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Kitty76 See my TER Reviews 3338 reads
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1 / 32

GOOD MORNING EVERYONE,  
   I have been doing this Escorting since I was eighteen & a half (Stopped for maybe 5 to 8 years, because I had 2 kids), but I started back and found out that the clients that were cheap & stupid. Meaning, they thought that the escort should take cheap payments and a nice amount of loss. The Clients are the ones who wants the sexual satisfaction (Not the Providers). So,  Hobbyists...........Before you bitch about the cost then think about what you are asking for and how far the Provider has to travel to get to you. And think about how good she is.  Plus if you give her a truthful & Honest review of her performance, Then maybe she'll work on the cost of her performance.  

John_Laroche 50 reads
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3 / 32

This post is such a turn on. I just have to have you despite your reviews.

TiannaTemptation See my TER Reviews 40 reads
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4 / 32

While no provider can honestly claim to have enjoyed 100% of their sessions, one would hope that they would get sexual satisfaction from at least some of them, especially if they were making this a lifelong career.  

Life is far too short to do something you dislike.  

The sad reality is typically the lower the price point the lower the quality of clients. Hard to respect yourself and enjoy this work while offering 15 minute sessions in my opinion.  

Kitty I am not sure what other options you may have available, but it really sounds like you need a break/change in occupation.  

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 43 reads
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5 / 32

"The sad reality is typically the lower the price point the lower the quality of clients", I have to agree with you.  The corollary to that is customers who are a little more upscale will be put off by prices in this range, and so she stays on the treadmill.  The only way I can see for her to get out of the rut is to rebrand herself and start at a price point that might attract a better class of customers.

edinathens 41 reads
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6 / 32

"Plus if you give her a truthful & Honest review of her performance"

WIMissScarlet See my TER Reviews 47 reads
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7 / 32

Well, as a cheap whore myself I would say Kitty's first step is to get rid of the 15 and 30 min dates. These guys just want to get in, get off, and get out, which seems to be where her frustration lies. Make rates non negotiable. Make boundaries non negotiable. I think you can be successful at any price point as long as you have a specific business model. There are going to be ass hole clients in every price range, but if you stand your ground as a provider you will have profoundly less.

helixir 37 Reviews 43 reads
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8 / 32

Such as:  There are guys who try to bargain DOWN from $15?!

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 36 reads
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9 / 32

I could never really stand to watch Mike Rowe's Dirty Jobs series, but we have to be thankful for people who go to work every day and do miserable jobs. I thank you all for making life possible.

TiannaTemptation See my TER Reviews 45 reads
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10 / 32

“Cheap whore”, you are too funny - love it!

Completely agree on the short dates.  Additionally no offense meant at all - each provider will find their personal approach to pricing/volume/services. As long as they are comfortable with what they are doing and feel okay with their choices I am fully supportive of same.  

As far as price points, these vary by the market you are in and personal preferences as well.  In certain large cities the unfortunate truth is that lower prices do tend to bring out the creepers.  It seems there are a certain type of clients that rejoice in taking advantage of women and getting the mist they can for as little as possible is their goal.  

In my personal past experience when my rates were lower I had a lot more calls, a lot more weeding out to do and ended up with more crappy clients. A couple were truly dangerous, some would try crap like shorting the envelope or pushing boundaries in a session, some were just yucky, many were fine and a handful were gems.  My volume was higher and I spent a lot of time on administrative stuff like texts, emails, screening.  I found I had tons of inquiries where people tried to negotiate or obtain services I did not offer.  

When I increased my rates I got less calls but the clientele was more targeted to what I was seeking. I was doing more dinner/entertainment dates, longer dates with social interaction and good conversations, gentlemen who were not trying to push my boundaries but instead were seeking the experience that I was providing. The whole seduction experience.  I had more opportunities such as traveling with clients and have fond memories of fabulous vacations with special gentlemen.  

However this was what I was seeking, and may not be for everyone. Not all girls are interested in developing these types of relationships and some really do want shorter visits to get in and out just as some clients prefer same.  Additionally you can still run into a bad apple charging higher rates, it’s not foolproof.  Just an observation of a general trend.  

