seeing new provider every week?making piles of cash?sitting out in the nature on a sunny day?

or does it take just on special person to change your life and make you the happiest person the whole world?  

as i have matured, i am starting to realize that happiness is also a choice in some ways...

thoughts, if any

no upcharge for anal.

Running out of money and breath at exactly the same moment

What else is she gonna do?

Strive for being content with yourself and your life. If you are expecting happiness to come from another you will always be dependent on others for your happiness. Build your life, enjoy your life and contentment will follow.

It's also a PUBLIC fuck board so people can say whatever they want. Get over it

My second thought I am happy you are still riffing on Asscalade even though we haven't heard from him in ages, so "perhaps" there is still at least a sliver of hope that you still have a sense of humor. Your recent meltdown however makes me believe it only a very narrow sliver of hope.

Doing what you want and not giving a crap about what others think.  

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Of the extent to which your life is achieving or leading to outcomes you consider valuable or satisfying. It's a "Yay" or "Nay" vote, but only with yourself.

Maybe don't read topics you aren't interested in and move on to the next one.

...but I find some things bring me more happiness than others.

Time is a big one, for me. Being able to take time to spend with friends, go on a bicycle ride, sit by myself, or to simply stop on a ride or walk, and inhale deeply, the fragrance of a flower I've not seen before.

My greatest happiness comes from making others feel good, in whatever way I'm able.
Sometimes it's a kind word. Sometimes I put a smile on someone's face. And still, sometimes it's merely saying "Hello" when I make eye contact with a complete stranger.

Helping someone rise above their previous emotion or helping them to see that they're worth something more than they might think gets me off harder than most anything. I don't even care how I have to do it, sometimes

This is most definitely the place for a mental breakdown and she didn't even make the top ten list of meltdowns the other day. Of course BSC Taylor owns about 9 of the top ten melt downs here, and don't forget deb of the "got rope" thread. lol Maybe we can squeeze her meltdown into the top "eleven" perhaps?  

I think in her case "happiness" would be the ability to turn the clock back to before the truth about her was common knowledge

Happiness is killing your boss with a chain saw.  Happiness is a warm puppy.  Happiness  is a value we attach to something that makes us feel good.

People should be able to say whatever they want. Sex Money Feelings Emotions. It's all part of P4P. So many variables can lead to a great session or a disaster. Telling someone they need therapy is wrong on so many levels. We all have demons and ghost. What's wrong with looking for a pick me up every once in a while?  Let the man be. No need to ridicule him for this thoughts and asking an honest and open question. At the end of the day he's not hurting anyone.

 “Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.”

Zak

You've missed a lot the last couple of days.

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Lower your expectations. Yes, it does apply even on a fuck board; when you lower your expectation it means not letting disappointment get the best of you. Carry on.

Although, there are legitimate reasons to get upset over blatant rip-offs and unsafe situations, but I don’t think it should destroy a life by living in fear and disappointment without being hopeful that happiness will come around again. Shrug it off.  

Also just the opposite, there are legitimate times that things have gone so well they become the standard where the bar has been raised to the level where every other meeting or situation is measured against it, which may lead to disappointment when others’ don’t meet that perceived standard. Then, what does that say about happiness? Keep an eye out for the good.

Happiness is other things too, like hard work that leads to success towards a goal or career, or how often the struggle in sports that gets a championship is tremendous excitement and happiness. (Or with that escort, she wasn’t easy to book an appointment, but when it happened the sex was off the charts!). Perhaps it’s also contentment and reflecting on pleasant memories, like a fond memory with that special gal. Maybe with some, it’s making a lot of money, but I bet it’s the influence of how you make it also affects happiness—that is, people can make a lot of money but are unhappy in how they go about it. Then, why continue doing what you don’t like? (Find another way, get back to happiness.)

In this game, for the customer, it’s that special gal that made his day. Maybe for the provider it’s not only getting paid, but knowing she made the customer happy and even got some pleasure out of it herself—how often we read or hear about it? Will it always be the same every time? Probably not, but how do you know what happiness is if you don’t know what sorrow is? (another topic).

So be hopeful, set desire and goals no matter how lofty or small or doable, but at the same time don’t get your hopes up (as meeting a stranger in this game, first time, can be different for everyone even after doing research). If a paradox, then happiness is there and it isn’t (How do you feel in mind and body and health at any given moment?), but believe it when it happens and that’s the state worth living for—always keeping it in check as there may be an unexpected obstacle around the corner to get past.

On a good day, if things are going better than expected then you’re on the right track. (My 2-cents, even though I may be preaching to the chore, and yes, after what I wrote I agree; it is also a choice.)  

