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Ego crusher..........
LasVegan 287 reads
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there are all kinds of potential outcomes...........some good...........some not so good.  Whenever it comes to someone I truly care about.........I usually go "worst case scenario."

The worst case scenario in this one is..........of course, not knowing your friend.........you could crush his ego, inadvertently, when he finds out........and he WILL find out...........

He may go all in when he sees the reaction she is having to him..........although contrived and disingenuous......and think he scored all on his own..........and of course if he likes her..........the follow-up that will never happen..........unless of course he is willing to pay her fee.

Just one man's opinion..........

Astucious1261 reads

I have a friend (female) that wants to arrange an escort for another male friend of hers. Let's call my friend Julie and her other male friend Bob. Julie wants to have the escort meet them for drinks and act like she is a casual acquaintance of Julie. The escort would begin to flirt with Bob and hit on him. Hopefully Bob ends up getting laid and thinks he just got lucky.  

In general would a provider be up for this? It would probably be a 2-3 hour gig. This would be in Las Vegas this weekend. Julie has no sexual interest in Bob, they are just friends.  

I'm wondering if a provider would even consider this or if any hobbyists have done something similar.  

Julie and I both have Bob's best interests at heart but I feel like this might be a unethical thing to do.  

Thanks for any input!

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inicky46493 reads

But please PM me and I'll be happy to help out by playing "Bob."  My friend Bob Sugar would probably play, too.

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Bob.Sugar371 reads

I also need some unblurred photo's of Julie to see what she looks like.

I see that Devin Davette woman is pretty hot.  Maybe she can be arranged for?

Posted By: inicky46
But please PM me and I'll be happy to help out by playing "Bob."  My friend Bob Sugar would probably play, too.

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lopaw317 reads

I mean - Bob would have to be screened. Julie too. Unless you are willing to try a BP type provider that doesn't screen (red flag). You won't find many reputable TER providers willing to go along with something like that.

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hotplants348 reads

Neither of you will conspire to set him up for some pretty significant potential embarrassment.  

What if he gets laid by this beautiful professional (unbeknownst to him), and then thinks he's hit the jackpot? Wow...she REALLY likes me! And ...then.....BOOM.  

My friends paid her to fuck me?!

Not cool. Mutual consent is a non-negotiable aspect of P4P...IMO.

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impposter337 reads

Even if some good, fun and funny things might happen, there are too many bad things that can happen.

Here's one:  

Your friend Bob seems like a straight laced, nice guy nerd to you and Julie.  You set up the meet and it turns out that your Provided Date ("Mary") is Bob's ATF 'cause he's a secret monger and you never even thought it was possible.  His date blurts out, "Bob!" and he blurts out, "Mary!", he has a  massive heart attack and you spend the next 10 hours at the hospital ER.  

Don't do it

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Astucious326 reads

I'm going to share this with Julie if you don't mind. Great stuff!

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Astucious318 reads

calling the whole thing off. I knew it was a dick move but "Julie" is so hot that even though we are just friends I still let her affect my judgement. I'm way more of a nerd than Bob is. Thanks for the moral compass!

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Justina Carter291 reads

I realize there are many who are against this for ethical reasons and I 100% respect that. (It's a personal choice)  
Each time I still screened everyone and each time everyone walked away really happy!! I've actually seen 1 of them multiple times now. :-)

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LasVegan288 reads

there are all kinds of potential outcomes...........some good...........some not so good.  Whenever it comes to someone I truly care about.........I usually go "worst case scenario."

The worst case scenario in this one is..........of course, not knowing your friend.........you could crush his ego, inadvertently, when he finds out........and he WILL find out...........

He may go all in when he sees the reaction she is having to him..........although contrived and disingenuous......and think he scored all on his own..........and of course if he likes her..........the follow-up that will never happen..........unless of course he is willing to pay her fee.

Just one man's opinion..........

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Durhamdrew331 reads

I'd be pissed off and Julie would be down one friend. Think this through- you are going to make someone feel like a giant asshole. Just my 2 pennies.  

Posted By: Astucious
I have a friend (female) that wants to arrange an escort for another male friend of hers. Let's call my friend Julie and her other male friend Bob. Julie wants to have the escort meet them for drinks and act like she is a casual acquaintance of Julie. The escort would begin to flirt with Bob and hit on him. Hopefully Bob ends up getting laid and thinks he just got lucky.  
   
 In general would a provider be up for this? It would probably be a 2-3 hour gig. This would be in Las Vegas this weekend. Julie has no sexual interest in Bob, they are just friends.  
   
 I'm wondering if a provider would even consider this or if any hobbyists have done something similar.  
   
 Julie and I both have Bob's best interests at heart but I feel like this might be a unethical thing to do.  
   
 Thanks for any input!

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breannabreeze285 reads

I was asked to meet someone and it turned out the guy arranging it wasn't setting up something for himself but rather as a Christmas present to his friend...Without my knowledge or his.  To top it off he wanted his friend to pay me and the dude didn't have any money so I left even after the guy who arranged it offered to come by and give me three times my rate.  Highly embarrassing to both of us!

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LillianWest169 reads

If he's married, has a sense of humor and plays a little... strip clubs, etc. then MAYBE. I've done this before. After the session, they think you like them and they want your number. You then have to tell them the truth.

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