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TennGambler 19 Reviews 2521 reads
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Providers and Hobbyist: Just curious as to if you enjoy using message oil during normal love making and foreplay?
Not talking about FBSM but just normal love making.
I personally love oiling up my lover during love making. Both visually and physically!

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 528 reads
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2 / 37

clean up shower is on the clock.  That stuff just won't come off easily.

Adrienne Baptiste See my TER Reviews 660 reads
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5 / 37

UNLESS my lover's oral skills is legendary and memorable.  I'm talking about a tongue that suckles the clit and and a pair of lips that suck on my lips . . . where every flick of his tongue makes my whole body quiver with delight for at least 30 minutes . . .  

Anyway, before I digress!  

I really, really, REALLY enjoy a good massage with coconut oil/lotion beforehand. There is something to be said with a man who knows how to put a woman's body at ease. If you rub my feet, I might just fall in love with you, lol.  

Nonetheless, us women enjoy being pampered

Crazy Diamond 12 Reviews 539 reads
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6 / 37

One of my favorite ladies uses this, and swears by it.  I have no problem with it, even if smells like...coconuts.  Slippery, but no so much as to reduce necessary friction.

I've also heard that that coconut oil is the best and most healthful oil nutritionally and for cooking save for olive oil.  That comes from my favorite alternative health newsletter, though I haven't had reason to switch from Extra Virgin, at least in cooking and food preparation.  

Other oils, I avoid, except for petrol that powers my car.  But that's just personal preference...YMMV.

As for whether I prefer using oils during sex?  If she wants to, who am I to argue?  I'm good either way...

Camila-Gfe See my TER Reviews 508 reads
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7 / 37

I hate when the guy bring oil.
I have to agree that the feeling of oil is good
but usually the guy uses a lot of oil. after the session my hair is pure oil, oil is everywhere that you can imagine.It is a mess
I have to stop my life to wash and dry your hair

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 552 reads
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8 / 37

...extra virgin olive oils are about as virginal as providers.

Demcc3 27 Reviews 377 reads
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9 / 37

When I've had the opportunity to give my massage it DOES include the feet and depending on who I'm with, can lead to DATY as part of the massage.  I usually have used grape seed oil or coconut oil but rarely any of the lotions.

I wouldn't use oils specifically for massage for anything else though.

D

vjlovesbj 52 Reviews 416 reads
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10 / 37

So you would like us to pay you for the privilege of giving you a REALLY good massage?

REALLY???
Posted By: Adrienne Baptiste
UNLESS my lover's oral skills is legendary and memorable.  I'm talking about a tongue that suckles the clit and and a pair of lips that suck on my lips . . . where every flick of his tongue makes my whole body quiver with delight for at least 30 minutes . . .    
   
 Anyway, before I digress!  
   
 I really, really, REALLY enjoy a good massage with coconut oil/lotion beforehand. There is something to be said with a man who knows how to put a woman's body at ease. If you rub my feet, I might just fall in love with you, lol.  
   
 Nonetheless, us women enjoy being pampered.  
   
 

doncord 42 Reviews 389 reads
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We all know it isn;t really "love", but we like the performance and atmosphere to resemble it, hence the term GFE.  Why else would we revere the gfe experience so much.  

Posted By: perfectstorm

PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 436 reads
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14 / 37

Oil does nothing good for my skin and it ends up in my hair. That's so unsexy!  

Posted By: Demcc3
When I've had the opportunity to give my massage it DOES include the feet and depending on who I'm with, can lead to DATY as part of the massage.  I usually have used grape seed oil or coconut oil but rarely any of the lotions.  
   
 I wouldn't use oils specifically for massage for anything else though.  
   
 D.  
 

bonordonor 320 reads
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16 / 37

I think the term "love making" went out of style a number of years ago when it was almost unanimously decided that sex and love had nothing to do with each other. Similar to the term "balling", which had noting to do with either sex or love.

elainaamhurst See my TER Reviews 457 reads
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17 / 37

Always be sure that if you are using the oil everywhere, that it is condom compatible. Coconut oil, and many others are not safe for use with condoms.  

My favorite, is Jojoba. It is the closest you can find to our own natural skin oil, which isn't really an oil, but sebum. Jojoba is safe for use with condoms, doesn't stain sheets, and really doesn't leave you feeling like a giant grease ball.  

