Would it be awkward to book with her?
Some other pertinent details:-I was actually her direct supervisor. It's been a few years since I last saw her (we both switched jobs). We had a friendly, cordial working relationship - nothing flirty (although, I totally would have banged her then).
-Our age difference: 5 years
-Her reviews are awesome; I had no idea she was such a kinkster (love it)!
-She has a legit career; providing is a side gig for her. Opinions?
I'm not sure if this makes a difference, but although it's been a few years since we last spoke, we do have a number of acquaintances in common (it was a small company; there was a lot of after hours hanging out and friendships made).
and I was her boss, I would have been boinking her for free, then transitioned into the pay position after she left the job.
too much personal information, too many acquaintances in common, too much opportunity for problems, IMO. And yes, awkward with perhaps potential for creepy as well.
You did not know, or even suspect she was a provider. Based on that fact I would by all means see her in this life. And since she knows your name, when you try to book her and she screens you, you'll find out from mo reply if she's uncomfortable seeing you. Nothing lost, nothing gained.
Which shouldn't be too hard for you to do. Seeing as you already have a crush on this lady.
... go see her, just don't fall too hard.
Some other pertinent details:
-I was actually her direct supervisor. It's been a few years since I last saw her (we both switched jobs). We had a friendly, cordial working relationship - nothing flirty (although, I totally would have banged her then).
-Our age difference: 5 years
-Her reviews are awesome; I had no idea she was such a kinkster (love it)!
-She has a legit career; providing is a side gig for her.
Opinions?
experiencing. First of all, no one has contacted me that I know yet. BUT, many of us have already thought out how we would want to deal with a situation like that.
There are some bosses I've had (the dudes) that I have wanted to boink the shit out of, but didn't have the swagger back then. (I have screwed a boss before too.) I would just die if certain people contacted me. I've been noticing consistent fantasies I've been having for years. Lately I've not only asked, been rejected, and withdrawn, but I've asked, been rejected, pursued, (under different circumstances,) and gotten to say things I've always wanted to say, and do things I've always wanted to do. In spite of popular opinion. (Bet people wouldn't imagine I've been intrigued by this business since I was a late teen lol.) For YEARS I never asked, and I never got. Now, I get. Not always, or even near it, but when I do, it's like "holy shit. I can't believe this." And it's like winning the lottery. I say he goes for it, but approaches it honestly like your friend did. Of course, you wouldn't like it, but many women would be ok with it. I think it's bull shit when I tell a friend and he starts calling me for free sex to 'help him out'. Like I give a percentage of my pussy to charity or something. Now THAT is awkward lol.Pussies need to smell like salmon, that's sexy right there
Do not try to book with her.
Steph xoxo
And Report Back-ASAP !!!!
Some other pertinent details:
-I was actually her direct supervisor. It's been a few years since I last saw her (we both switched jobs). We had a friendly, cordial working relationship - nothing flirty (although, I totally would have banged her then).
-Our age difference: 5 years
-Her reviews are awesome; I had no idea she was such a kinkster (love it)!
-She has a legit career; providing is a side gig for her.
Opinions?
Do you REALLY know what is inn her head. She may be at a crossroads and looking to dump her other job. She may really hate your guts, but you being the boss, she hid it well. Look around, are you willing to loose it all to get with her one time? Keep the fantasy a fantasy and play safe. Just saying
We have private and professional lives for a reason!
She may also find it Rude and Intrussive.
I have had this happen.. Thank God.. This man was a gentleman and very honest..
I too. told him that our paths have crossed and I just could not do it. He has respected that..
We are very good friends and for that I am grateful.. But I do not see him as Melissa...
Let me also say.. Finding out that your neighbor, sister, coworker or whatever is a provider is much more common then one would think..
Some other pertinent details:
-I was actually her direct supervisor. It's been a few years since I last saw her (we both switched jobs). We had a friendly, cordial working relationship - nothing flirty (although, I totally would have banged her then).
-Our age difference: 5 years
-Her reviews are awesome; I had no idea she was such a kinkster (love it)!
-She has a legit career; providing is a side gig for her.
Opinions?
If you want to keep your job, you're gunna have to get down on your knees and convince me of why you deserve to keep it. Damn! I love role play, you're naughty Courtney, one of the many things I like about you
So do you think if you let her know that you know that she is a provider, she will feel like you have something on her and might sometime use that ammunition against her?
He aint playing. lol
I think of all the board trolls and SPOTY candidates that we have had here, the one most likely to NOT be like his board personality is/was Asscalade, and the other most likely nowhere near as "dumb" as he portrays would be RidgeTucky. The rest of them i think are above as much as Charlie Sheen playing Charlie Harper.
you have to keep in mind that this also affects his life. He may not want that much overlap with his own world. Even letting him know delicately and discreetly could be awkward- because now he knows you know. Sometimes I think it's best if it's just left alone. A surprise under these circumstances is never, ever good.
However, having said that, I can be considered a hypocrite here. I had someone I knew from RL contact me. We instant messaged a lot and I learned enough about him to surmise that it wouldn't be terribly risky for him (no wife, friends know his lifestyle, etc), and I explained that we knew each other under different circumstances. It was very hot- as you imagine it would be. Agh- the tortuousness of these worlds we straddle! It's the curse of what we do. How awful that your friends ask you to give it out! Dump those friends. They aren't friends- they are opportunists. Stay safe!! :In fact, don't ever see providers who know your real name unless you are okay with everybody on the internet knowing about it the moment she decides to go crazy.
Now let's get back to the topic of this land tuna that I've been hearing about.when I had booked a session -
I had not seen her in a while - she had had a bit of a crush on me when I knew her as a ten to sixteen year old.... I did not quite recognize her all dolled up but she recognized me.... she did not say anything initially... sort of let me figure it out - I knew something was "there"..... in this case, she wanted to fuck me.... I was honestly reticent at first but she overcame that.... and it was a great time.... So I would say that it would depend on whether there was any chemistry there at all on her part... but you can't know that..... If I *knew* in advance that the lady in question was my old friend's daughter I would honestly have been torn between wanting to book with her and not wanting to - and probably would not have - assuming that it would be both perhaps a bit awkward for both of us and that she would have wanted her privacy respected.....
That was initially strange, but then it got comfortable. Sounds like jj, doesn't it.
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except on very very rare occasions....
mostly it's my TER p411 and datecheck plus provider references.... and a burner cell-- Modified on 7/30/2014 2:40:09 PM
Dear Melissa:
Are you learning that sense 2008 say that more women in general and more woman locally would be involved in the commercial sex industry on some level? Also would you say or even guess that more friends than you think from undergrad and High School could be actively involved in the game at some level?
If you wanted to bang her then bang her. Call her make sure she knows who you are. Who knows she may have wanted to as well and never said anything because she is professional. It may be the time of your life.