Can a providers ads or reviews be too bi for hobbyists?
I've noticed one recently that almost exclusively now advertises with another woman
Yea or nay?

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I don't mind women who play for both teams, but I do tend not to seek out women who make it plain that they prefer women over men. I don't find that a turn on what so ever, nor do I find threesomes with lesbian couples particularly enjoyable when it's plain I am simply a guest to their party and a barely welcome guest at that.

Some guys really get off on watching two girls get it on. I only find it exciting when I am fully engaged with them.

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Being "too bi" is like being "too rich." or "being too hot."  LOL

The holy grail is finding chicks for a threesome that are "too" into each other.

Its like the perfect wave.

I'll look forever...LOL

I guess if they began to threaten any guy who enters their world, I'd be a bit turned off by that, but I do recall watching two girls go at it and being allowed to participate minimally while they focused on each other, and found that quite a delightful fantasy

Or something along those lines. I have been with chicks that have been "too" into each other, to the exclusion of even noticing I was there. If I wanted lesbian porn, I can download as much as I want for free off of the internet. That is NOT what I look for in a session. It doesn't have to be "all about me" but it should be at least mainly about me if I am paying.

Look all you want. I've found it more than once and was rather disappointed each and every time

And he feels like an interloper, then I guess yes, that would be considered "too bi" for some johns.  

Or whenever he attempts to engage them he gets told "Not now".

Its your money chief. Take control of the session exactly BECAUSE you are paying.

(Nasty "F" bomb laced pm coming from my dick poster friend in 5, 4, 3, 2....

Taking control of a session is like "forcing" a woman to be GFE, it just aint going to happen.

Now please GO FUCK YOURSELF!!!

and please notice I said please. lol

My classes start soon as the holiday break is almost up. They are sold out but I will squeeze you in.

I have a seat between Drew and Mari saved  as I am not 100% sure perfectstorm is coming from Hawaii, but he did pay a deposit.

"Negotiating 101", "The Bliss of OTC" and "Taking Charge of Your Sessions" and "Why the Gals Throw Your Flowers in the Trash" are all mandatory classes to get your degree from Jack Dunphy University. LOL

Don't worry. I have worked with bigger assholes than yourself. ;

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Bi is fine, there are actually quite a few women who love men, but don't want a relationship with them.  Then they provide with their bi female partner.  I would want to start that particular session by watching them with each other, and once I'm going crazy, then they can make a Van the Man sandwich.

Ground rules and expectations of mutual interaction should be discussed and clearly understood before making the date. I'd agree that at some level, observation only could be frustrating.  

I'd hope and expect that if their hands and tongues were busy with each other, another orifice would be open for business. But again, minimize your expectations, minimize your disappointment.  

The length of the session should be taken into account. 90 minute  should suffice. I'd like to see the girls have some fun with me adding a little something extra to their pussy party. An example of type of session I'd be looking for:  the Chennin Blanc/Queeny Experience! Clearly on my 2016 bucket lust!

https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=188754
 

Secondly, all good BSU's need to bring wine, not flowers, and make sure it's the good shit as I will be the one drinking it with her after you are gone.

and I don't believe your seating chart. Drew is too dumb, Mari too stubborn and PS too lacking in need for your course for any of them to be attending. You seem to be suffering from the same delusions as Bob Sugar, the two of you should consider joint counseling.

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Half the reason I don't always like doubles is bc it makes focusing on the guy an uphill battle. The other half is bc I hate when you wind up with a hetero chick with poor acting skills.  

Many years ago I had the good fortune to be invited to play several times with a bi civie couple.  One really into cock, the other just marginally so.  I was never at a loss for some welcome spot to put it in - even though I was the "3rd wheel"

Participating with 2 ladies really into each other that do nothing to discourage you from having your fun is (IMHO) a huge turn on.  I've never had the opportunity to accomplish this with professionals but if the guy is paying I can't imagine the ladies would want him to leave anyway but completely satisfied.  If they offer the service, unless you are a jerk, they would want the return engagement...  Just good business...

...when I fall asleep, they have each other to talk to!

but she was constantly being asked to do them. Her reviews indicated that she was a pretty decent actress, but she told me she hated doing them and tried to interact as little as possible with the other girl

Although I don't mind a "gay for pay" gal as long as she can really sell it, a true lady-loving-lady is much preferred.

Don't you usually get to pick your doubles partner? Wouldn't that help weed out the bad actors?

In other countries, the escorts  list menu items on their sites and I'm always amazed at how many are fine with anything except 2 girl stuff.  I'm the opposite.  Lol

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Usually but you don't really know how things will go until you get in that room the first time.  I've had a couple of surprises.  
Also, I work at agencies where sometimes you get asked to do a double with a coworker.  You can say no, but most don't.

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I've been with many from both camps and selfish pig that I am, I want it all about me. I prefer a woman who is into men and I don't need her to pretend to be into women on my account. Many guys are apparently into that kind of thing, so I guess they are simply much less selfish than me.

and if a client requested her and another girl I suppose technically she could say no, but just like you said, she never would refuse. It was just part of the job.

For you (lopaw), the more relevant comparison is a threesome with a couple of lovely young ladies who are more into each other than they are into you, and aren't able to pretend otherwise effectively. I assume that this would not be too good.

From what provider friends have told me, the more common scenario is as you suggest with at least one girl who isn't into other women but does some kissing and caressing to give the guy an R-rated two-girl show. The first one who told me about this said that she was reluctantly talked into a threesome with another provider for a male client, but was reassured that nothing more than air-kissing and a few breast caresses would take place. It worked out exactly as the other provider predicted, and they spent a profitable evening chatting after he fell asleep.

Screening probably works a bit better for you because you can probably get some to rule themselves out once they find out which gender you are what what team you are playing for.

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....but hmmm maybe I should start and get some photos snapped showing just how much.  

Nay on "too bi"....that's not a thing.

....even if she's genuinely bi as well. I have to actually like them to a degree before making sexytime with em'....just like a client

I have had a few 3-somes in my dat, and I can say very clearly and unequivocally that I have N-E-V-E-R experienced the phenomenon of getting "left out."

Think about it. In these situations, I am the only person in the room who has the benefit of having a dick.  

You need to learn how to leverage that fact to your advantage. If you're getting left out, what does that say about you?

Very true - if I had 2 hot ladies canoodling with me and they just had eyes for each other, it would very much diminish the encounter. Tho it would definitely bring out the voyeur in me!

 
Actually the screening that I was referring to was for the providers, meaning that hopefully a provider that really insists on a double with a truly bi partner will screen for that. For me personally - since I'm paying for it I want the best possible scenario possible so I screen heavily. Based on their website verbiage and my communications with them, I can pretty quickly figure out who will give me the most bang for the buck

Any pussy sucking photo(S) would certainly get my attention

Me too, girl. Id love to see those photos! The dick sucking vid is hot tho...