I started wondering why I submit rave reviews because that is going to make those providers too busy to see me again.
I know it is only fair to share but... to be honest, I want to keep my favorite providers for myself and want to see them when I want to see them without waiting for a week or two...
Any opinions??
...in the end that is what we're all here for. We all want to know when a provider is mediocre or bad. Conversely, we want to know about the good to great providers too. Unfortunately, they can't make a living off just one or two of us.
if they are stars, they are going to get found out anyway, so get over it and quit thinking about being a pig, and keeping them to yourself. LOL
-- Modified on 8/18/2005 5:08:45 AM
Our first function as hobbyists and participants on this board is to help each other meet great ladies and avoid the assorted ripoff artists and upsellers that populate this business. Meeting a good provider and not sharing information (if she is ok with it) with other members defeats our basic cause.
First, if I have had a great session, then I really do feel that posting such enhances the ladies revenue - and that is a form of appreciation. I feel bad that TER no longer supports multiple reviews by one hobbiest. I personally like to see multiple posts by a hobbiest because it permits one to track either the improvement or decline of service by a provider. For me, posting to complement the lady is the most important reason to post - and IT is a complement when the review is good....
Second, I submit good great reviews to assist others as I would wish to be assisted. I have been BCd' and I BC others to either say, "what gives with your review" or "hey, I experienced that too, and thought that it was just me, good to know it was not." So, it is a check on reality as well as assistance.
3) this is one of the only ways I know of to discuss sessions - without becoming something of a parriah at work, home or other social settings. And we are human, and humans LOVE to share their experiences.
I am inspired by the AWESOME experience. It's like writing a diary which I can go back to read again and again to help me reminisce the moments. Ooh.. how I wish I could repeat the experience which often times just happened once..in a lifetime that is.
Because I only write reviews upon inspiration, I've only reviewed 30% of the ladies I've seen which doesn't mean the rest of them did not give me great experience. But writing reviews take up a lot of time which I don't have to write reviews on experience that was good but not great.
number 3 has to ring truest for me. You spend time with a gorgeous woman in intertwined bliss, and you want to tell all your friends how good you feel. Then you realize that you'd lose most of your friends, and come here to tell all of your accepting friends.
I have actually had ladies on repeat visits say - hey I read your review of me.... what on earth did this or that comment mean! lol, even complements can sometimes be misinterpreted!
but hey, that is the human condition, such as it is.
Relax! If you're a nice gentleman and you wish to repeatedly patronize a lady I'm sure she will make time for you in her busy schedule.
Cm.
It's basically against a man's best interest to post, for the reasons you mentioned. Too bad, as many great girls go under the radar.....
Have had many interludes turn into long-term, great friendships/ amazing private affairs....
Come visit NYC!!
So, how does one get in contact with you.