i was just told by a provider that I my phone number was blacklisted on an "independent verification site"
I have been a hobbyist for many years and have never had this happen. Always a gentleman and very generous. How does one correct this?? Suggestions.His number got listed on a "bad boy's" site somehow.
I don't know how it was resolved, but the Senator's suggestion will probably save you lots of time and effort if you just pick up a new burner. And if you're not using one to hobby with, this is your chance. Why anyone would hobby with their real number escapes me. Too many prying eyesNope my real number.
...and get a burner phone for use in the future.
What's done is done...and frankly it isn't a public venue in all likelihood.
Some of these BSC women put crap on those BL sites just for fun and games. The good news is that most ignore those sites. The crazies who post that nonsense have ruined for those who wanted to create a "warning" system for others destroyed any integrity of those sites. Just for grins google your phone number periodically and see if anything shows up publicly. In the unlikely event it does...then you will have a decision to make. As of now however...just play and enjoy yourself. As others have suggested, if you need to get a burner phone, do so. Otherwise if you're like many of "us" who don't give a shit about that...just march on LOLI have been a hobbyist for many years and have never had this happen. Always a gentleman and very generous.
How does one correct this??
Suggestions.
Out the lady who told you this?
Seriously.
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/showReview.asp?Review=1557777
Maybe you deserve it.
If your score is that low she better deserve it.
Prior review was a 2
You used your phone with BP in Albany?!@^#$%@
Shitforbrains she probably did you a favor.
Could it be a mistake?
I never considered using my RL phone #. Months before I meet my first provider I bought a "burner". I agree out the lady. I assume it shows who got your number listed.Seriously.
This is why references are going down the toilet and people are asking for more information as the days go by.
I can't trust a word that I say when I give a reference anymore...
when a provider does this must be a valid reason. look into this asap.
AlleyI have been a hobbyist for many years and have never had this happen. Always a gentleman and very generous.
How does one correct this??
Suggestions.
This is why so many of us are scared of warning other ladies about guys' bad behavior. Only two things can result from a chick telling a guy that he's blacklisted: either he just changes his number to dodge the negative report, or he confronts the lady who blacklisted him (which can result in many unsavory things). Weak.
I have to agree with you a million on that.
Also many gals use this tactic to poach a potentially nice date.
Super weak.
I haven't given out references except through P 411 for at least two years. I'd just as soon provide my personal info to make a lady feel comfortable, but any would be blackmailers are going to be very rudely surprised if they think they can do me any harm by "outing me", I know others are not in this situation, but I am a selfish prick, and I don't give a fuck about "others" lol
yeah, how dare he tell the truth!
apparently he is not a member of the Obama team.About this. No wonder references are as useless as tits on a bull.
I will see some women solely based on one reviewers word/review because I know that particular reviewer bc and/or I have grown a sense of trust in his words over the years.
I am sure this is also true with the ladies and getting references from others. Some gals have very professional reps and some will just give you a "he's fine" without checking to make sure they even remember seeing the guy b/c they are too lazy or too careless. Imo, ladies should use at least two forms of verification if one of them is references. I think we are agreed there.
The one thing I am sure of is that there is a "reason", whether it is a good or bad one, there is no way to tell from the information we have access too.
I do like how some people jump to one conclusion or another based on NOTHING but their own biases, and then they wonder why there is such distrust between some hookers/johns.
Wanna explain that to all the boys and girls here?
Who knows, maybe she has more info than we do? I'd like to hear what she has to say.
Seems like she is saying a hooker would never lie but I cant say for sure until she weighs back in on this. Alley?-- Modified on 2/23/2015 2:38:26 PM
To assume the guy is innocent is just as baseless and wrong as to assume that the hooker had a "good" reason. The truth of the matter is, none of us know for sure, and I do get a bit tired of seeing hookers and White Knights automatically assuming the woman is always right, and several of the Johns assuming the guy always gets the bad rap, when the truth is almost always somewhere in between.
Excellent point GG. Obviously, I've been guilty of that myself. That it is nearly universal to the human condition is no excuse for anyone to form instantaneous, baseless conclusions.