I have had this happen a few times now but the first time was when I tried to see a girl who was then in the top 10 of Ter 100 providers but has now retired. I contacted her thru P411 and at the time only had two oks from girls who I really liked and met thru another review board. So this girl gets back to me and says she would not see me because she did not like the girls who okd me and well basically called them "low rent Hookers". Now I understand that these girls were not at the same end of the donation scale as this girl but they were highly respected and liked in the area I saw them by both the guys there and other girls and were great to me so I took offense to this girls remarks and just moved on to seeing other girls.

 Awhile goes by and I guess this girl must have seen my client profile or reviews of the girls I was now seeing and deemed me fit to grace her presence and mails be about possibly seeing her. I mail her back and say sorry honey but that was back then but now you just do not meet my standards anymore but maybe after you get some better reviews. I would like to share with you her reply but her language would make a sailor blush so I will just leave it to your imagination lol.

 Anyway has this ever happened to you and how did you handle it?

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It's silly because we're all in the same industry just trying to make a living.

I don't go back after. It is one thing to say something if asked, but just to be a snob, no thanks. I wouldn't ever have responded to her request to see her.

Generally, I won't see her again if she gets petty like that.

I don't give them a chance because I am on to business at hand when I am with a provider.

So that's an oxymoron.  You know 110% that there are mean girls...it's "happened to you".  So how did you see the "mean girl"?  And not review her?  But then you can say "wholeheartedly" that she's an amazing woman inside and out?

Oh...you didn't review the mean girls  LOL

You're a real keeper there...can't say what you really mean for fear of some type of retribution.

How many followers do you have?  

Has Twatter added that "like" button for you yet?  Maybe if you pester them enough they'll accommodate you...or just delete your account.

Have heard the guys gossiping about other hobbyist and no not just the circle jerk comments they post about each other on the boards! LOL! When the gossip becomes unsavory and harming, I just get to fuckin and suckin, no sense in starting some rumored BS and ruin my day! Girls vent about other girls, guys vent about other guys. Real or fake, I have my own opinions and only base it by my truth and not someone else's. At the end of the day, I don't live and breathe the hobby, so say whatever I probably don't even want to hear it and when I do, I take it with a grain of salt.

Sorry...but it is what it is  

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I may not be his type or way down on his list of "fuckables" and he just hasn't got to me yet! LOL!  

I would entertain an OTC coffee or drink with him though, he is an interesting guy to chat with, and would want to see why you guys pinata him all the time. Seriously, he must be that awesome!

I can understand not trusting the gents references due to the references having a weak online presence (i.e. no website, lack of reviews, no paid ads, lack of screening protocol, typical things that take time to build up). However, I wouldn't feel a lack of trust due to pay range (unless its something like $50 quickies...which would indicate that she markets to a completely different group of clientele). Nor would a lack of top ranking status cause me to lack trust, because ranking doesn't correlate with safety.

Here are my honest thoughts. Playing devils advocate for lack of better words.

Sometimes guys want to try something new and end up being less satisfied than the guys that focus on one type of girl. Looking out for gents that are "experimenting" is usually a lady's intention when they are analyzing the type of girls you have met before. Not saying whether or not it is good practice because I'm only attempting to provide an analytical response and tap into her intentions.

That may have been the lady's goal, but she didn't communicate her conclusion professionally.  

Regarding her behavior, I will just say that lady's see so much in the business that they don't keep it professional consistently. Being in the top 10 of the country, a lady may even think that she doesn't have to. Not justifying it, again just analyzing. Due to many factors, we ladies sometimes prematurely sum guys up when being more patient would reveal that the guy isn't the type that we think he is

Actually if you read it again, he says its ( disbaraging)

I was told this by a guy I met, who claimed he saw a top 100 girl and he said he didn't leave a review of his bad experience. His words were "how do you leave a bad review saying things that no one else experienced and everyone has put her on a pedal-stool?"  

 
I have my theories on why these instances aren't reviewed. I told him that I understood why he didn't review it, because I do understand. Do I think its fair or right? No, but I have come to understand the mentality and approach of reviewers.

I guess you meant a pedestal and I'm trying to picture what a pedal-stool would like.  A turd with pedals on it?
Now seriously the problem with the Top 100 is huge.  Not just the problem you cite, but girls will do almost anything for a 10/10 in order to move up.  And I don't mean just BBFS or blackmail. In one case it is believed one girl is blackmailing guys who've given 10/10s to girls higher up the list.  They are forced to remove their reviews or be outed. Their reviews vanish from her competition's tally and up she goes!
The amount of corruption stemming from this Top 100 is epic.

Try reading his post again, the mine and you may get it.  But probably not.  So in addition to being a nasty guy back channel, you're also a dunce.

Now I'm sure that Rods started his PM assault on you.  You should expect to find 20 or 30 an hour from him.  At least that's what some members have experienced with him.  I guess he doesn't know what "leave me alone" means.

There are many folks I have met here.  But members that have no self-esteem and just whine and whine here...not a chance I'd be caught dead meeting them.

Good luck to you...I suspect you'll need it.

Where is that review?  What could have happened?

I guess you forgot about many of the other gals that you pissed off too.

Maybe you can reinvent yourself at some point?

In Orlando I had set up a few dates for successive nights. The first one started ragging on her local competition. Turns out she was the lowlife, not the "sluts" she was ragging on.

EOM

I actually did kind of like you. Until you proved yourself a complete fake, among other things.

