I have a general question.  A little information first. Looking to do doubles as it is my first time, for a threesome  I have never been with these ladies, but have read their reviews.  One of the providers seems for interesting than the other, however both of them have good reviews.  I know its better to be with a provider before adding additional people.  

Both the threesome and longer session are the same donation.  However, the threesome is only 90mins.  

My question is, should I do the threesome with both providers or schedule a longer session with the more interesting one?  

 
Thanks everyone with their input

the ladies are familiar with each other.  If they are strangers to each other, how they will interact is a crapshoot, IMHO.  Doubles are fun, I've done a few and in each case I had been with one of the ladies previously.  If you have a fave provider, you might ask her if she has any preferred doubles partners.

LLAP,
Swim

It's better if both the ladies know each other and are game for it. It also is a good idea to have prior experience with each lady. When everyone knows each other, it's so much fun.  

It's much easier to do this in this world than in the civie world.

I have done several doubles over the years and all were terrific !  All were with gal's that knew each other-one would recommend the other, etc...The most memorable (hard to pick a most here) but it was a session where I picked up 2 gals from a strip club-we had an absolute ball ! (no pun intended)!

They had been dancing all night-were at least bisexual-and very much in tune with each other-they had done it before !  Time was not an issue and we all went to breakfast at daylight !!!

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Have had a long time fantasy of a 3 way with sisters-preferably twin sisters-never been able to arrange it.  Who here has ??

it can be an amazing experience; a fantasy you can easily fulfill in this world. However, not all "doubles" are true "threesomes". I am totally with those who say chemistry between all and mutual familiarity is key for the very best time. I would not do it with two ladies I did not know, and who did not know one another

also, I slept with the 3rd party a couple of times before we did the threesome to see if we were compatible

I would first see one, then the other, then do the double.  I am in the midst of arranging a double that began when one beautiful and sexy lady whom I had seen twice, suggested it would be fun with a other lady she knows well.  
I met the second lady and she is also fabulous.  
So the sex with each of them was great and they know and like each other.  
No guarantees in life, but I bet the three some will be great.
If finances prevent doing this, I would have a longer session with the more interesting one.

you the session will go better if (1) you have been with one of the providers before and more importantly (2) the providers are really "into each other" whether they have previously worked together or not.

Reread what Swim said about asking a lady you have seen if she has a preferred play partner.

First off make sure that the girls are into it. The last thing you want is a Pillow Princess who won't even touch the other girl. The whole "gay for pay" thing doesn't work for me - I want them both to please me, but I want them to genuinely please each other too.

Sounds like a potential recipe for disaster, at least for a client looking for real chemistry between the women.

You are gay for pay, right? That would explain you not really caring to much about who the other provider is. The fact that "they don't care" either wouold be a deal breaker if I ever found out.

that I'd explore if I knew the women were turned on by each other.
I love the excitement of the unknown, so I'd imagine never having seen either of them could be the ultimate rush as long as the session wasn't a dud. So I'm thinking dud or a total blast

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I have no desire to crash the party of two lesbians more into each other than into me.  

I am kind of selfish that way, I am not paying for a "lesbian show" I am paying to be ravaged by two beautiful women who are into ME, not each other. but each to their own I suppose.

I haven't seen at least one of them before. I am in a unique position (pun intended) where I will know if the provider that I see is genuinely into women or not. From there I would request that she select our 3rd playmate, knowing that she is really bi and totally into it.

For the OP I would suggest maybe finding providers that advertise themselves as a duo (like Mia Hug & Vanessa Song). As long as they both fulfill your attraction/performance criteria that would probably be the best way to begin exploring 3somes.

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the best strategy for a doubles aficionado.  Doubles are always tricky, but I have found that 75% of the time, a doubles session is merely two providers tag-teaming me, first one then the other, or else one for DATY while the other rides CG.  For me, the best sessions are the ones where the girls are bisexual, and while I'm recovering between pops, they engage with each other for me private viewing pleasure.  If they're not bi, then the rest period is usually a four-hand massage, hardly worth the price of a double.  Watching two hot women go at each other shortens the refractory period for me considerably, and gets me back into the action sooner.  