It’s a sunny day; I’m going out for a walk to enjoy

It would seem that way. I went with Roxanne Heart to Miami for two days last week gearing up for my sisters wedding next weekend. I will be on and off this week but back in full force in 10 days. I had some extra time this morning so I wanted to type. Off to the pool. Enjoy your day.

Can happiness be killing a warm puppy with a chain saw?

slowly rotating her hips while she pulls my head closer as I'm eating her.
I peer up over her B-cups to see her face is flush and she's softly biting her lower lip.  

A good meal makes me happy.
Sleeping in makes me happy.
Being out on the ocean makes me happy.

Not everyone finds their personal happiness, but letting go of things that make you unhappy may be equally important.

See the link.

The  first time around we thought he ran off with KatieXO who vanished the same time he did his first "retirement".  But that turned out a false rumor.

He will probably be back.

you giving it a break until you've had some therapy.

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Like when you're  totally out of steam with some issue and you pray for the strength to carry on...and it  
comes. Or when you're working on a 20 story scaffold rig and the spiritual Giants enforcing change through
hatred and spite on this board appear out of nowhere inquiring about the apprenticeship program...yeah, answered  
prayer...that's my happiness.

..a criminal state of mind that creates more sorrow in others than happiness in one doing the damage; if that’s the underlying premise to the logic?

But if values, maybe it’s understandable to be angry at a terrible boss that treat others unfairly (if that's the case) rather than to be angry at an innocent puppy that does nothing to create resentment.

Most likely a psycho would inflict harm on an innocent puppy. A disgruntled employee (in a fit of rage) would inflict harm on a boss, but his violent act may not make him psycho; especially if he has remorse after committing the act.  

Underlying rule here is that happiness is okay as long as it doesn’t harm others, even if a boss is less than admirable. Otherwise, society has it’s consequences to murder and manslaughter

I went on a journey to discover what happiness is to me a few years ago and for me it is:

1. Being content exactly where I am be it sitting on a curb, in traffic or waiting in line.  
2. Staying out of self and giving to others.
3. Agape Love!!

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I need to stop seeing clients and spend more time on this board because I have no idea what this thread is really about, and yet am simultaneously fascinated... Hope my appointment today is late, I've got some backlog reading to do.

But it can buy me a boat!

... a lot depends on what you do with that money.

maybe the original question was, "What is a penis?"

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But that's the whole point of the song I linked. Money can't buy happiness, but it sure can buy you a lot of things that can make you happy.

the lack of it can make you pretty unhappy.

Sorry! Had to do that. It's from one of my favorite songs.

For me, happiness is a future plan. It might be a session with a beautiful TER lady. It might be a date with a civie. It could be a concert, a ball game, a poker party, a wilderness adventure, vacation, a lazy afternoon, a trip, dinner out, a massage (with or without a happy ending), an impossible to get book, a golf outing, a hobby conference, and many more things. Tomorrow I'm hiking with a gorgeous blonde. What can I say? I'm happy today thinking about tomorrow.  

It's a win win win. I get the excitement of anticipation, the thrill of the actual event, and the post euphoria of a wonderful adventure. Of course, some things end up being more euphoric than others, but for the most part, all those future plans go way beyond what you anticipated.

One of its main points was that people who have money tend to be happier when they give their money to benefit others rather than buying a lot of stuff for themselves.    

There are notable, even famous, exceptions of course.  

*Sigh* as you get older you will realize happiness is the ability to still get rock hard every time.  I miss that.

Since they called you out and was very upset with you in particular.
The other day on here and it's time to move on.
I agree with your points and we all know it's was mental.
So the two of you, need to move on from each other.

This drama is really stupid and you both sound like a couple getting a divorce.

 

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I can't read it without logging in. The teaser paragraph that I read talked about buying things to make you happy.

My donger in a warm wet pussy.

I suppose if it makes you feel better, you could kill a puppy with a chain saw.  However, your happiness might abruptly end when I decided to avenge the puppy and come after YOU with a chain saw.  You might want to stick with the boss thing; it's less hazardous to your health, LOL

That's my morbid and caustic sense of humor kicking in.  Now do yourself a favor and go watch "The Texas Chainsaw Massacre."

Although, what you said is off-key and JackFarm’s follow-up challenge made it a joke. I went in a different direction. (No offence taken.) Thanks for the response.

Movies like the Texas Chainsaw Massacre have done quite well at the box office, along with all its sequels. I remember that low budget movie John Carpenter’s Halloween (the only one I’ve seen, masterly filmed with low camera angles to create the suspense and horror) came out before Texas Chainsaw and also has its sequels. Then there are others that came after, like Scary Movie.

Fear is not going away, as it commands immediate attention and some even get off on it; but is it happiness or an adrenaline rush, like fight or flight to get the senses reeling, or in the case of impending doom to get the blood pumping to chill one to the bone?  Mix a little comedy with it to keep’em guessing, if that's the case.

 
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