Was thinking about a double, one lady had suggested friends on her website. However the 2nd lady has a different rate than the other, plus one lady has an upcharge for doing the double. That seems kind of awkward that you are giving a different gift to one and not the other for the same time. Is that understood between the two? I'm trying to think of the way to handle so as to cause the least offense.
These two providers are friends, so they KNOW they charge different rates. All the doubles I've done involved providers with different rates. SOP.
Pay both girls the same, it avoids an awkward situation.
it is better to have one gal be the lead person in terms of discussing what the rates will be for the pair of them. That way they handle the business discussions between them and then the lead gal tells you what the rate will be for the pair.
You don't want to be the middle man, business-wise, in any case.
I go into a double either expecting my usual rate for the alloted time OR what my doubles partner and I have decided what our combined rate would be. Some ladies charge less, some charge more, it's not awkward when you set your own rates accordingly. To have it be "decided" by the client we would get the same or averaging the two rates and splitting it, would not be correct. Separate envelopes with the correct amount for each lady. The end.
To the OP, sounds like one lady may have a "doubles" rate listed while the other lady just wants her usual donation for that time. No harm in clarifying beforehand. The "doubles" rate usually has the fee for an additional girl; never heard of a truly bi provider charging way more for a double. But it could happen I guess. Lol! Most ladies I've worked with luv sharing a dick, so pricing has never been exorbitant and the experience always a pleasure. Have fun!!!-- Modified on 1/28/2015 8:22:29 AM
Gosh are you guys that scared of us ladies or are that many BSC ladies out there? Lol! IF a doubles session is decided, folks are screened and it's being scheduled, and an inquiry comes in to clarify rate, I don't see an issue. I would assume also the gent has seen at least one of us before so there should be some comfort level there and it would be OK to ask. I guess I am more interested in being able to communicate effectively with someone before I fuck them even if it is for the money! Lol! I am different anyways. Rod, if it makes no difference to you to part with an extra couple hundreds or so instead of asking a simple question, well then carry on...
No need to name the gal, but what did you do after you got the text?
Sometimes just in asking for clarification from a lady can lead to awkwardness OR the "see my [complicated] website" response.
I've seen some ladies websites with very confusing price structures.
I think if it makes things simple, its WAY easier just paying the higher lady's rate, rather get the, "the donation is short" text.
and they'll love you for it. When it comes to doubles it's like others have said, one takes the lead and quotes a rate for the session and you decide if it's worth it to you. I'm not doing both the funding and the figuring out, and I'm not bringing two envelopes.
How do you really expect him to have the courage to deal with something like this? I am sure he would much rather empty his entire wallet than risk having a woman think less of him.
As for me, I am of the "why don't you just ask how the actual women providing services want it handled?" kind of guy. Is it really so hard to ask one or both of the women how they want to handle it?
BTW I have never been much of a fan of using an envelope, but this might be one of those exceptions where leaving a separate envelope for each lady might be the least uncomfortable way to handle it.
that would be a deal breaker for me. There's an agency that wanted me to pay them $100 surcharge I politely told them that they could go fuck themselves.
As far as doubles are concerned, I love doubles and what works for me I usually let one gal do the negotiating, I tell her if its with a friend to talk with her and come back with a total. If it's with two gals who aren't friends then you give them two separate envelopes at whatever rate is agreed upon for each gal. Sometimes it would be nice for us guys to have an assistant
Like, How much should I pay each of you?
Baby steps, you'll get there eventually. Yeah, sure you will. lmao
USG asked if I was playing hard to get. I replied back, nah not hardly.
Wow...
Tough cookies that sounds dumb but IDK on which end... Ahhhh the hobby the things that will be done in the pursuit of happiness via pussy... Lol!
He must've been with one of those high class gals that do fancy positions... Lol! Just follow the script and all will go well... CG, missionary, doggie then done.
contact lady #1 and say that I would like to get together with lady #1 and her friend lady #2. I will then ask what the cost would be for 2-hrs. of their time. When I arrive at the incall, I will have one envelope with the agreed amount of bengies.
I have to say that is unfortunate to hear Rod. Certain clients really enjoy CG and CG they get, I'll grind it out and ride them until I cum, which is going to be damn near the entire appointment time!!! Lol! Have to tell you a little trick to getting CG, might not be your style, but just something I have observed...
Plus the benefits of CG position are it gives you a great cardio burn with an ab and back workout if you're grinding right!!! So what if you break a sweat! Lazy girls. Smh. Lol!
First there is several months of sucking up before the date. Then there is the relatively short time involved for the date itself, followed by several months of sucking up after the date.
I can only imagine if you had to double this amount of effort to see two women at the same time. Actually I don't think it would just be a doubling, more like a "squaring" of the effort. lol