What's up with guys asking for car dates...when I clearly state that I don't do them?

I hate them with a passion. To me:

car date = visit from Ellie

car date = ticket to jail

Suffolk is crawling with LE. Unsafe and unwise to do such a thing.

And they want me to bbbj them. HELLZ NO...

The only person I do that with has his papers (stating he's clean).

I nearly got busted on a car date. Never again

And/or on a really tight hobbying budget.

Really, I thought that was strictly for civie teenagers in high school.

I had met this guy months ago, when I first started posting on CL.

He asked if I did car dates, despite my intense dislike for them.

Then he had the nerve to ask me if I wanted to give him bbbj outside, in the open.

Just because that person says, "he's a good guy" doesn't change my mind around about car dates.

No means no. And I will not compromise for anyone. When I say, "NO CAR DATES", that's what I mean.

Car dates? I can count on one hand the number of times I've ever done anything in a car, and all but one of them was before I turned 18. The backseat of a car may bring back highschool memories for some but geez... some parts of my youth are *so* not worth reliving!

... but I did take a car date once, kind of. Of course, it was someone I'd seen several times before, and it was the prelude to a nice weekend getaway (just kind of happened, I have difficulty keeping my hands to myself sometimes!) and now I can cross "fvcking in the back of a 1938 Rolls" off of my list of things to do before I die, lol.

Maxine

Who is asking for damn 'car dates'???