I personally would like to see it as part of an overall session. WOuld love to at home also but my SO thinks its 'dirty'

It started out like a normal visit, but halfway thru she brought out the toys and b4 we were thru I think she was far more interested in pleasing herself with her assortment of vibrators than she was with me.  Made me feel a little inadequate LOL, but it seemed to really turn her on, and whne she returned her attention to me it was fantastic.

Last provider I was with asked me if she could bring out a toy.
Now, I really like this provider (will post a review on her soon), and so far she an ATF for me.  Well, I didn't mind really, heck, deep down I have a healthy perverted mind like the rest of us.  Well, I told her that I didn't mind her using it but that I wanted to enjoy the expperience with her, and that was alright with her as well.

Well, let me tell you, between some of my action and all those battery enhanced vibration, she had a bed shaking orgasm!!!

I tell you, as you get older, its more & more about pleasing the woman as it is about pleasing yourself.  I really get a kick out of that.

Just my .02 .

But don't always use them, it depends how the date goes. It's always good to know in advance if the man likes toys.

I do worry about guys feeling inadequate if I bring out a large vibrator!

Re:Toy play or no toy play? That is the question....

The more the merrier.  I love toys especially beads.

(in response to Carrie) I have never felt inadequate. If she gets totally involved with the toy for a while it can be fun to watch (and I know that her attention is going to come back to me eventually).

Vibrators seem to work wonders on women. Too bad there is nothing that works as well for me.

One exception to my toys are great attitude. If she came out with a strap-on and wanted to do me I would probably run as fast as my bad leg allows.


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If I can't bring black 'n decker then I don't want to play. I'm definately in it for a win win situation....Smile

X's Summer

I always thought of myself as a purist when it came to these things.  My thinking was that if god wanted us to get off with vibrators, there'd be a place to put AA batteries in our cocks.  Then I witnessed such a wonderful sight when a provider decided to take out her vibrator and give me a show.  It was delightful.  Now I say, "Bring em on"

Hands,fingers, tongue, Mr. Happy -- all those are great. But plastic? Nah.

--b.