I love when gentlemen invite me out, I enjoy being arm candy and having some fun outside of the bedroom. The recent outing was when I attended a friendly gathering with a gentlemen. Its always fun getting out of the bedroom for some fun, many guys think they'll be charge by the hour but I have special packages just for outings. My favorite outing was in Las Vegas when a gentlemen planned eight hours or fun for us. We seen three shows, got on the rides at New York New York and played a few slots. We ending our time back at his place for dinner and dessert well the dessert was on me.

On the one side, you've got guys like me who only do that OTC.  On the other side you've got some very doctrinaire women who absolutely insist that not only does their date have to buy her dinner but he's got to pay to watch her eat it.  Pas moi.

Still one of my favorite games to play in Vegas is...

I often do get OTC time with the girls I see without having to pay them to hang out with me. The last 4 girls I have seen in the last week or so, we hung out together out of mutual enjoyment... not compensated time. One girl even paid the tab while I was in the mens rest room.  

If you expect her to do what you want to do, then it's fair to offer compensation for that time. If it feels like work, she'll want compensation. If not, then you get a discount (hey, she can still use some $) or OTC. Simple.

Or are you just a dude who can't get a gal to go and join you for a nice dinner/lunch without actually having to pay her.

If you think girls believe guys who insist on OTC meals are cheap.  You don't know me and you don't know the girls I see.  As for "banging away on their keyboards...alone," well, you're doing it, aren't you?
Jealous much?

So you're just pissed that the gals that many of "us" see enjoy spending time outside of BCD.  Shit...some actually insist on paying for the damn meals!

However it is what I want to do. If I get asked OTC to do something I don't like I politely refuse. If it is OTC it has to be something I want to do OR he can pay me to do something I dislike if he wants me with him.  

That was harsh. Not sure why he felt the need to add that bit of info.

There is one guy who I swear is the poster boy for a TER guy. He has that "look".

But I'm sure his Mom is just fine and is putting together dinner right about now.

OK...but it has to have something I like to eat.

Post that they hate having lunch with me...or Nick...or GaG...or JackDunphy...or DrunkenAsian...or..shit, the list is extensive.

Come on would you be okay if some fat trick went on about your daughter (if you had one) and kept asking you does she BBBJCIM and for how much? Kinda got to leave family members out of this.  

Otherwise I wouldn't have known if he really had (has) a Mommy.

The OTC stuff is better off bcd, if you know what I mean. Then the next john gets grandiose ideas if that shit gets out. Ever read what the NB hookers think about OTC time? Its all unicorns and pixie dust according to them.It doesn't exist. They NEVER would think about doing it. lol.

You know with the "sorry." For a second, I thought you meant it. I should have known better.

No this guys is not in bad shape and after all he is at the gym so kudos right there. He just has the look, can't really explain. More of an attitude/demeanor  than body type.

A couple of weeks ago. Would you make jokes if someone mentioned his mother or sister had cancer and was dying? You really are much better than this at least I thought so.

I prefer burger King.  Maybe white castle or wawa if it's a first date. Those are very romantic restaurants. lol

And I agree with you that what was the point of bringing up Mommy's death?

However if you have a hot daughter, send me her website. I might like to dabble a tad.

My choices are sushi, sushi and sushi. I eat very clean and most restaurants ruin perfectly good food. If the guy wants to go elsewhere and I know the food sucks I just decline.

Let's hope no-one lets us all know of a trick that carks it...I can them ask for the OB or make a shit ton of fun at the expense of a dead trick. Yeah that would go down like a ton of bricks.  

JoeMommasBoy actually has some evidence that would support his moronic and unwarranted assertion that his Mommy is dead...or that she's really still getting those latkes ready.

But we can go there and I'll have a drink and you can eat the sushi.

most of the whores don't, except for a few of the casino girls.

There's a very good chance JoeM posted it to get a rise.  And if his mom really died, what kind of idiot would put it on a fuck board?  Either way, no sympathy from me.

Because they insisted on picking up the tab.

in other words creating more of a dating environment,   and if she reflects this by charging a lower rate.  I am game -

You have your rules, I have mine and it's all good.
I also don't do overnights, as I have no interest in paying anyone to sleep.  GaG is quite the opposite.  And it's all good.

Look I have no idea if this guys mother really died and that was my point. Like I also said i am pretty sure no-one on this board would tolerate a hooker making fun if a trick died, even without the proof of an Obit. Death is death

If it is something I want to do, I get to do it. Not with my very own friends but with a client that is someone I can be with without the compensation.  

and I don't go around asking - I figure that if the lady wants to spend OTC time with me she knows how to suggest it.....

