Does anyone have any info on adult personal sites (like Adult Friend Finder, IWantU, SexSearch, and SexyAds). You can register for free, then they send you notices of all these hot women that are interestd in you, but you can't contact them unless you upgrade your membership at $20 per month, or so. Has anyone had any experience, results. Is it a ripoff? Any advice/info would be appreciated. PM me. Thanks
A huge number of the pics and ads they use on Adult FF, for example, are supposedly stock photos that they attach to ads some jerk writes for them. I have even heard some pics are of Playboy models with ads on there. I mean, come on, guys...maybe a LITTLE less obvious, perhaps?
yeah, that's kinda what I figured, seemed to good to be true
Not too impressed with iFriends either. Also, sexsearch.com...bit waste of time and money. It seems you pay for access to another place that people merely advertise for pay as you go services...not worth it.
Suzanne from San Diego started with AFF and now has 19 pages of reviews in 2 years. So there MIGHT be a few that haven't found TER as of yet. But I would't take a chance.
Stephanie in SD was another one who used the service. I think there are some real "amateurs" on there as well. However, it seems that there are a lot of fake ads, just to make it look like there are more people involved than there really are.
TO most of these women request some sort of financial consideration for their services? I can't imagine many women do this "just because".
Isn't the point of Adult Personal supposed to be that civilian men and women are looking to hook up? It's not supposed to be providors and hobbyists, is it?
it leaves an even smaller number of "real" women...which is why I say it is mostly a ripoff.
Ah, but thankfully, we have TER...
I don't know how many of the "ads" are fake, but there are two things that you need to be aware of for these sites.
1). A number of the women on these sites are actually providers. This is a means for providers to find men who are "hungry".
2). Of the women who aren't providers, almost all of them get so many messages that they cannot possibly reply to even a fraction of them.
So, unless you are just looking for another source to find providers or can live with not getting a response back from 99% of the messages you send out, you may want to think about how wisely you are spending your money for this.
There are a few " gems " on AFF but for the most part its a joke
I have used the adultfreindfinder website while in Malaysia. I did not send out any e-mail, just answered the ones that e-mailed to me.
One was a married woman who was looking for generous gentlmen ($100 per night)Very worthwile too by the way.
Another was just looking for a good time. She would round up additional partners for our group activies for example. She never asked for anything, and was happy to be at the hotel, and eat room service whenever we did not go out.
There were many who where looking for more (marrage and a trip to the states), but they were pretty easy to distiguish.
I do aggree with the others that most of the postings are ether fake or out of date.
From advertising on Adult Friend Finder I got some steady clients that I have stuck to for some time. My ad used to be more explicit, but when I tried to update it the site made me take out some of the language. I don't know how anyone could suspect me of being a provider there now, but I still get offers every once in a while. It never hurts to ask.
I never paid for anything on AFF. I guess if you get contacted by a sufficient # of people, they upgrade your membership for free. You may want to generate more attraction to your ad if you don't want to pay.
I have also heard that a number of the women are pay-sites. In addition, quite a few are providers. If you're looking for a provider, don't hesitate to ask any hot girl. Go ahead and send the same message to each one to save yourself time. But be fairly clear on what you're looking for. I won't reveal myself as a provider unless I can safely suspect you're looking for one.
However, I know there are a lot of "real" people out on adult personals sites who just want to have free, uninhibited sex. Women are more cautious than men in meeting people, so such a meeting will take some time and effort on your part. You may have to dig through a lot of ads, but you may find someone worth your while. If you don't want to come across any kind of service, I suggest looking at the older houswife-type women. Or couples- if you're in to that kinda thing.
5 - 6 years ago, I was a paying member of AFF in its early days. I only got replys from maybe 1 of 20 or so that I sent, but "got lucky" with most of them, a couple several times. They weren't escorts, either. One, I'm still in contact with and we are planning to get together at a bed and breakfast soon. I'm sure it has changed since then. I gave up my membership and pulled my ad back in '99.
I had sent out over 70 e-mails to attractive ladies, and ALL of them returned back offers to a webcam site.
Most of those are deleted by AFF management as soon as someone reports them, but sometimes the responses have a different name attatched and cannot be traced to the ad, unless you know that you have only responded to a few ads at a time, like I did.
I did see a few ads for ladies that I recognize now as providers.
The chat room was fun, but that also could have ringers in it to keep the men interested. I heard that there were a few real women on there, but men outnumber ladies by 20 to one.
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