Back to Dr. Joe's point:  If you get your connection going with each provider independently in a singles session, and maybe discuss individually your threesome fantasies and what activities you would like to participate in, it gives you a chance to feel each one out about how excited they might be to join you and another woman.

And I don't mean the Minnesota Twins.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=856562&boardID=12&page=#856562

There are lots of FMF couplings with very little FF play other than, maybe, the double / shared BJ (hopefully BBBJ and not CBJ). You are basically sharing each F and getting about 50% of each but paying the full 100% for each.

Some guys prefer to see some genuine FF (lez) action and get some shared FMF action (Pussy-to-Mouth and such).  

Once you've decided what you're going to be content with, make sure that the ladies are in agreement on meeting your expectations

go see Nancy and Sunny , they are twins ,
I have been with Nancy and she is super energetic ,  
so I assume her sister is awesome too .

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Some years ago I introduced two top tier ladies to one another for a double with me.
I had seen both of them individually several times during my frequent visits to Phoenix ( the good old days before crazy sheriffs ).  
Both were very popular and absolute hotties . Had heard of each other but never met. One was youngish and pretty new to the biz. I'm not sure if she had even done a double. The other was a gorgeous milf who was just one of those really cool eye candy types that everyone adored.
It was a fun session. But a little awkward as they got to know one another. It was interesting as the older lady sorta gave direction as it was also my first ever double. She was the adult in the room...lol
It wasn't as great as I anticipated . But they hit it off and became a popular team for doubles. A early 20 something and a early 40 something.  Sounds like a great porn scene...lol.
Point is , their first session was OK but not great but as they got to know one another they became legendary .
I actually received an email from them a couple months after our encounter thanking me for the intro and offering a freebie the next time I returned to Phoenix !

One of them was a long time friend (still is) who I'd hooked up with casually a few times when we were both available. Before any of that transpired, she set me up with her sister & we dated for a while. Time passes, and the friend calls me over to help her out with something, though the sisters had something entirely else in mind. And it was awful. They were not comfortable being 'in flagrante' in each other's company.

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but yeah, you are 100% correct here.

If you have sex with someone of your own sex AND you enjoy it, you can't go around claiming you are 100% hetero. It's like claiming to be a vegan, but eating steak "only" during family dinners AND admitting to liking it all the while insisting you are a 100% vegan. It just doesn't work that way.

a freebie doubles, every monger's dream!

imo as to the op, i make sure that i have seen both women and are comfortable with both, and that both women have seen and played with each other before seeing me.

Bingo!
You summarized it perfectly with that analogy.
Some of these chicks are so oblivious and/or deep in denial it's ridiculous.

by all means keep telling yourself this little fairy tale of yours.

But the rest of us are all laughing at you, not with you.  

If you like having sex with women, even if only under certain parameters, but you genuinely enjoy the sex, Guess what? You are NOT 100% straight. Call yourself anything you want, but enjoying sex with another woman makes you at the very least "bi sexual" Why are you so hung up on semantics? There is no shame in enjoying another woman, just embrace it and stop playing all these silly games in your head.

I forget Kinsey's numbers, but he felt that men and women cover the spectrum of homo (1) to hetero (10).
 
Many men are 10, many are 9, .... some admit that are 6 ... some are 2, a few percent are 1.  
(What is the current estimate of homosexual men in the US population? 5%?)
 
Many women are 10 ... some admit to being 8 (80% hetero, 20% lez) ... some are 6 ... a few percent are 1.
(What is the current estimate of homosexual women in the US population? 5%?)
 
According to Kinsey, sexual (gender) identity s not a Yes-No All-or-None thing

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but suck one little dick (and enjoy it) and you are labeled a cocksucker for life.

You had sex with a woman, you liked it. You are NOT straight. At least not according to everyone else's definition of the word. I really don't know why it seems to be so important to you that you consider yourself heterosexual. You clearly enjoy it, it's just that you only enjoy it under certain circumstances. Relax and embrace it. You are the only one getting upset about it. I can't speak for the "tribe" but I am too busy laughing at you to be upset.

If I ever were to suck a dick and enjoy it, regardless of the circumstances, I would not consider myself "straight" from that point on and neither would anybody else.

