The “girlfriend” would have to be a FWB. She’d have to be clear that that’s all it is and ever will be. I’m married and I see other women for sex with my wife’s blessing, but with conditions—including “don’t fall in love”. I think sticking with professionals is safer in that regard.
Are you satisfied after each date or do you feel you want more. If so is overnight dates the solution, and is it worth the donation.
My take is that we are in this for various reasons. Some guys just like to get with as many women, some likes the trill ,fulfilling a need, some just like sex ( the latter is 90% of me with 10% for the other categories combined . Where do you fall ?
And if I could afford overnights, I'd have them all the time. As it is, I can barely afford dinner dates which is the next best thing.
Amen… Yes, a good fuck is always good fun, but there is always the moment to savor companionship!
I get more bang for my buck with sugar dating. No hourly rate. Some companionship if you're compatible and have the time to spare to do things other than sex.
The “girlfriend” would have to be a FWB. She’d have to be clear that that’s all it is and ever will be. I’m married and I see other women for sex with my wife’s blessing, but with conditions—including “don’t fall in love”. I think sticking with professionals is safer in that regard.
Also, any woman I’d like to have as a FWB could find many younger, single guys for that kind of relationship.
My motto is, "I will happily pay to have sex with you but I will not pay to watch you sleep."
I have enjoyed many dinner dates with providers but I have never paid them for their time.
Because the rest of my motto is, "I will happily pay for your dinner but I won't pay to watch you eat it."
I'm satisfied with my once or twice a week tryst with a provider. I may want more the next day, but enjoy my freedom too much.
I have a regular girl that I see a couple times per month. Been like that for several years. We enjoy our hours together, text a few times a week in between but no need to wake up and have breakfast with.
The weeks I don't see her I get my fill of "something new."
Every time they cross paths in the hallway they say "fuck you!"
If viagra doesn't work for them anymore,I can see that happening.
I have dates with civy girls.
I'm truly looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with.
But because I also play in this arena, I don't persue sex with them.
I take sex completely off the table.
Most times I will see a provider before my civy date to remove my sexual tension.
This always me to see if this woman has some actual feminine/ wifey qualities without it being clouded by sex.
What I've concluded soo far is that most of the women I've come across have nothing to offer a man if they can't fuck you.
I have 1 with potential, being dating for almost 3 months without sex and we really enjoy each other and she has lots of qualities I'm looking for in a wife.
I'm ok if she sees other men while we "date" ( I'm having sex with SW), but when/if we become a couple, we'll discuss the boundaries.
1) Seeing the SP first should leave your little head too worn out to get you in any trouble at the strip club.
2) If you go to the strip club first and drink beer [which I always do] your little head may be too sleepy to rize to the occasion with the provider.
There are probably several more reasons.
A beer can give you head.
You must be over 90 yrs and don't get horny anymore . Well,unless you take care of yourself (If you know what I mean).
What I've concluded soo far is that most of the women I've come across have nothing to offer a man if they can't fuck you.
If today's GFE SW's scene had been available back in my day, I would have done the same.
I'd go so far as doing the Hindu-style arranged marriage or the Chinese style "strictly business" type deal ..
This topic is very relevant to me right now. My first ever FWB relationship just ended and I can say, despite the fact that it was a lot of work to make a good relationship, the benefits were far greater. The sex was better than I have had with escorts as we got to know each other better and better each time. And our conversations got more hilarious and more deep each time we were able to get together.
That said I could possibly get to that level with an escort. Lord knows I've spent enough money - if I had settled with one woman. So many of the women I saw when I first did this 2017-2018 (I took a break from 2019-2021) have retired or have rates out of my price range now. There is also the problem that I just like meeting new women. So in that way it's my fault I don't get to deep levels with an escort. So I actually do not know if there is a level like I had with my FWB if I was a regular to one escort. Some guys say yes, but that is relative to what they want I suppose.
But to answer your question. I do want more after every date, I don't think overnights are the solution. Being a monthly regular might get close to having a girl friend.
Yes it's a tough one to figure,and we understand it's a business for these ladies too.
Your wallet will be emptied out in such a relationship.
Well ,many providers may be accustomed to having a certain cash flow ,so a guy may have to match or better that.
When I first got in the hobby, I done it because I wanted to fuck as many ladies as I could without the expectation of a relationship, i got tired of hearing, if I knew you wasn’t going to be serious about me, I never would have slept with you, it really did break my heart to hear those words, today I wouldn’t mind doing a overnight with the right girl, as long as she not talking about 7 to 8 hours of sleep on a 12 hr overnight!!
for your age or have deep pockets, you will generally not be very impressed with the kinds of women who are willing to be your girlfriend compared to the kinds of girls that will fuck you for money in P4P. I don't have much trouble getting civvie girlfriends, but I prefer the NSA sex that comes with paying. I can see them on my own schedule and only have to go places and do things that I want to do. I still have periodic civvie girlfriends, but most of those relationships end when they become too demanding of my time. Many come to realize that when I'm fucking them every time I see them, we don't really have the same priorities. No shit! Lol
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