This question is for the boys.  If you're with a girl and she is trying to concentrate on having an orgasm, and she closes her eyes for a while, is that cool?  Or, do you feel like she is disconnected or thinking of someone else or doesn't want to look at you?

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Good question!

my ego is way too large to allow me to believe that it is anything else!!!  Seriously - if she is "there" her eyes opened or closed won't make a difference.  

...on the other cues she is sending. Is she purring or snoring? Is her skin flushed or pallid? If the other signals say she is enjoying it, then no issue at all. If the other signals say something else, then it is time to try some new stimulus.

Thus, I figure she's thinking of baseball or Janet Reno or something like that.

Yeah it is cool with me.

I'm not doing it right.  The subtle and not so subtle signs a women is enjoying herself aren't hard to recognize. Lip licking, head rolling, hip thrusting, a puddle forming...

that I forgot to take off my clown makeup

Sometimes I close my eyes for a while- even all the way throughout the buildup until after I've c*m.  So my eyes could be closed for a solid minute.  I just hoped no one got the wrong impression that I was trying to disconnect from them.

enjoy our time together.