The beauty of being independent is the ability to customize the work to our specific needs and desires and to change this structure as we go to fit our ever changing lives.  

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 40 reads
posted
11 / 32

anything you  said, it's all sound advice and Kitty would do well to adopt some of your suggestions.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 46 reads
posted
12 / 32

you found your niche by moving upmarket a little.  High volume is not for anyone, especially those who are doing their own screening and booking. Older, more established gents put a premium on the social experience, and not just the sex, and this is the difference that allows experienced, mature providers to attract the well-heeled customers. Social interaction is often a failing among the younger providers in their mid-20's, at least in my own experience.  

sagacity 39 Reviews 40 reads
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13 / 32

I have to agree with you that trying to get handouts/ cheap sessions by hobbyists sucks. As a hobbyist I always look at a provider’s words and try to decide if I can afford that, but I never try to get a discount. I’d totally support providers nixing the whole partial hour thing. The Chinese shops provide that and guys who want QV or blo-n-go should give them a try. Sometimes it’s all one needs, right?

One thing the ladies might consider is the optics. As an electrician I make pretty good money. But $200, $500, god forbid $1,500/hour? I’m guessing that’s got to be some rarified air up at that level. I get that there’s the usual overhead, I have it too. I also understand the fact that you will be retiring well before I will, at least from this trade. But even $200 is more than double what I make and it’s hard to hear complaining about those rates. And most of you are no fools! And I celebrate that! Get it girls! But please understand that there are some of us out there who would regale you with sparkling conversation and yummy fun play with emotional and physical reciprocity if only we could make the budget work.  

I fully support sex work and sex workers. If I was the sole arbiter of what’s right and real this business would be as legit and respected and protected as any other. Places with legal sex work have happy workers (mostly) and happy clients and less corruption and shit that providers have to protect themselves from, and hope someday things get better.

When I dream of spending $1,500 on getting my sick wet I dream of that Lufthansa RT ticket to Germany for a night or two in the FKK world.  

Ok I’m rambling. I hope I’ve offered some food for thought. Thanks!

sag

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 41 reads
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14 / 32

to a $500 provider may be some "rarified air", but when they both fart, it smells the same. Lol  

 
Likewise, a $1500 pussy usually feels no different than a $500 pussy.  $1500 providers are usually pricing themselves based solely on looks, not service.  For many mongers, it's still a bucket list item for a special occasion, but not a regular practice.

impposter 49 Reviews 46 reads
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15 / 32

I know that I have previously posted about the scientific / medical studies of flatulence but I can't find those posts. (It was a popular research topic for college students.)  
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http://www.vox.com/2014/12/4/7332411/fart-flatulence
Everybody farts. But here are 9 surprising facts about flatulence you may not know.
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http://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/?term=flatulence
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CAN you tell the difference between a Taco Bell taco fart and a Filet Mignon fart?

Posted By: coeur-de-lion
Re: A $1500 provider compared . . . .
to a $500 provider may be some "rarified air", but when they both fart, it smells the same. Lol  
   
 Likewise, a $1500 pussy usually feels no different than a $500 pussy.  $1500 providers are usually pricing themselves based solely on looks, not service.  For many mongers, it's still a bucket list item for a special occasion, but not a regular practice.

SirSmiley 47 Reviews 33 reads
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16 / 32
Kitty76 See my TER Reviews 42 reads
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18 / 32

I have always enjoyed my sessions 100%. Probably more then I should at times.

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 49 reads
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19 / 32

You started this thread & now you stating the opposite. Am I the only one who’s baffled? No dear it’s you. Weird to say the very least. Your reviews show that you do not enjoy 100% of your sessions. 😳 It’s difficult to take you seriously & I am trying my best to understand your posts that appear to be vents of frustrations.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 51 reads
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20 / 32

for complete and correct info on anal gas.   Lol

 
To answer your question, yes, the difference is about $60.  

Kitty76 See my TER Reviews 25 reads
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21 / 32

That sounds like you can't get paid enough or get enough satisfaction without getting paid to get satisfied.