All I have to say is I have had the good fortune to do a double with LL and another young lady for my BD in 2014, and it gets no better gentlemen. See review of that date, and you will totally understand. Amen.

never never never tell hooker it felt three times as good or rate go up up up... lol .... just kidding ladies. I live each and every one of you .... that's right ... every single one 😍

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There's GOOD exciting and there's BAD exciting. You see the GOOD exciting but many of us see the problems of a possible BAD exciting.  

(You get paid whether it's GOOD exciting or BAD exciting. We're out the fee even when it's BAD exciting.

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I have done several of these over the years, with mixed results. I have tried 2 women I never met before, 2 that were recommended by agency owner, 2 where one recommended the other, and so on. Despite mixed results, this is something I still look forward to.

All of the most amazing experiences I have had was when one recommended the other, and when I did not feel closer or more interested with one of them. That is the perfect set of circumstances. That being said, there were a few issues:
1. The ladies can get competitive, and will sometimes try to out shine each other. This is great and puts you at the center of attention, but when you are all out to dinner and one is trying to pull your cock out of your pants its a bit too much.
2. People are more self conscious when its a threesome vs 1 on 1. I am more self conscious about the way I look, and sometimes the women can hold back a bit.
3. It can get busy. You could be enjoying CG with one of them and have a great view, before the other comes and sits on your face.
4. If one is your ATF, and this person she recommended is her BFF and you find her unattractive, asking her to leave can be a political mindfuck. I have been in this situation before and was one of the few times I felt trapped into having sex with someone.

Now for some fun pros:
1. 2 chicks at the same time!
2. Division of labour. If you enjoy long BBBJs in various positions and on different pieces of furniture, its nice to divide the workload. I personally don't think its cool to ask someone to keep going to 20-30 minutes.
3. Usually I am short on time more so than money. So threesomes are a good way to maximize the number of women I see and scout out someone I can enjoy individually later.

What I have not been able to do yet to is to get 2 women I met individually and had an amazing time with to agree to a threesome with each other. I think 99% of the women claiming to be Bi out there are not, and just go gay for pay. As such its really hard to get two people who do not know each other to do it together. Thats fine as I mostly prefer the attention on me, but then there is suspicion that one of the ladies will use the opportunity to spy on the other.

If they are friends with both you and each other, the stage is set for an evening that you won't forget...

exual orientation is not only about the physical. Which factors, exactly, come together to make any one of us identify in any particular way are not nearly as black and white as whether someone is able to respond, sexually/erotically to particular body parts.

I guarantee you that most people who identify as gay or lesbian have had sex with someone of the opposite gender---in many cases more than once---and not unusual for them to have been sexually aroused, had orgasms or…gasp….even enjoyed the encounter.  

I certainly have. I’m still not straight, OR BI.  I also guarantee you that my sexual identification as a lesbian is not something that ‘makes me feel better about myself’. It’s not a fairy tale I tell myself. I’m not in denial. I was born/raised in typically homophobic environment, with all of the ignorance and BS that comes with that; in the south. ‘Nuff said. And because of all that ‘ignunt BS, admitting I was a lesbian was one of the most difficult—in fact traumatic---things I have ever done.  I lost good friends. I lost family. It was not some experiment.  There was nothing even remotely cool or trendy about it. It was terrifying. Thankfully I sought out some counseling because, looking back, I was getting close to being another statistic.  

Yes, the stigma was THAT bad.  

If anything, to make that situation feel a bit better, to me and to everyone else, I had EVERY reason to tell myself and other people I was BI. Not a great alternative, but definitely better. Hell…I’ve often wished I was BI. It could have made my life a lot easier. Thankfully, cultural/social beliefs are changing for the better, but back-up 20 yrs and tell someone I’m BI (especially a guy) and I might get high-5; tell someone I’m a dyke and I might get a baseball bat upside my head.  

But. Nope. I’m a lesbian. I don’t have to be repulsed by the thought of (even the deed) of having sex with men to know this. Being capable of enjoying sexual experiences with men doesn’t automatically change my innate sexual orientation.  

How do I “know” this”? I don’t know. I just do. And, at this stage of my life, believe me---I have absolutely zero reason, or the slightest motivation to try to gloss over that fact---to myself, or anyone else