I love incorporating massage into my time with a man, both giving and receiving. I always travel with a bottle of Jojoba in case a guy wants to trade massage, but has brought a product that I don't enjoy.  

To me coconut oil is just too greasy for massage, and it stains sheets really bad. I love cooking with it though!!

elainaamhurst See my TER Reviews 346 reads
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18 / 37

Olive oil is NOT healthy when cooked at high heats. It is very healthy for use in raw dishes, such as salads, or a dipping oil for bread, etc. At high heats though, it turns carcinogenic. Coconut oil is a great option for high heat cooking!

arrowman 41 Reviews 482 reads
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GaGambler 404 reads
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20 / 37

Olive oil is quite safe to cook with, I use it for everything but "deep frying" personally.

mrfisher 108 Reviews 454 reads
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21 / 37

It also has a long shelf life, and remains pliable after applying for a long time.

Coconut is my second favorite.  It has a delightful scent.  Neutrogena sesame oil is also wonderful

countryguy8 446 reads
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23 / 37

... you keep the heat on low or moderate. So let's not condemn the stuff completely for frying.

If you worry about having your smooth-top run the heat up too high, consider cooking with corn oil, canola oil, or safflower oil instead.  

Bon appétit!

-CG

6-pack_abs 374 reads
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24 / 37

I am amazed at the topics you guys conjure up.  What MAN gives a fuck about the benefits of almond oil over coconut oil?  Really?  This is big pussy.  

Coconut oil is bad for condoms?  Well who the fuck is using it on condoms?  Why use oil on a condom anyway??  KY jelly is water based.  
Unlike petroleum-based lubricants, K-Y is generally biologically inert, and contains no color or perfume additives. The lubricant is extremely popular because it does not stain and is easily cleaned up.

Anyway, I feel you guys are ovulating and need your space.

6-pack_abs 491 reads
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25 / 37

This is really dumb..

Oil is greasy like water is wet.

 My 2 cents

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 281 reads
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Posted By: TennGambler
Providers and Hobbyist: Just curious as to if you enjoy using message oil during normal love making and foreplay?  
 Not talking about FBSM but just normal love making.  
 I personally love oiling up my lover during love making. Both visually and physically!  
   

GaGambler 408 reads
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27 / 37

Tenn Gambler is NO relation to GaGambler and personally I too believe oil is for cooking.

As for using oil on condoms, it can't be said too often,(ok I suppose anything can be said too often) that most oils break down condoms and only water based lubes like K-Y should be used with condoms. It's like telling a grown man to wash his ass before seeing a woman, it should be common knowledge, but common knowledge unfortunately is not the same as universal knowledge.

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 614 reads
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28 / 37

...for her body.  Droopy too.  This is TER - gotta keep it on topic!

TennGambler 19 Reviews 511 reads
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29 / 37

Yes, Definitely not related, but enjoy your post and experience (knowledge) of the business As I am only about into this adventure.

But let me add to your statement that Female Condoms are not made with latex so oils will have no effect on them

TennGambler 19 Reviews 357 reads
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30 / 37

Yes, I guess I am showing my age.
but I retire completely January this year at 56 so I don't really give a damn.

MILFCARESSA See my TER Reviews 509 reads
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31 / 37

we really do need to lighten up her

mona38 See my TER Reviews 346 reads
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I love rubbing in all over the body. It feels slick and silky. A bit messy, but it's fun to roll and slide around in.  
If you lay a tarp down, the clean up is quick and easy. Shower is a must afterwards, that could lead to more fun!

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 435 reads
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Oh sorry, "athletic."
She's probably my in the 31-35 age group too. :)

Posted By: BigPapasan
...for her body.  Droopy too.  This is TER - gotta keep it on topic!

GaGambler 298 reads
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Of course I just got back from a SB date with a young (19) lady who was a lot more than "athletic" she was only "athletic" if bon bon eating has become a competitive sport. What was even more ironic is the fact she was a vegan, but I suppose cattle are vegans as well. lol

Crazy Diamond 12 Reviews 461 reads
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I have personal favorites when cooking, but any suggestions that might be better are appreciated.  Thanks, bro!  It's always good to experiment.

Molly Feinstein See my TER Reviews 481 reads
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Adrienne Baptiste See my TER Reviews 331 reads
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It's no different than sitting back and getting your cooter ate. Essentially, getting paid to just moan. Haha.

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