in her eye....everything else is secondary.

Clothed with an outfit that accentuates her figure. YES!!

There's nothing wrong with that. Me personally, I like heels because they accentuate the ass. Have you ever watched a lady in heels walk while she has a thong on? I'm telling you, it's a pretty sight watching that ass.

But that's just me......

Keep looking sexy ladies, us guys really appreciate all that you do

I myself like the provider to be dressed in something sexy. I love lingerie but a sexy dress, bikini mini skirt set or something else hot. I want to be enticed. I am paying for the fantasy and the provider wearing street clothes is not a fantasy in my book. I see girls in street clothes all the time it does not get me excited.

I can only speak for myself about this subject. I usually dress in a nice dress (not to slutty and not to conservative) and nice pair of heels and, a nice bra with matching panties or thong. I try to blend in with my surroundings so I don't attract attention to myself.. If they have a request for something special I try to accomodate it and either wear it underneath my clothing if I can or, put it in my purse and change when the time is right.  

Thats how I do it anyway!

Holly

Classy, classy, and classy.

Anything that is in the least either frumpy or trashy will make me want to leave.

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Do they? i'd rather unwrap the prize.