What was the strangest boundary you ever encountered in a civilian relationship?
i'm thinking primarily about sexual boundaries, but other odd boundaries are definitely worth hearing about.
TY.
Some friends of mine (neither are in the industry) have a sexually open relationship...with a peculiar boundary. They save vaginal intercouse for one another and can only play anal or orally with others!
It works for them.
That's why I like hobbying so much.
The one I liked least, and I have found it among several, was always having to have sex with the lights out.
I like to see, but many gals are so uptight about the appearance of their body, they can't stand the thought of me seeing theirs.
One gal brought it to the extreme of never undressing. We had to make do with loose clothing and so forth.
Well, the strangest boundary in a civie relationship would have to be choosing not to have sex with me. I always found that very strange...
Personally....
The strangest boundary is any boundary.... Except the guys anal thing, some guys just dont want a girl there, ever...
But back to topic...
I dont have any ex bfs or gfs that hate me or wouldn't have lunch with me if I called them this week....
I have asked and I think its cause I beleive in knowing your partner, respecting their desires, wants, and even annonying behaviors.
If you get to know someone so well
that you help them know and love
themselves better...
AND you have great sex....
Then who needs boundarys?
you know, the civvies I date are usually college fraternity boys, who don't have many boundaries oddly enough.
I swear, they are pretty damn experimental. Maybe it's just the freaks I date. 
hehe.
Katie
or movie people? Frat guys must be younger than you aren\'t they?
Maybe she likes younger men. LOL.
K,
Are you in a sorority? I was a greek (no homo) in my college days. Sigma Nu. was a fun time.
I dated a young lady for a while, who absolutely refused to kiss after giving me oral for any amount of time. Whatever?
A year or so before I met my wife, I went out, sort of, with a lovely woman with whom I could discuss much, was gorgeous, and so ravenous for sex. The boundary was that she soon wanted 'variety' and set up a fantasies which were fun. But the last one was that she invited me for dinner, left the door to her apartment unlocked so when I came in for what I thought was a candlelit dinner, she was handcuffed to the bed and wanted me to 'violate her' and be rough. Sorry, but while I get the fantasy, I just couldn't go through with it. Our relationship fell apart soon after that, but almost 22 years later, I still replay that evening in my head time to time...and wonder...
For the curious, she later married a politcal persona, had 2 kids and I wish I could tell you what she does for a living...but I can't. But life is indeed funny.
Women who don't kiss after DATY.