Kitty76 See my TER Reviews 28 reads
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22 / 32

No I do not need a change in Occupation. I just don't believe that us "A PROVIDER" should cheapen ourself because a man can't pay for a piece of ass. It's not like we're crack whores, their wife/girlfriend & Etc. Most are doing this for money (I know I am). Whatever a man thinks he can do for me sexually......I don't need.

Kitty76 See my TER Reviews 36 reads
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23 / 32

I deal with guys who just wanna get in and get off and get out. It's not like I wanna date the guys off the clock. I'm trying to keep a roof over my head.

Kitty76 See my TER Reviews 37 reads
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24 / 32

QueenBia,  
   I do enjoy what I do. I just do not enjoy people acting cheap. This is a site is for guys to get their nuts off and be on their way (Not any other reason).  

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 31 reads
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25 / 32

Your close minded & stuck in your ways I totally understand why your jaded after all these years in this industry only providing a means for men to get their nuts off. I myself am much more, than just that. I am a lover, a friend, a confidant, a Mistress, companion, muse, and so much more.  

Many people are not here to get their nuts off because that’s not what they’re seeking. Some desire a more intimate connection & that’s what I am in search of as well. I can see you don’t offer dinner dates & overnight entertainment. Please do not continue to post back on my responses because we’re all here for different reasons. I’m not running the same business you are.

djrunner 159 Reviews 28 reads
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26 / 32

I like to just get my nuts off personally sometimes. Other times with the right provider I can converse and go my way. Continue though with the cat fights, quite enjoyable. Annoying tbh.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 35 reads
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27 / 32

Did you mean to say you are "a muse", or did you mean amusement?  Lol

 
Do you see the irony in telling Kitty she is "close-minded and stuck in her ways" when your approach to this biz is one-size-fits-all?  Everyone gives the same real-world screening information, everyone pays a deposit, and you think you're superior to other providers here.  Telling Kitty that she can't post where and what she wants is a pretty arrogant look, even for you.  

inicky46 61 Reviews 41 reads
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28 / 32

Personally, I also won't pay a dime to anyone who refers to her compensation for fucking as "tribute."
I mean, what is she? A Barbary Pirate?

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 31 reads
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29 / 32

As a provider who started as a Domme, she is a butt-pirate for those guys who are into that.  Lol

mayamonroe23 33 reads
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30 / 32

this is so 50/50 low rate and mid range according to other girls ive noticed girls RUN CIRCLES around high end types lol like real circles live they life while girls charging certain rates are literally dry begging for rent on twitter. Likeeeeee it's a bad look in my opinion.  

Most guys who do this regularly are seeing more women and would rather pay certain rates and see more women. No offense to girls who price at certain rates but ive lierally notices the girls over a certain price point legit are not that pretty. Maybe alot of surgery maybe the "appearance' of alot of money but they really are not that pretty lol the prettiest girls and the ones who are the most fun  and actually enjoy what they do are without doubt found in certain price ranges

most girls who i see charging high end rates actually hate their clients and do nothing but bitch about them in other corners of the internet and its honestly the grossest thing i've ever seen.

WIMissScarlet See my TER Reviews 31 reads
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31 / 32

I have been saying this for a long time. I consider myself low/mid range with my rates and I live in the middle of no where Wisconsin. I have guys that actually travel from other states to visit me. I am consistently booked and have a  much larger pool of guys to pick from so I am able to see who I want, when I want. I have been accused of being "high volume", I am not really sure what that is. On the average day I have one or two appointments, once in awhile I will see three. Most book multiple hours with me. I am treated very well and have a large list of regulars. When I tour I am booked weeks in advance. You can hold out for that rich regular all you want, but stop complaining then that guys are "cheap" and that is the reason you can't pay your rent or phone bill and are up to your eyeballs in debt. Take responsibility for your situation. This is a business. If you are only booking one appointment a week or less reevaluate your business plan. And yes, I am on track to comfortably retire as a multi millionaire. It can be done. But assuming that you will make the most just charging a high rate is a wild economic and business miscalculation.

holystonethedeck 79 Reviews 27 reads
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32 / 32

Good for you. You've always impressed me as extremely intelligent.

 I look forward to meeting you in a few months!

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