oh no no no no no no way ...

and had a great day anyway!

sorry zen , no mercy .  

but considering the fact that this is supposed to be a positive experience for you, do you still feel good about it? No. This is what I was trying to get at in my other thread. Seems like business etiquette is not very good in this business, at least in comparison to others.

Haven't looked yet. I think I'm kinda scared LOL...jello wrestling???? Me and you???  

So:

Pick yourself up.

Dust yourself off.

And get back up on that horse and ride.

He's like a damn teenager on steroids for god's sake. Zen...I hope you're being nice to these poor girls LOL. Damn. Before you know it, he'll have more reviews than my buddy here and probably in less than a year's time if he keeps going at this pace. I'm tellin' ya...you and Cosette...match made in heaven. Set it up.....

She doesn't have time to reschedule... My experience-Usually if that happens, the hobbyist inquire if there's another time/date, if he really wants to see me that is...  I never offer-"would you like to reschedule" if I have to cancel an appointment, I apologies & if they ask to reschedule, I thank them for rescheduling & I offer them a "Special" for their inconvenience...   Just my 2 cents......

What matters is that you are not being treated the way you like.

Guys can get very interesting when rejected, and being rejected by a hooker, well some just can't deal with that and the shit hits the fan. Some hookers, most hookers are not a fan of confrontation so err on the side of ignore and he will eventually go away. Fair, not really. Good business etiquette, not really. It is like any illegal business, it is run how they feel on the day for the most part for some ladies. Others, they do treat it like a legit business and will offer some sort of an explanation and deal with the why the best they know how.

than negative. I asked the question because I've always (I think) had some form of that "let's try again" type of line in cancellation emails before. This one simply didn't, and I interpreted that as I chose. It simply raised the question for me as to whether my expectations and interpretations unique, or a shared perception

Maybe she simply doesn't know her schedule yet, and doesn't want to jerk you around any more than she has. It might depend on her health or her family or her car or whatever else. Most guys don't immediately offer to reschedule when they cancel on me, and I certainly don't take it as anything more than they'll let me know when they're free again. Not everything is SO personal ;-

So the South has taught this Yankee.

I never said I've had more negative than positive experiences. I've had many more positive experiences too but that's not the point. How many times have you had someone in another field of business cancel on you and not ask if you would like the reschedule? This has never happened to me and I'm old.

word Tidwell never got the dear john letter you did . common zen step up your game start telling them your dicks bigger or something . your not going to leave your money to those kids of yours its all going to hookers and your making a new will soon and want to include all your nieces . I had high hopes for you . I did .  

the cancellation was well ahead of the scheduled time, nothing at all inappropriate in the words used. It was actually quite polite, and very nice. Fact is, I met her socially at an event and she was extremely polite, nice and fun to talk with. I have absolutely zero reason to think she might have in any way intentionally "dissed" me. I was just over-thinking as I considered reaching out to her to reschedule

to dance to:

A 'beat' Zen...a 'beat'. If you can't even nod your head to the songs I download here, we got problems lol.

only one guy! And I know I don't represent anyone else here. And you're right, I was over-thinking. Seeking opinions was intended to help me not assume!

sorry photo not gonna happen , that was a joke right ? guys do that , cause I wouldn't .  oh well my dear guess you can only have me in your dreams ... xoxo

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He's like a damn teenager on steroids for god's sake. Zen...I hope you're being nice to these poor girls LOL. Damn. Before you know it, he'll have more reviews than my buddy here and probably in less than a year's time if he keeps going at this pace. I'm tellin' ya...you and Cosette...match made in heaven. Set it up.....  
   
 (yes I'm a smartass, sorry and you know my tone AND you know I'm right    
   
   
 BIB, you need to send me a photo STAT. I got the 'description' of you and you SOUND like a stud to me mister. Are you 'I'talian (wink wink). I can model my new shoes for you. They are so cute. You know us girls and our shoes, can never have enough. I'll model just for you and 'only' the shoes (battingeyelashes). I bet you'd Treat Me Right.....uh oh I feel a dedication on this ugly rainy cold evening to liven it up a bit.  
   
 A classic....PEACE. LOL Did someone say Chubb......

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Gentlemen and 'Rejection'. God forbid with that word, that's like the antichrist for god's sake LOL.

long enough its bound to happen and on your part too. so your reading to much into it . as far as her rescheduling id say you should be glad she didn't . as she really had something going on and getting customers wasn't her top priority right away .. give her a week or so , see how she is and take it from there ..

you don't need my agreement or approval.

Ouch hurt me.

Guess that excuse  LOL

actually book!  

cancellation.

such a big deal about it. Cancellations happen. Life happens. It...happens. Get over it already. Christ. It's not that big a deal and for anyone to take it personally...seriously???

an awful lot of work.

I got...hey I can't meet you, but I know some agency girls. Want an introduction?

It just might work...

Soooo, I tend to think the same in this case. When I had to cancel which was very rare, I always offered money off or some extra time and options to schedule when HE was available. It sounds like she may have discovered some things about you, and changed her mind

Being rejected by a hooker tips some guys over the abyss. You know the old "I have money you have to see me" bullshit? Some still do not get that hookers have a choice and at the end of the day, it all comes down to yay or nay.

just over-thinking. As you said, most cancels in my experience do include some type of "open door" offer to reschedule, thus my question.  

innermost desires! I told her those were private fantasies!

at about the same time we would have had to meet. And no, nothing special to make it up that we discussed. Just a simple apology and a reschedule.