Let me guess ... becky blue from baltimore?? Ugh, shes such a cunt. :p  j/k  j/k
That sucks. we all have opinions right, learning that they aren't always valuable is another issue altogether.  

However we feel can usually be articulated in a pleasant way. Sometimes people just let their emotions/attitude get the best of them.  
We are all growing humans and these are growing pains!

Xo

Alexa v.

And WOW! I had no idea that type of stuff was happening. Sounds like its dangerous.

As for the rest of what I wrote, it's not proven yet but suspicions are strong.

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What's a back channel?

I forgot you are dyslexic

Dear Jaye:
I am just wondering when you talk to other providers, do you detect an attitude when discussing potential "friends"? Also do you notice that they would be reluctant to disclose certain information you might be in quest of for purposes of verification? Finally is there anyone who you don't look forward to interacting with because you know that he or she will have a certain slant in their behavior?

when you make that statement with zero negative reviews, or even mediocre ones, you have zero credibility. Oh wait, you already had zero credibility...congratulations, you've hit bedrock and started to drill.

Welcome back, Rodney Tiddlefield. From what I've seen you're in rare form, and you still get no respect.

Just like his missing pal BSCTardlor

often about either other girls (good and bad) or the fact that it is hard to find well reviewed girls in both the areas I go to.  

I simply say that yes there is limited number of well review gals compared to other cities, but the ones who are I have heard good things about, as I have about touring providers that stop in. I do not talk about specific girls or complain/join in the conversation. Works well to keep the time together with him going smoothly.

Had a guy one time have some not nice things to say about someone local I pm. I am not getting in the middle of it, nor am I going to go repeat it... but I did tell him that I do converse with her and my impression is that she is a very nice gal. That stopped his talking about the subject quick. lol

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One lady threatened to out my wife if I posted what was in my mind a good review because an 8/8 wasn't good enough for her. She is now gone. She made me very weary of top end ladies. I don't trust perfect scores. Some women will do anything to keep their place at the top including hurting other ladies. This was before the top 100 list I can't imagine it has made things better. Their is dangerous ladies as well as guys in this game and they aren't all on Backpage or have bad reviews here. Some have great reviews they will do anything to keep higher than earned.

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'Competition' can definitely be nastier at the top. Can't be denied.

She would be very disappointed if she made good on that threat. lol

I do agree about the "top ladies" Once upon a time a long string of 10-10 reviews was a good thing, now all it does for me is send up red flags that she is a review manipulator. This is really a crying shame for the handful of true 10-10 ladies who EARN those once rarified scores. They are the biggest losers where it comes to review fraud as it cheapens their well earned scores.

Because there are plenty of BSUs like Rodney who throw them out to just about everyone.

The threat was real and had real power. It killed the review. But it did have unwanted consequences for her tho. I found out her real information, including her other employment, her family members emails and more and explained if she ever hinted anything about my wife or me, contacted anyone us or anyone we know, or the like everyone would know of her other work and of her blackmail attempt, even the cops. I ment every word. You don't threaten my wife and expect my not to return the favor. Go after me fine go after my wife and expect war. It is that simple.

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You do it quite well...............

I guess he has no friends. Too sad.

I read it as you were threatened to be outed "to" your wife, not that they threatened to "out your wife" My bad, sorry.

posts whilst sober.

I promise to try harder. lol

It os not about low or high sluts
 It is about  meeting like kind people  
 Match  
 Sorry - gentlemen but yes it is MATCH even here( some asked before what it is MATCH .com ??)
 There on Match .com you do not spend such money on woman  and here you do spend  

 so  you have to match  her  
 I have match you too  before I accept your donation ( and it is why I am 10 always )
 But I am also will  learn about you whom you met
 Generally I would not see you if you have been with very mean person and gave her  nice review- may be she treated you well of course.. but you know well about us women here.. so you cam see who is mean who is  not.
Then - I would check  if he has pattern of seeing agencies and low budget girls ( more risks about STD s and  other bad habits, as usage of Urban dictionary, drugs, piimps .. why D I need such "date"
 How I can NOT to look at pattern  of your sex life ??!!  
Een if you have money when other girl tells me how bad you treated her- I will tell you  NO
 With no explanation  
 I said only once to  one man pointing to provider he saw before that iam not able meet him becuase he liked her - she was just very mean
 And gave her nice review- and he read all her outrageous posts .. that means - he is ok with mean people .
 I am not ok .
I just will feel strange be with him after all.
 ut myself I never will say him why  
Once I did - he was asking me a lot why and why and why and why you   are so resistant - then i said  WHY  
But  generally - i live by following saying  
- Tell me who are your freinds and I tell you who you ARE "
 then please note - we humans tend to absorb patterns of behavior from our social habbits.. so .. it is easy to  slide down ..
I love just one slide .. down and up
 Te rest has to be stable - morals and values and LOVE  .
Still believe in love  and know how to love just in 2 hours Not sting attached LOVE  as in porno movies.. make love to me ( not Fuck my brains off !!! ) how  NOT to look on pattern??
 You do read reviews gentlemen..  so we too use own judgment .
But meet man  and then complain and talk about OTHER girl badly ??
 it is low .
Do not respect whom he have had met? - then do not met him .


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girl 2 (a southern white protestant) was a cold fish, based on what other guy had said to her.  I told her though that 2 was remarnkbly  just didnt do greek,