The guy didn't die on her but had some kind of cerebral incident.  She got him medical help and he was fine. But after that she just referred to him as "stroke guy."  In fact, she introduced him to me that way at an M&G. He thought it was hilarious.

The widespread use of the acronym has turned what should be a spontaneous, mutually enjoyable experience into a menu item.  If I grab a bite or a drink with someone after an appointment, it is not as hooker/John, but as two people who enjoy each other’s company. While it may be flirtatious, it is just a relaxed and pleasant footnote to the appointment - not a bonus to which just anyone should feel entitled.

And most importantly thanks for not using your ten dollar words.  Why waste ten dollars where two cents are usually good enough. LMAO

I always use smaller words when I’m in an insouciant mood.

and I agree with your point of view -    

Being individual whose English is a 2nd language, I will also admit that the moment I see your post I run to Thesaurus before I even open your post..

My past atf i asked to go to lunch..$1200....Fuck that.

Guys brag on the boards that they get OTC, so other guys that we DONT want to spend that time with start expecting it cause hey, they think they're good guys and they have time. Never mind how we feel about them or if we have things to do after we meet up. He thinks he was nice, cause that's what other dudes who DONT make the decisions say, so he thinks he deserves it.  

When I ask civie girls to lunch - I get the same response.

I am sorry. No one has turned down my Shepard's Pie. Ever.
You are officially invited for a home cooked meal at my little apartment.
We can talk, and play scrabble. If you are up to the challenge.

And it looks like I'll have a few more unwitting contestants playing the game.

I have no interest in that type of gig....as many of my gal pals are just "friends"....those that I don't necessarily see BCD.  For others it's just something that has morphed from a P4P session...as they know that I love the lunch deals and chatting about life.

Let alone for it appears many of the wrong reasons.

I wanted Joan to be my quick witted Sugar Momma.

I was once arguing a point with someone and I claimed that his argument was ambiguous.  He objected and claimed that his argument was very biguous.  I was at a loss and conceded the point.

If you think he is full of shit then run with it...hang on you already have. I am out of this. You have a great weekend.

Have a great weekend Nick...

Good for her, as I would have run and left him there.....wait for it..... just kidding, I would have called 911 and then dressed him.

BTW...his Momma makes some mean latkes  

And I totally agree about the blabbing part. Some guys even put it in their reviews-UGH!



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Because his argument was ept.

One of my regs asks for extra time when booking and I always have something to do. I will offer but I will not let him tack that time on as an expected item. He hasn't got the correlation yet but hope he does, if not, I make up shit.  

Not a fan, I like my uninterrupted sleep and a bed all to myself.

It's between the woman and me, and falls into the YMMV category.  Oh, gosh, do I get docked a point for using another acronym?
It's shame people just can't understand that sometimes it's just about two human beings.  Things happen. We click, she says, "Well, that's it for me for tonight.  Gotta grab a bite. I'm starving."  I ask her if she'd like to join me.  She says yes. Big fucking deal

Even if it's a freebie...I like my own bed.  I like to snore...fart...pick my nose...and not have to be worried about some gal being offended.

But it wasn't being marketed as it is today.  Too many really lonely dudes buy it...hook, line and sinker.

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And I totally agree about the blabbing part. Some guys even put it in their reviews-UGH!

Steph

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dynamics of a meal/snack/drink with a friend (or friendly person) without putting a price tag on it.

They have no idea what the rest of your day is like.  I never expect anything.  Whatever happens, happens and it's entirely up to her.

Nice try, but this isn't about me or my clients. You Johnny boys that get all pissy about a little truth are hilarious

You even babble it in your post!

What, exactly, do you disagree with about my post? I mean besides the parts you've already contradicted yourself over further down?

Of course there is always Korean BBQ for those of us with more than a twenty dollar budget and a strong stomach.

Actually Korean food is pretty cheap, but I usually wash it down with a couple of hundred bucks worth of sake. lol

You get paid lots of money.  Suck it up, lol!
But seriously, the problem is self respect, or lack thereof.
If I have a good connection, I may ask the lady if she wants to grab a bite, or she may strongly hint that she would like to go out with me.  But even then, I realize that some connections are more "bedroom" connections, and if I sense this, then I'm more than happy to leave on a high note and be on my way.